Maa ki mamta - Page 3

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

You want a logical answer? Akshara thought of Abhir and only Abhir and that's why she kept him away from the toxicity that is his father and his family. And No..Abhimanyu Birla is not responsible for all that you stated but he is responsible for spousal abuse and no amount of comedic hyperbole can erase that from his arc.

Akshara already talked to Abhir about it. She already met his questions. Kudos to Akshnav that they raised such a well adjusted kid that he agreed to his mother's request :'I'll tell you everything when you grow up' which is understandable because Abhir deserves to know everything and he probably won't be able to take a lot of the truth as a kid. Most importantly how his mother was treated by his biological father. All the questions he spoke outloud in front of Abhimanyu.. If answered.. Abhir would never want to see his Docman's face after that.

Its interesting how you say Abhir is like Mini Abhi. If thats the case then he would hate Abhimanyu with the same vengeance Abhimanyu hated his own father for how he treated Manjiri. Like father, like son right? 😆

Can you explain the meaning of abuse ? Because I am getting a new new version s of what is abuse and toxicity. Well Akshara is also toxic .... With her and her sister/ Goenka family is toxic ( even birla family which people have pointed out a lot ) even when kaira was on track.... What about ruhi ? Her father Neil who is no more well how can people can forget about this. These are things which lead to what it is of now.

Well people aren't accepting that the both male lead and female lead are in wrong and had done their fair share of mistakes. We shouldn't be blind because of one character or just because she is female.

Peace ✌️

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Lets be honest, in my opinion this is extremely biased. No, Abhir is not at all exactly like Abhim, he is a mix of both. And Abhim is no angel either. Both Ak and Abhim have done wrong. Abhim has impulsively acted out throughout the show and shoved his opinions on others and also failed to show trust towards his partner and also shown 0 empathy towards someone he claimed he loved and left her at her weakest moments, while Akshara has hid multiple things and made really wrong choices, always giving preference to people without judging their intentions. If we are to point out mistakes, lets point out both sides, instead of the bias. Abhir on the other hand is a child who has shown great maturity for a 6 year old throughout. He is outspoken like Abhim at the same time has a gentle and kind side like Akshara. About Abhinav not feeling remorse, why should he? He has known Ak’s side of the story, and believes Abhim wronged her. He has been there in that phase when Abhim was not receiving Ak’s calls and was not ready to listen to her. As a stranger anybody would sympathise with a pregnant woman who is all alone over the husband who left her alone. Still Abhinav did not judge him, and after 6 years took the reveal very easily. He is letting the ex husband stay with their family, with all the past still accepting Abhim, despite Ak showing so much hatred for Abhim, Abhin did not let that affect her feelings on his. Now after 6 years if any guy who you saw rejecting the wife coming back and claiming the child, any father would get disheartened. He is showing insecurities too recently, but still treats Abhim with respect. Abhim’s mom comes up and talks all that nonsense, he cries but does not disrespect her or Abhim. So why is he bad? About Ak not caring about Abhir’s feeling, I don’t believe thats the case. She wants to tell her son the whole truth when the times are reasonable. No matter how mature the kid is, he is still a kid. Telling the truth complicates his life, and at the same time also Ruhi’s life. She worries about her husband, thats very natural too. According to me, right now, during the current track, nobody is wrong (other than Manjari for obvious reasons), but situations already turned bad post their divorce 6 years back and the events that followed, what they are dealing with right now are the repercussions of the same. What they could have done better? Abhim could have listened to her instead of acting out in anger or at least tried finding her more once he cooled off. Ak could have tried more than just calling to contact Abhim, or maybe tried calling other family members like Shefali or someone. Abhin could have tried contacting her family and let them know she was going through a complicated pregnancy.

Finally someone said it correctly. People are just bashing Abhimanyu character not even bothered about other character 's faults. Situations could have been handled better. Abhinav is so good ....

He should have listened to both side in the beginning. And let akahara know that co parenting is possible instead of just saying that my son my wife... Like you said could have done better before 6 year... He could have contacted Abhimanyu or Goenka family when she was giving birth as it was complicated... She could have died or the kid could have.... Courtesy to inform the family.... As he only knows her side of story he could have tried to reason it with her as he himself as struggling to live ...

Google it if you don’t know the meaning.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

I never said they should lie. She told Abhir that she will reveal the truth when he is grown up, which is fair to do in this situation. And parents don’t always tell everything to their kids because they are over protective of the child, and that is very natural, they don’t want the child to go deal with the hard parts of life while they are young. Coming to Abhinav, I still disagree that he is wrong here. It was always Akshara’s right to tell the truth, not his, because reality is that she is the mom. And though he is the foster dad, but Abhir’s mom has more right on him, and considering she has been there with the kid throughout and is the one who brought the kid to Abhinav’s life anyways, and during that time clearly Ak did not trust Abhim. Still Abhin revealed the truth, which I think I have said earlier too, was not something he should have done. Instead Ak should have been the one. Same with how Abhin showed Abhim Abhir’s childhood picture, in that too I feel it was not his place to be. Why he can judge Abhim? Because he was there with Ak and witnessed her journey post WD, and was the one who took care of her and did all that Abhim should have done. So yeah, he can easily call out Abhim for his absence in Ak’s life and for leaving her in such dire situations. Agreed to the point Abhim can not be called out for not being there for Abhir in those 6 years as that right was taken away from him by Ak. But calling him out for leaving a wife who miscarried, despite himself being a doctor is quite a fair say I believe.

