Episode 23 Update: Happy Endings Depend on Where the Story Ends - Page 7

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Posted: 2 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, there used to be detailed descriptions on how to increase them but ab mil nahi ra. šŸ¤”

But basically if a forum gets a lot of activity and there are a lot of hot topics, then the rank increases. Commenting on articles and videos related to the show, voting on the chaska meter, following the forum - they also help. šŸ˜†


If you haven't heard Leela Ben ki kisse then good for you! Uski baatein sun kar toh khoon khol hota tha.

Oh ok.

My ITV knowledge is very limited Gur. Also these show don’t keep me hookedšŸ˜†. I am like a baby who gets exited for new toy, after sometimes they don’t even look at it🤣

There are only few shows I watched them until end.
I don’t know about leela Ben, but for me today koyal gave me negative vibes. To keep Titli away from her son she want to send her jail, after she saved her from those people🤬

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Posted: 2 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: Bhavisweet03


Absolutely worth watching episodes.

And yes in WU thread I think discussion is not allowed. We can read update only.


LOL🤣 I completely agree here. He can jump on Dhano anytime without Titli's permissionšŸ˜‰ after all now Dhanno bhi ab Garv ki hi hai šŸ˜†

🤣🤣🤣
omg he made his patent on Dhanno🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: mesravz

🤣🤣🤣
omg he made his patent on Dhanno🤣


I am waiting for the day when Garv himself ride on dhanno🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: Bhavisweet03


I am waiting for the day when Garv himself ride on dhanno🤣

Shouldn’t be surprised if he do so

He will dance to all the tunes of Titli until she become Mrs Garv

Edited by mesravz - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

This I agree with. Seeing that Garv has chosen Titli of all people over her is going to cement Koyal's hatred. You know sometimes I shudder, thinking of what kind of girl Koyal would have chosen for Garv. Agar woh Koyal jaisi hui toh?

Loll, brace yourself for all the kitchen politics that are about to come. šŸ˜†

maybe that is what he needs to realize the plight of manikant!! 🤣🤣

Edited by mango.falooda - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: mesravz

Shouldn’t be surprised if he do so

He will dance to all the tunes of Titli until she become Mrs Garv


That's true. Poor Titli. Don't want to see her heart break

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Posted: 2 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: Leah347

If Garv's character turns out to be actually as emotionally/physically abusive as the promos suggest I would much rather Titli ends up alone finally than have a "saviour hero" enter the serial. Surely women don't need to be constantly portrayed as needing a man to save them - women can be their own superheroes too.

I think substance abuse is in itself an issue that needs help, whether it leads to angry outbursts/violence and I don't think a partner/family needs to be okay with it. Same goes for trauma. I think there is some amount of internal processing on how one chooses to process their childhood/adulthood trauma - I have read about people who choose to subject that trauma to someone else/ people who choose to do their life differently by being nice/ or even people who go through a dark phase before turning good.

I mean I think whats to be seen is the extent of Garv's anger- because we all get angry tbh, but being controlling/overtly posessive/ injuries from outbursts etc are in my opinion not okay and personally i think its best for both individuals to move on even if Garv were in fact to turn good because it wont be as rosy and lovely as it was prior to the incidents of abuse. But yes for sure if Garv were to become good, he would also deserve to have happiness in his life (assuming none of his outbursts were criminal offences lol).

yes, exactly. so what is acceptable anger and how do we display this in the right way? I hope the drama answers these questions because it looks like based on the director's description (see social media thread), we are getting edgy love story. it will be interesting to see what he means by that.

have seen other dramas where characters are quite grey but their journey is so interesting to watch and you see them evolve -- basically they hurt each other but also hurt themselves in the process. however, rather than physical, it is more emotional.

like it was mentioned in another thread, the audience would never accept physical abuse from a hero but we can see things like table flipping or throwing glass etc. if it is explicit abuse, then really there are only two options: either she leaves him and walks away alone or we have a new entry ML.

as for real life, I have heard of families where a person loses their anger as they process through various means -- religion, deaddiction, therapy -- and somehow the family manages to still be connected. while we have no idea how bad or not so bad it was, it still boggles my mind when I hear of such stories. the process is difficult and yet, they come out in one piece after a few rocky years. so maybe it won't happen in other corners of the world, but I do think thats perhaps why you see a lot more grey dramas in that sense across Asia. there seems to be more hopeful notes of reconciliation and second chances despite the crazy.... or maybe it is because people don't take the dramas literally?

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Posted: 2 years ago
#68

The physical abuse may not be in the sense that he directly hits her. More like she gets hurt because of some object he threw or broke, again not at her, just in her direction. It could be that while throwing a glass, the shards scratch her or pierce her. Now, the question is just how many times he does it. How many times he doesn't intend to physically hurt her, but ends up doing so anyway. Does he learn from his mistakes and after the first time, stops that sort of behaviour or keeps on doing the same thing again and again.


I don't think anger can be gotten rid of. It's an emotion, right? Maybe it can be controlled or managed, but not completely eliminated.

They might show Garv getting therapy, attending anger management classes. It's a little far-fetched since ITV is still extremely regressive, but we can hope.


I think family can forgive, but forget? Can you forget the disrespect and abuse you've been subjected to? Wouldn't it constantly play on your mind, tainting happy memories with sad ones?


Honestly, all these posts on how this concept will be dealt with, the outcome, the extent of his anger, it's all making me all the more eager to know what happens further! Can't wait!

Edited by aaf311 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#69

Love the views you guys just shared! Agreed, its going to be super interesting to see how Garv's character evolves - exciting times ahead

Here's also hoping that they have a swimming pool so that Garv has opportunities to have cool down swimming sessions, shirtless. I would totally approve of that form of anger management

Edited by Leah347 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Leah347

Love the views you guys just shared! Agreed, its going to be super interesting to see how Garv's character evolves - exciting times ahead

Here's also hoping that they have a swimming pool so that Garv has opportunities to have cool down swimming sessions, shirtless. I would totally approve of that form of anger management

they should totally take advantage of his swimming skills for the fans. 🤣

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