Ak's Strange love - Page 4

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

Love is so strange.. I don't get it.. is this only about irresistible attraction? Sexual tension? What ak feel for abhi now? Nostalgia?

No matter how good her current husband Nav is,no matter how much he loved her and her son, supported her, accepted her with all flaws, saved her and respected her,she couldn't love him...love cannot be forced I Know that,but why someone need to force themselves to love such a good partner? Naturally kyun nehi hota?

Dusri taraf Abhi her passionate lover,her first husband,who divorced her two time,left her the day she had a miscarriage,didn't look for her in 6 years if she's alive or dead somewhere..her anger is going away slowly and she's back to loving him,when he's actually doing bare minimum to redeem himself..he just have to behave normal and she will go gaga over him soon.. is passionate, intense love worth two,three divorce a year?so i actually don't know what love is and how it works

What you see in a person before falling in love? Good looks or Good behavior and good future ahead? I don't believe Pyaar ho jata hain,bina soche samjhe😂

I think the Love they are trying to show here is the emotion/connection you feel for someone, the pull you feel towards them inspite of logic and reason telling you otherwise.

I am not sure if you have seen GoT. I find Jamie and Cersie’s love similar to what they are showing here. Overlooking that Jamie-Cersei’s relation was incest, the attraction they feel towards each other was beyond logic, specifically for Jamie. He pulled away from Cersei for a while, he knew the monster Cersei was, he knew how everyone ridiculed their love, at one point he also realised he could be a better version of himself if he is out of Cersei’s sphere of influence, but as soon as he heard Cersei was in grave danger, everything else evaporated and he went running back to her even if it meant just to die with her.

Such love is pure emotion/feeling, but when you have to live - specially when it conflicts with reason - it is a challenge.

I do believe you can’t evoke emotions if they are not there - you can pretend but genuine emotions just happen. Hence the state of Ak. Ak is trying to fall in love with Abhinav because it makes sense, not because she feels anything for him. With Abhi she felt that genuine pull of emotions, but because of conflicting personalities they found it challenging to live together.

The term “love” specifically when it comes to marriage in general has become synonymous to person choosing her/his own partner (rather than parents or other choosing for them as had become prevalent in past), so when you are looking for good looks, good behaviour, etc you are looking for a suitor not love.

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

You rightly said Love is strange and to add to that every person has their know version/definition of what Love means to them.

I think the Love they are trying to show here is the emotion/connection you feel for someone, the pull you feel towards them inspite of logic and reason telling you otherwise.

I am not sure if you have seen GoT. I find Jamie and Cersie’s love similar to what they are showing here. Overlooking that Jamie-Cersei’s relation was incest, the attraction they feel towards each other was beyond logic, specifically for Jamie. He pulled away from Cersei for a while, he knew the monster Cersei was, he knew how everyone ridiculed their love, at one point he also realised he could be a better version of himself if he is out of Cersei’s sphere of influence, but as soon as he heard Cersei was in grave danger, everything else evaporated and he went running back to her even if it meant just to die with her.

Such love is pure emotion/feeling, but when you have to live - specially when it conflicts with reason - it is a challenge.

I do believe you can’t evoke emotions if they are not there - you can pretend but genuine emotions just happen. Hence the state of Ak. Ak is trying to fall in love with Abhinav because it makes sense, not because she feels anything for him. With Abhi she felt that genuine pull of emotions, but because of conflicting personalities they found it challenging to live together.

The term “love” specifically when it comes to marriage in general has become synonymous to person choosing her/his own partner (rather than parents or other choosing for them as had become prevalent in past), so when you are looking for good looks, good behaviour, etc you are looking for a suitor not love.

Not supporting Abhira here but sometimes love is love. It doesn't make sense. Specially in reel life.

About Navra as much as i Won't want to be with someone like Abhi after knowing his anger and impulsive issues in first person I won't like a plain vanila Abhinav too.

Fee reasons AbhiN isn't career driven as in he likes stability and monotonous life more than needed. Will never understand his choice to be only driver never shown if he even wants to own a business of his own or anything. He has no layers.

Often in real life i encountered with these nice guys i realised one issue which is they feel theya re entitled to be loved be it subconsciously its in their actions somewhere in the talks that why girls go for bad guys/playboys, girls friend zone nice guys etc.

Here with AbhiN so far he hasn't shown like that he feels he should be loved by Akshara instead of AbhiM but I feel audience/forum members feel like he is entitled and hence this debate happens almost on every other topic.

