Ak's Strange love - Page 6

Not only that i found his reasoning with the whole KV issue really flawed he's always went behind both AbhiM nd KV saying bhaiji bhaiji bhaiji....but then when he was talking to AK in the room nd they had this intense love is not for middle class nd uk it better AK conversation it seemed that he did hold some grievances against them but never addressed those rather acted as if they never existed

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Exactly. Thank you.

Add to that, she was pregnant and the doctor told specifically to avoid any physical or emotional strain. Playing detective, confronting Arohi etc can definitely be called both physical and emotional strain. It's 9 months, why can't she just live drama free for 9 months ?

And trust me, iss nature ki wajah se shaddi mai dusre partner ko zyada alert rehna padta hai due to other partners tendency to cause blunders on every given chance.
Abhimanyu was exactly that dusra partner jisko bahot high alert rehna padta tha during that pregnancy phase before their one baby died.

Yeah

Would be great to know his exact thoughts on Abhira. Coz honestly speaking if he thinks Abhira won't have any sort of unsaid understanding than he is wrong.

These are two people who were in deep love, have a child together lots of history so obviously acting as if Abhira was never there coz he didn't witness the story himself is his illusion.

Let's see how they unfold this. He is clearly not liking whenever he sees them communicating via eyes

Originally posted by: DevilHere

I think AK once mentioned to him that Abhir is not Abhimanyu+Akshara rather Abhinav+Akshara or she said it to someone else but she's lied about this too 😆....iss ladki ka samjh nhi aata with all the grudges nd grievances she's held against AbhiM why would she name their child as their couple name ....nd the stupid guy bought the it's Abhinav+Akshara lie too...both idiots

Lol i mean jitna bada hashtag inhone apne room mein lgaya tha Abhira ka it's quite clear Abhir Abhira(AbhiM and Akshara se hi aaya hai uske dimag mein tha)

That' where Nav messes up the most he's clearly not happy seeing those two conspiring together whatever good or bad reason but still wants to be the bigger person by letting AbhiM stay there....infact he was the one who insisted AbhiM stay there....nd he didn't say anything to Ak when AbhiM offered to leave for the wedding nd she insisted on him staying back

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Why not? In joint family, Problematic sasuralwalo ke sath real life mai bahot husband-wife aise he deal karte hai.

Problematic sasural walo ke problems mai ghuso he matt, emotional support do unki zarurat ke hisab se lekin jhanda na lo unki life ko sahi karne ka , that was the whole point of Abhimanyu to just focus on your marriage and life partner.

Muje yeh bahot he zyada sahi point laga tha Abhimanyu jab usne clearly samjaya ki meri joint family mai kisi ke problems ka jhanda na lena.

Real life mai bhi husband or wife apne life partner se same baat karte hai.

Log apne life partner ko apna nahi samajte isiliye aisa nahi bolte hai. Log apne life partner ko aisa isliye bolte hai ki joint family ke siyappo mai ghus kar unka husband-wife ka rishta damage na ho.

Muje akshara bilkul bhi pasand nahi hai and aap ko Abhimanyu bilkul bhi pasand nahi hai. We both have very strong dislike for particular characters so I have always avoided communication still couldn’t resist myself from writing this reply because as a married woman maine jo Abhimanyu ne kaha waisa dealing way bahot closely dekha hai and it helps a lot to lead peaceful marriage life with life partner in very problematic joint family.

So relatable

I'm born in joint family of 5 brothers (no sister)

And we were 14 cousins now 13 our eldest cousin the first born of our generation died before corona , she was like a mother for all of us

Anyways so I comes on no. 10 n my real brother on num 13

I have seen so many fights in our family sometimes on petty issue and have seen them coming back together like nothing happened

But during the last fight that happened in our family, we have learnt that it's better to remain neutral

Dusre ke fate mai kyo tang adani hai

Isse apni bhi bigad jaati hai

That fight was the worst one and costed us a life of a daughter of our family

Yes after my didi's death we all come back together only to realise life is too short to keep grudges

Aur humara toh kisi se issue bhi nhi tha

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Agar muje hamesha galat time par galat kaam karne ka mann hoge toh muje mere husband definitely bolege ki tum yeh matt karo tum woh matt karo and it’s not CAGE, it’s called marriage jaha aap ko baar baar apne partner ko reminder dena padta hai because you know your partner can do wrong task on wrong time.

And trust me, iss nature ki wajah se shaddi mai dusre partner ko zyada alert rehna padta hai due to other partners tendency to cause blunders on every given chance.
Abhimanyu was exactly that dusra partner jisko bahot high alert rehna padta tha during that pregnancy phase before their one baby died.

Kisne bola ke bolna ya tokna is the problem? If somebody's nature is to continue doing blunders , uske saath kya karna chahiye uske pati ko? Divorce deke aadhi raat ko ghar se nikal dena when she miscarried a few hours ago?

