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Even now I feel anupama never really loved anuj , she married him only for romance which was missing in first marriage , she was highly romantic, vanraj was highly unromantic specially 4 her as he was never really interested in her , vanraj interest is eyeing other men wives or unme sukoon dhundna , so her life was dry with anuj entry she got a chance 4 romance so I guess she only want romance from this marriage not responsibilities , and vanraj insulted her so it's her way to make him jealous that she got someone interested in her who is more successful than him .

Pehle yeh samajh mein mein aaye ki marriage mein Contribution ka kya Matlab hai

Generally wife wake up and after bath they prepare breakfast for family then do house hold chores they with the help of maid they go to office then they come

They when children come back from school they charge their dress they give them lunch chidren take rest then do homework mother help in study for 1 hr then mother go to kitchen or market with chidren

Some time mother go for shopping at afternoon noon

And then evening snacks and then night dinner phir kapde press school bag lagana subah ke liye raat mein tayari hoti Hai

Aamtor pe yahi marriage mein contribution Hota hai

So they did show anupama preaparing packing lunch for anuj and choti

Laying dress for anuj for office

Removing glass from anuj body applying ointment

These was shown in 2,4 episode

During paralyzed anupama was shown helping anuj in walking and also anupama doing hand massage of anuj

Ab iske elawa contribution kya hota marriage hai mujhe nahi Pata

So I want to know yahan contribution ka kya matlab Jai

BTW unless cvs show each and every thing that moreover if writer dont show daily combing choti hair daily packing lunch daily preparing lunch for anuj that means anupama is not contributing in marrIage

Like in each and every episode cvs must show

Anupama waking up choti phir choti tooth brush pe tooth paste laga ke diya phir choti ko nehlaaya phir use apne haath break fast karaya phir uske baal comb Kia phir use breakfast diya doodh mein complan mila kur diya use school choda etc

Romance Bhi tho chahiye na Married life mein.🤪Don't u like romance?😳Jab Maa wants romance in her marital life usmein problem kya hain?

Speaking about responsibility.she was always a very caring and responsible wife. she tried to make both her marriages work.But couldn't due to ill luck or fate.😒

Initially she was relactant to accept her feelings for Anuj due to the failure of first marraige.But due to Hansmukh's encouragement she thought about taking a second chance.

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Even now I feel anupama never really loved anuj , she married him only for romance which was missing in first marriage , she was highly romantic, vanraj was highly unromantic specially 4 her as he was never really interested in her , vanraj interest is eyeing other men wives or unme sukoon dhundna , so her life was dry with anuj entry she got a chance 4 romance so I guess she only want romance from this marriage not responsibilities , and vanraj insulted her so it's her way to make him jealous that she got someone interested in her who is more successful than him .

Vanraj was not really interested in her she was never his Choice but still fulfill his needs from her🤢 , pakhi kaand only happened just stop her to go America , vanraj I doubt ever loved her or cared 4 her . Her so called marriage of 26 lack all d things which a normal marriage had , anupama devi was not allowed to step outside d house also . Her life was terrible but she loved that life only

Makers ruined everything. They even ruined the only good character on this show a d that is Anuj kapadia. They get rid of positive character likeGK kaka , Mukku and Rakhi dave .

I don't why makers so obessed with Shah family

Originally posted by: lakshmikumr

1 ) what was anupama's expectations from his second marriage?

Anu wanted to be loved and respected by Anuj .....this is what dkp wants us to believe but what we saw she secured the entire Husmukh Shah Clan's future.⭐️

2 ) what is anupama's contribution in her name sake second marriage

Anu made him realize Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.😔

True anuapma and shahs took advantage of fact that anuj had no one was all alone and called him on all festivals to trap him

anuj had no family no one to share his life with no mom dad brother sister wife or kids so he ran to shahs

If ankush, malvika, CA and GK were there with anuj first only than why anuj go to shahs or anupam ahouse on festivals birthdays etc he enjoy with his sister cousins unkle etc

Also vanraj used same strategy for Malvika she was all lone even anuj never bother about her for 10 years after hubby raped and abused her and anuj got her back from hubby house so she fell in vanraj trap

If anuj show some love and care to malvika spent time with her loved her took her on trip with him last 10 years basically treat her like family i doubt vanraj could trap her n love affair online and in office

Indeed foolish anuj as brother was openly encouraging vanraj to target her by saying malvika and vanraj will take kapadiya empire to great heights at christmas celebrations. Any other brother would go wild at vanraj intercation with his sister whose young enough to be vanraj daughter and would threten vanraj of dire consequensces and kick him out of vanika group and kapadiya group

But lovlorn puppy anuj knew everything kept quiet as he wanted anupama only and did not care if malvika would be taken advantage by vanraj

The answer to both questions is Anupamaa assuming "Mein sab sab sab kar lungi" and "Mujhe sab sab sab chahiye"

Without being biased any external person who sees Anupamaa will say that she is addicted to Micromanagement and has a huge FOMO (fear of missing out) complex.

She decided that she can keep being a mother and DIL even after divorce and also maintain a career. Dude!! Marriage rarely stops a woman from having a career, motherhood and responsibilities of in-laws does. No husband needs a wife 24/7 in front of him so when he is at office you can be at office too. But other family members need her which is why they usually can't go to office full-time.

She also decided she can include Anuj and CA in her life without excluding anything else. Look how that went.

She couldn't clear clutter and retain only what's necessary, that doomed her.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

The answer to both questions is Anupamaa assuming "Mein sab sab sab kar lungi" and "Mujhe sab sab sab chahiye"

Without being biased any external person who sees Anupamaa will say that she is addicted to Micromanagement and has a huge FOMO (fear of missing out) complex.

She decided that she can keep being a mother and DIL even after divorce and also maintain a career. Dude!! Marriage rarely stops a woman from having a career, motherhood and responsibilities of in-laws does. No husband needs a wife 24/7 in front of him so when he is at office you can be at office too. But other family members need her which is why they usually can't go to office full-time.

She also decided she can include Anuj and CA in her life without excluding anything else. Look how that went.

She couldn't clear clutter and retain only what's necessary, that doomed her.

Mujhe to Anupama ke character ke baare mein n kuch bhi likhna time waste lagta hai she is just a laughing stock for me 🤣😂

1) Expectations : What everyone expects at this age; companionship, being loved unconditionally. Someone to take stand for her. Strong support system. She thought Anuj had loved her for 26 years so he would understand her past baggage. She put anuj on pedestal just cause he didn’t marry. She had unrealistic expectations. And Anuj also contributed to her delusional thoughts by pretending that he is extraordinary(beyond the basic needs of normal human beings). She thought Mr Shah was solely responsible for her failed marriage but now she should realize, marriage is not her Cup of tea and nothing is unconditional, everything is transactional.

2) Contributions : Cooking, Singing and dancing for Anuj and sometimes babysitting Anuj's daughter.