Geonka(s) and Sharma(s)- The self-victims [DT Note: pg-10] - Page 5

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

You got me wrong!I am not blaming Abhimanyu or anyone else here. I am just pointing out that after Abhimanyu’s entry into their life, their life took a downturn and it did. I am using his entry as a marker of time, not a bringer of doom.

Sorry, it just seemed like you were calling Abhimanyu “manhoos”(cant think of a better word) and I don’t agree with labelling people as “shubh” or “manhoos” etc.

But are Akshara-Abhinav the only ones whose lives took a downturn? Arohi, Abhimanyu were doing fine too as single parents to Ruhi. Akshara still has everyone including Arohi supporting and comforting her. Arohi is not able to discuss her insecurities and pain with anyone!

When Manjari can hide Neil’s birth secret then why can’t Akshara. At least Ak had a reason but what reason Manjari had and her heart didn’t melt even after seeing Neil being treated like orphan in his own house.

If anyone can be blamed for self victimisation in this show is Manjari, and Manjari alone.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

I still blame Manjiri for starting this whole mess! Her being adamant with khoon ka rishta and uniting Abhira ki family is major cause of all issues.

She ignited fire by expressing this shamelessly to Abhinav and then standing by it rather than apologizing. Manish add fuel to it by putting out stupid stupid condition. Abhinav tried stopping it there but Manjiri just added more fuel...

Atleast Manish regrets... Selfish MJ and Abhimanyu don't even care about child's mental health and everything for all the mess they created... What a family! Every parent in the Birla house supports wrong things their blood relations do!

AKSHNAV cares na baba? Why did not they stopped the court proceeding and said BP cant interfere? That they will tell the truth?

And pls child mental health ki baat na ki jaaye toh behtar hai- the child felt lost, had an identity crisis, seeks his real father but AKSHNAV KO GHANTA FARK PADTA HAI.

And where was this child psychology and safe environment when Abhir was telling his real feelings, his health issues to A STRANGER rather than confiding in with his parents.

Also, Goenkas never see any wrong in their own doing- AK and AR have committed hit and run of MJ and they have still not apologised toh baaki toh chod hi do.

And where is AKSHNAV guilt and feeling sorry for hiding truth from a child, his real father for 7 years?

Manish does not regret- he is busy in blaming Abhimanyu lol even tho it was him and before Kairav who started the case and others just fought.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

When Manjari can hide Neil’s birth secret then why can’t Akshara. At least Ak had a reason but what reason Manjari had and her heart didn’t melt even after seeing Neil being treated like orphan in his own house.

If anyone can be blamed for self victimisation in this show is Manjari, and Manjari alone.

You are completely right. Manjari can hide the birth truth, so can Akshara. So are we admiting that Akshara is as bad as Manjari? I am glad we were able to reach a mutually agreeable point for one character at least.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

When Manjari can hide Neil’s birth secret then why can’t Akshara. At least Ak had a reason but what reason Manjari had and her heart didn’t melt even after seeing Neil being treated like orphan in his own house.

If anyone can be blamed for self victimisation in this show is Manjari, and Manjari alone.

Manjiri hided the truth because she was physically, mentally abused. Neil was child out of her husband's affair and the woman instead of coming to Harsh, came to her and she raised him.

And no she was not justified in her reasons but Harsh Birla would have treated Neil the same because even when he came to know the truth, he did not melt.

And AK had reasons but Manjiri did not? Poora gen 3 dekh kar aao

It’s fault of Manjari. After she Akshara being happy with her life and having moved on, she got jealous and literally forced the duo to get hitched. Both of them are adults, if the idea of getting married was unpalatable to them, they could have put their foot down. But none did for reasons of their own.

The sharmas life took the turn for the worst for reason which were not in their control but the same cannot be said about Abhimanyu and Arohi.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

You are completely right. Manjari can hide the birth truth, so can Akshara. So are we admiting that Akshara is as bad as Manjari? I am glad we were able to reach a mutually agreeable point for one character at least.

Hehe. Good point but you missed the degree of enormity and reasons for hiding the truth. That delineates a clear difference between both the cases.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

It’s fault of Manjari. After she Akshara being happy with her life and having moved on, she got jealous and literally forced the duo to get hitched. Both of them are adults, if the idea of getting married was unpalatable to them, they could have put their foot down. But none did for reasons of their own.

The sharmas life took the turn for the worst for reason which were not in their control but the same cannot be said about Abhimanyu and Arohi.

knowing that the child you are mourning death of is alive is not a big turn. Waah.

Abhimanyu life has taken the same turn bas fark itna hai ki wo sachayi se pare tha aur jhuth ka bhaar AKSHNAV par hai.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Guys koi Goenkas aur Sharmas ko kuch nahi bolega.

Don't forget Dharmik bhavanaon ko aahat pahuncha is bad.

Apparently you can only express your opinions and be a nice human being when you support them and not call out their double face.

Bhai toh dev maanush logo ki pooja apna post khol kar bhi kar sakte hai na? Dusron ko kyun unki andh bhakti mein leen karana hai?

Main achi bhali naastik sahi

What would have happened if Manjari revealed the truth is just hypothesis now. But Akshara’s fears have become a reality.