To be honest he cannot judge Abhimanyu without knowing his side of the story ... He only knows what akshara has gone through during her pregnancy..... Did he know the reason behind the divorce? Why did she sign it ? Did he know that a mother who lost a son and grandkids was in trauma? Or that the person who died is like her brother and her sisters husband and sisters kids father? Didn't ruhi know her real papa ? .... I mean we can say a lot of things based on the way we see it .... But no one here is that selfless..... Abhinav till some point yes but he too is selfish on having family.... Abhimanyu on wanting to be part of his son is right which akshara or abhinav cannot change the true facts .... It's just that akshara needs to sort out her mind and heart instead of just thinking on abhinavs feelings.... What is right should be judged rightly not based on emotional and feelings ... Justice should not be biased.... if she wants to tell " her" side of story to abhir and let her tell the reson for Neil death to ruhi .... Let's see what will happen.... No matter how much anyone says lie ...truth will come out one day ...that day people will suffer.... The most is the kids and consequences had to be borne by akshara the most

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Google it if you don’t know the meaning.

Funny 😂 it was a sarcastic remark...but ...well anyways people needs to understand the actual meaning of abuse or toxicity.... people use it for everything and anything.....also coming back to the show as AK has given law exam.... She can file complaint on these.

Peace ✌️

Originally posted by: Naay

Finally someone said it correctly. People are just bashing Abhimanyu character not even bothered about other character 's faults. Situations could have been handled better. Abhinav is so good ....

He should have listened to both side in the beginning. And let akahara know that co parenting is possible instead of just saying that my son my wife... Like you said could have done better before 6 year... He could have contacted Abhimanyu or Goenka family when she was giving birth as it was complicated... She could have died or the kid could have.... Courtesy to inform the family.... As he only knows her side of story he could have tried to reason it with her as he himself as struggling to live ...

Bang on. 10 on 10. ( Abhi's Dialogue). There is only one person who is entitled to sacrifices and achai ka aatma. That is none other than Mr. Abhinav Sharma. Rest all whatever Abhi does is toxicity and selfishness. Conveniently Abhimanyu turns to be biological dad( to perform puja or do surgery), rest all it is mera beta ji and mera patni hain ji. Not an ounce of guilt. Atleast he can keep his mouth shut . Yes we agree that u have helped Ak in difficult times.

Definitely Abhir is not going to hate Abhimanyu but makers have pushed his character , literally demolished just to portray one person who calls himself on and off gareeb and his pura family which he refuses to accept is not his.

So just to put Abhi down Zama the innovative writer may go down to show that track too. As such Abhir does not have hatred as one of his trait at all. I wish he is loved by Abhir. He deserves to be loved.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

I think you misunderstood my reply. I still feel Abhim’s mistake is much bigger. He should have thought about her, miscarriage is a big thing and women go through bad depression post things like that, and he is not just the husband but a doctor too, so that makes the situation worse. Maybe just a little empathy would have made his character much likable to me. I do understand his situation too, that he was not in his right mind, but 5-6 months is too long of a time period to not care about your missing ex. Itna bura to ex boyfriends bhi treat nhi karte shayad😅. But haan, nobody is saying Ak was not at all at fault. And for Abhin too, he should have tried contacting the Goenkas at least, I can give still him the pass though maybe thinking that he did not know how to contact Ak’s family members because Ak ne number nhi diya hoga. Usko Ak ka naam bhi galat hi pata tha for a long time

Agreed with the faults od Abhimanyu.... I basically think it's lack of communication and assuming things lead to him now finding her for 5-6 months .... Well his mom was hospitalized.... Any child would be taking care of his/her mother.... I still didn't get why didn't she comeback when bade papa went to get her.... It could have solved many things.... Toofani Raat n all would not have happened...

Well i can't say anything anymore after these.... have stopped watching it since last 3/4 episodes because writers have written what they want to.... Because in the end they are the writers....we are just viewers....

Peace ✌️

Originally posted by: Naay

Agreed with the faults od Abhimanyu.... I basically think it's lack of communication and assuming things lead to him now finding her for 5-6 months .... Well his mom was hospitalized.... Any child would be taking care of his/her mother.... I still didn't get why didn't she comeback when bade papa went to get her.... It could have solved many things.... Toofani Raat n all would not have happened...

Well i can't say anything anymore after these.... have stopped watching it since last 3/4 episodes because writers have written what they want to.... Because in the end they are the writers....we are just viewers....

Peace ✌️

@bold; Pure ego 😆….but everyone likes to pretend she has no ego because she faced traumatic situations. Even Abhi was going though trauma and grief during that time after so many deaths and his mom almost dying too. But everyone rushes to say he didn’t go after Akshara coz of ego 🤷‍♀️

Mistakes were made on both sides but what Akshara did with replacing him as a father has implications that can’t be reversed. A divorced wife can marry again like Akshara did. What is Abhimanyu supposed to do about Akshara erasing him from his son’s life? He will never be called Papa now cuz his son has been taught to call someone else Papa 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: Naay

To be honest he cannot judge Abhimanyu without knowing his side of the story ... He only knows what akshara has gone through during her pregnancy..... Did he know the reason behind the divorce? Why did she sign it ? Did he know that a mother who lost a son and grandkids was in trauma? Or that the person who died is like her brother and her sisters husband and sisters kids father? Didn't ruhi know her real papa ? .... I mean we can say a lot of things based on the way we see it .... But no one here is that selfless..... Abhinav till some point yes but he too is selfish on having family.... Abhimanyu on wanting to be part of his son is right which akshara or abhinav cannot change the true facts .... It's just that akshara needs to sort out her mind and heart instead of just thinking on abhinavs feelings.... What is right should be judged rightly not based on emotional and feelings ... Justice should not be biased.... if she wants to tell " her" side of story to abhir and let her tell the reson for Neil death to ruhi .... Let's see what will happen.... No matter how much anyone says lie ...truth will come out one day ...that day people will suffer.... The most is the kids and consequences had to be borne by akshara the most