Parents also tend to overprotect their children so that they don't do mistakes but at one point they have to let go so that the child learns from them ..akshara wasn't someone who abhimanyu could babysit , if he was babysitting he failed to do so , he left her alone..if she was capable of doing blunders she shouldn't be pregnant, shouldn't be left alone , basically locked up in a cage only .

Originally posted by: Krinya

Kisne bola ke bolna ya tokna is the problem? If somebody's nature is to continue doing blunders , uske saath kya karna chahiye uske pati ko? Divorce deke aadhi raat ko ghar se nikal dena when she miscarried a few hours ago?

Parents also tend to overprotect their children so that they don't do mistakes but at one point they have to let go so that the child learns from them ..akshara wasn't someone who abhimanyu could babysit , if he was babysitting he failed to do so , he left her alone..if she was capable of doing blunders she shouldn't be pregnant, shouldn't be left alone , basically locked up in a cage only .

As I said, jab kisi bhi shaddi mai ek partner ko wrong time par wrong task karne ki urge hoti rehti ho tab blunders hote rehte hai that’s why dusre partner ko alert rehna he padta hai.

Agar apne partner ki tendency ko samaj kar koi bar bar careful rehne ke liye alert karta rahe toh usko babysit karna nahi bolte hai.

Alert rehne mai, alert karne mai and babysit karne mai bahot fark hai.

Akshara ne apni tendency ko hamesha sabse uper rakkha. Yaha tak ki apne ek baby ki life ke bhi uper apni tendency ko rakkha. Akshara ke liye apni core tendency sabse zyada important thi isiliye apne baby ki life ke liye bhi kuch sensitive months ke liye apni tendency ko chodne ko taiyar nahi thi.

Aisi tendency ka kya karna jo aapko, aap ke unborn bacche ko , aap ke pati ko, aap ki shaddi ko, aap ke rishte ko khoon ke aasu rula jaye!

Abhimanyu hamesha uski isi tendency se darta rehta tha kyunki usko pata tha ki uske life partner ke liye sabse uper khud ki tendency hai that’s why he was quite alert.

Jis din uske partner ki uss tendency ki Jeet hui uss din unka rishta , unka shaddi, unka baccha and woh dono khoon ke aasu roye, tab ja kar usne divorce manga kyunki pyar toh tha lekin woh samaj gaya tha ki uske partner ke liye baccha,shaddi,pyar sab se uper hamesha apni tendency rahegi jiska koi kuch nahi kar sakta.

Abhimanyu ne divorce zarur manga tha lekin ghar se aadhi raat ko nahi nikala tha.
Abhimanyu ki divorce ki timing wrong and insensitive thi lekin iska matlab yeh nahi hai ki Akshara sahi thi ya abhimanyu ka divorce mangne ka reason galat tha.

Again this is what I feel. Akshara character ke liye apni tendency sabse uper hai and apni tendency ke liye woh apna baccha tak daav par laga sakti hai aur mere liye mera baccha, Meri shaddi he sabse uper hai that’s why I can’t like or connect with Akshara.

Originally posted by: DevilHere

A lot of things r different when it comes to reel honestly

Nd AbhiN has his own shortcomings too....for eg his financials...not for the fact that he's a driver but that he's never wanted to be more than a driver...he doesn't have a growth mindset at all...nd the way he includes hum middle class logo h into pretty much everything it feels like he's made his finances a part of his personality or those recent insecurities he got...at one point he was poked nd it made sense but then he was pretty much insecure at anything nd he went overboard with it.... he's also shown as so good that it's almost troublesome

None of these will obviously compare to the white day but then that's the thing about love if AbhiM can still redeem himself in eyes of AK that' all that will matter

Personally agree with you that this narrative in real life that u should fall in love with a guy if he's nice to u can be very toxic....coz most of the times the same nice guy will take a complete u turn if rejected nd they were only good to u coz they were expecting u to fall in love if they were nice to u....once they realise that' not the case things go downhill pretty quick

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

well they are not genuine good guy who cannot handle rejection..they pretend to be good..

But then that's the case with most people anyway atleast from what I've experienced....even if don't essentially turn bad or do any mean stuff once they realise that i haven't got a chance with this person they'll start withdrawing the care they once gave atleast that option i find fair too....u can't invest so much time nd efforts for a person who's not gonna reciprocate ur feelings.... they're so many people out their in the world it's better to invest ur efforts for someone who can atleast appreciate the efforts...why make a fool out of ourselves

Coming to ur original topic atleast that'been my personal experience but u just don't fall in love with a person if they're good to u.... honestly no one needs someone to as good as they've shown Nav to survive this world ... someone half decent would suffice...she pretty much didn't fall in love with him coz she never tried nd even if she tried (which she's rn there's still a chance she won't fall in love with him nd might end up falling for someone who's half as good as Nav but has qualities she likes....but alas since she's an ITV lead they're gonna whitewash AbhiM nd she'll end up with him)