With an intent to close one debate - Page 4

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

They didn’t just meet six months earlier, they lived together during that duration. If one couldn’t judge the basic nature of a person while living with them for six months, one should rather never enter into a relationship.

The same girl couldn't judge the nature of mata and her pyara bacha after knowing them for like 3 years and living with them for 1-2 years.

I won't trust her instincts honestly 😂

See this is now just for the sake of argument you saying.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Let me be romanticist and indulge me - the moment Ak met AbN, she felt an affinity with which she never felt with anyone and as such she didn’t have any hesitation to live with him and once she knew how gem of man he is, she decided to marry him. Is this good enough a reason?

Noo coz this didn't happen and again why are you narrowing it down to navra.

My post has two points:

a) Would you really live with a stranger under those conditions rather than your family or say friends. Wasn't she in boarding ek bhi dost nahi bana?

b) why we can't compare her marrying abhimanyu after meeting him in a fest and marrying nav after meeting him in a bus. ( Regardless of the outcome)

What the heck! You are arguing just for the argument sake. There are thousands of cases where love marriages turn sour despite years of courtship and so do arranged marriages despite thorough background check. So what do we make out from their outcomes - it’s better to not get into relationships at all.

There is something called conscious decision which one makes and be responsible for that. Ak made her choice and we better learn to live with that.


And why this sudden interest in her choice cropped up on the very day she chose to confess her feelings for that very stranger.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

My point is this if a guy has no background means being an orphan is not a problem and I have respect for everyone. But a stranger without any background what if he is a criminal on the run?how safe is it marrying him on a short notice even if its after 6 months of meeting him? 😊

Lol. She failed once so she had forfeited the right to choose again. Life is all about choices, we sometimes choose wrong and sometimes right but just because we took a wrong turn we don’t stop making choices.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

When getting married to Mr.Birla who is a famous n rich Dr who also have a toxic huge family .most of them are . Harsh, Mj, Mahima ,Anisha n Parth did she expect him to be an abuser who can kick her out immediately after miscarriage and accuse him for 9 murders and also call her of her own mother’s murderer? So how can anyone judge a person just because he is an orphan? And then u say u have respect for orphans?u meant to say all the criminals are only orphans ? Staying with a person for 6 months is more than enough for anyone to know how the other person is . And she have all the rights to decide for herself. It’s her choice to stay single or get married to someone who she met in the bus ,who is a sweet person and helped her and stood beside her even after she slapped him for no reason.Anywau why discuss when her made 2nd choice turned out to be the best.

If marrying into such a well-known family got her into trouble, why would she soon choose to marry a stranger just a few months later? Isn't it contradictory to risk it again by marrying a good-hearted stranger?wasn’t she being too naive?

She was booted out from the hostel the very day she boarded there because she was pregnant and landed in a police station on the suspicion of prostitution. (If not for nav, she would have been in jail and delivered her baby there.)

The next day police came to check on her to see whether the excuse given by AbN was true and Ak saved him.

And this is the point where their relationship clicked and Ak chose to stay with the stranger who will later become her everything.

She was in touch with her family and said she did not want to go, so if the family is really a family, should they not come to her? agar nahi aayee...to kya family? can think how unwanted akshu would have felt....

she had lost everything that day, ..kisi accident mein marr sakti thi....who from her family cared? Koi tha uske saath when her husband threw her out after signing the divorce papers....cant imagine her mental state....

so jo bach gaya, uske liye woh bhangwan ki kripa hai...and she herself was alive, and saath came to know abhir was alive too...uske liye to abhinav ek farishta bann kar aaya...and he supported her through her toughest period without expectation....jpolice, hostel, house....7 month kafi han jaane ke liye.....

jaan pehchaaan wale bhi ajeebo gareeb nikal aaye hain..iI have seen cases, jahan family ki raza marzi se shaadi hui hai..but family was wrong....

agar aap real life ke baat kar rahe ho, I can add, think most of us will not want marry a person who has proposed our sister.....🤣🤣 I

Originally posted by: India_TV

She was in touch with her family and said she did not want to go, so if the family is really a family, should they not come to her? agar nahi aayee...to kya family? can think how unwanted akshu would have felt....

she had lost everything that day, ..kisi accident mein marr sakti thi....who from her family cared? Koi tha uske saath when her husband threw her out after signing the divorce papers....cant imagine her mental state....

so jo bach gaya, uske liye woh bhangwan ki kripa hai...and she herself was alive, and saath came to know abhir was alive too...uske liye to abhinav ek farishta bann kar aaya...and he supported her through her toughest period without expectation....jpolice, hostel, house....7 month kafi han jaane ke liye.....

jaan pehchaaan wale bhi ajeebo gareeb nikal aaye hain..iI have seen cases, jahan family ki raza marzi se shaadi hui hai..but family was wrong....

agar aap real life ke baat kar rahe ho, I can add, think most of us will not want marry a person who has proposed our sister.....🤣🤣 I

Exactly my point. I have been making this point on every post that calls Akshu out, every post eho defended AbhiM.

I finally questions her now after watching her with her family now.

Why is letting Muskaan marry into such family.

And i believe if I supported her i am allowed to question too.

Other than this i still believe this was not my point.

I asked how marrying abhimanyu shouldn't be compared to her marrying abhinav.(regardless of the outcome) given a real life situation. Trust me no one on sane girl will go live with a guy she met on a bus. Also, she didn't met he intrude her space. He jumped right in k lao i will help. I wouldn't trust a guy like that.

Akshara did coz Jay Soni tha usko sequence pta tha simple hai.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

If marrying into such a well-known family got her into trouble, why would she soon choose to marry a stranger just a few months later? Isn't it contradictory to risk it again by marrying a good-hearted stranger?wasn’t she being too naive?

Btw AbM. Knows how Ar is and what extends she can go to achieve her goals.. why did he chose to get engaged to her for the 3rd time ?