Sexual infidelity is not infidelity-Kjo - Page 11

Open marriages are the norm in Bollywood. Mostly people sleep around without considering it as cheating. Not only Bollywood, it's like this in most media industries.

Originally posted by: la_Reine

Open marriages are the norm in Bollywood. Mostly people sleep around without considering it as cheating. Not only Bollywood, it's like this in most media industries.

What is media industries?

And rumors abound from time immemorial, that the very high society do the wife swap thing every now and then

What happened to this thread? What's Jism 3 doing here

Originally posted by: Clochette

Actually, I'm a strong defender of the meaning of some words...

I wouldn't bat an eyelid if someones talks about an open relationship, but to me the word "marriage" has the meaning of a commitment that includes loyalty to the affection that should be the base of it...it doesn't - imo - include the word "open" but the word "common".

Nevertheless, I'm also a strong believer of an "open mind" and - as I'm free of the bad feeling of jealousy - I can accept when I'm not the only sexual partner as long as nothing of our "common" is touched.

If I myself feel the need to probably save my marriage by what is called "cheating" here, I would only do it with someone I got to know at a time when I didn't know yet the person I married.

Disclaimer: The "marriage" I mean has only the mutual affection as base with the free will of a mutual commitment from both sides.

What does marriage mean to you? Do you really believe marriage intrinsically means loyalty, affection, and monogamy? I don't deny that marriage is deeply meaningful to some people and they take their commitment seriously. But to quote what I said on another topic -

"People have been married to seal business deals and keep bloodlines pure. People have been married to ensure heirs to thrones and keep a tight hold on wealth. People can order a mail-order bride or have their parents fix them up with someone they will never see before a wedding. Why does this institution that has unfathomable corrupt and insidious uses evoke any sense of sanctity or purity?"

https://youtu.be/xycd6Kgk27c

Jism could be the thriving essence for the women 🤣

Kjo. Pls read.

What rubbish

Sexual or romantic or mental

Whatever it is, if you are lying to your partner , or keeping them in the dark abt it it’s cheating …if ur making a fool out of them ur cheating

All of the above infidelity can make a partner feel undesired, unloved, alone, disrespected and not valued …and these are the foundations of a marriage/romantic relationship …

KJo is blabbering nonsense just to justify sexual philandering and somehow breed tolerance for it. By doing this he is normalizing cheating in marriages and promoting this culture odd multiple partners

Mostly men philander for sex only. Sexual infidelity is actually more serious because it leads to sexual gratification, emotional dependence and conceiving life. Spending time with someone discussing technology, poetry, history, geography, dance, music etc is normal as people working together do that. What kind of twisted reason is KJo making up? He is shaming marriages for his own agenda.

Creepy fellow. 😡

Originally posted by: Jaitreya23

KJo is blabbering nonsense just to justify sexual philandering and somehow breed tolerance for it. By doing this he is normalizing cheating in marriages and promoting this culture odd multiple partners

Mostly men philander for sex only. Sexual infidelity is actually more serious because it leads to sexual gratification, emotional dependence and conceiving life. Spending time with someone discussing technology, poetry, history, geography, dance, music etc is normal as people working together do that. What kind of twisted reason is KJo making up? He is shaming marriages for his own agenda.

Creepy fellow. 😡

Correct it's just a way to suit their agenda.

Legally, religiously n morally sexual intercourse outside marriage is cheating.

These ppl want us to forget our own values n accept their philandering ways as normal.

And if they believe these things better keep it to themselves why to tell these things in interviews n promoting it amongst youth.

Originally posted by: pathaka

What rubbish

Sexual or romantic or mental

Whatever it is, if you are lying to your partner , or keeping them in the dark abt it it’s cheating …if ur making a fool out of them ur cheating

All of the above infidelity can make a partner feel undesired, unloved, alone, disrespected and not valued …and these are the foundations of a marriage/romantic relationship …

Yes n so many complications like STDs n illegitimate children.

A man would be having so many kids outside marriage n a husband wouldn't know whether wife is pregnant with his child or someone else's.

The child too would be having identity crisis.

Like here..the woman herself was not 100% sure who the father was. This is typical case of both husband n wife cheating but ultimately a child suffered.

https://youtu.be/13i0ViDkH8E