What i feel is if AbhiM redeem himself and Akshara even after everything chooses him that's okay. Her choice.

And if she chooses Nav then also it's quite obvious why.

What is important here is that the only good message will be AbhiM redemption without it nothing will make sense. With it both choice works is fine.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

No he wanted her to not interfere in his family matters, despite being a DIL of the family. This is a bit problematic for me. What is she supposed to do then? Turn a blind eye to everything and devote her full attention to her husband only.

Muje yeh bahot he zyada sahi point laga tha Abhimanyu jab usne clearly samjaya ki meri joint family mai kisi ke problems ka jhanda na lena.

Real life mai bhi husband or wife apne life partner se same baat karte hai.

Log apne life partner ko apna nahi samajte isiliye aisa nahi bolte hai. Log apne life partner ko aisa isliye bolte hai ki joint family ke siyappo mai ghus kar unka husband-wife ka rishta damage na ho.

Muje akshara bilkul bhi pasand nahi hai and aap ko Abhimanyu bilkul bhi pasand nahi hai. We both have very strong dislike for particular characters so I have always avoided communication still couldn’t resist myself from writing this reply because as a married woman maine jo Abhimanyu ne kaha waisa dealing way bahot closely dekha hai and it helps a lot to lead peaceful marriage life with life partner in very problematic joint family.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Why not? In joint family, Problematic sasuralwalo ke sath real life mai bahot husband-wife aise he deal karte hai.

Problematic sasural walo ke problems mai ghuso he matt, emotional support do unki zarurat ke hisab se lekin jhanda na lo unki life ko sahi karne ka , that was the whole point of Abhimanyu to just focus on your marriage and life partner.

Muje yeh bahot he zyada sahi point laga tha Abhimanyu jab usne clearly samjaya ki meri joint family mai kisi ke problems ka jhanda na lena.

Real life mai bhi husband or wife apne life partner se same baat karte hai.

Log apne life partner ko apna nahi samajte isiliye aisa nahi bolte hai. Log apne life partner ko aisa isliye bolte hai ki joint family ke siyappo mai ghus kar unka husband-wife ka rishta damage na ho.

Muje akshara bilkul bhi pasand nahi hai and aap ko Abhimanyu bilkul bhi pasand nahi hai. We both have very strong dislike for particular characters so I have always avoided communication still couldn’t resist myself from writing this reply because as a married woman maine jo Abhimanyu ne kaha waisa dealing way bahot closely dekha hai and it helps a lot to lead peaceful marriage life with life partner in very problematic joint family.

Exactly. Thank you.

Add to that, she was pregnant and the doctor told specifically to avoid any physical or emotional strain. Playing detective, confronting Arohi etc can definitely be called both physical and emotional strain. It's 9 months, why can't she just live drama free for 9 months ?

AbhiM mostly told her the first day that my family is really complicated aur don't get involved in their matters nd yet she always did nd that was what his rant was about....she might've done everything out of good intentions but most of the time she was really stupid nd caused problems.... especially AK nd uski baat chupane ki aadat.... she seems to be doing the same with Nav too.

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

That's irresistible attraction and sexual attraction.. that's why no logic for Falling in love..

And yes if love is an emotions, then it do not have logic.

When you apply rational logic to something then it becomes a conscious decision.

A lot of things r different when it comes to reel honestly

Nd AbhiN has his own shortcomings too....for eg his financials...not for the fact that he's a driver but that he's never wanted to be more than a driver...he doesn't have a growth mindset at all...nd the way he includes hum middle class logo h into pretty much everything it feels like he's made his finances a part of his personality or those recent insecurities he got...at one point he was poked nd it made sense but then he was pretty much insecure at anything nd he went overboard with it.... he's also shown as so good that it's almost troublesome

None of these will obviously compare to the white day but then that's the thing about love if AbhiM can still redeem himself in eyes of AK that' all that will matter

Personally agree with you that this narrative in real life that u should fall in love with a guy if he's nice to u can be very toxic....coz most of the times the same nice guy will take a complete u turn if rejected nd they were only good to u coz they were expecting u to fall in love if they were nice to u....once they realise that' not the case things go downhill pretty quick

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Why not? In joint family, Problematic sasuralwalo ke sath real life mai bahot husband-wife aise he deal karte hai.

Problematic sasural walo ke problems mai ghuso he matt, emotional support do unki zarurat ke hisab se lekin jhanda na lo unki life ko sahi karne ka , that was the whole point of Abhimanyu to just focus on your marriage and life partner.

Muje yeh bahot he zyada sahi point laga tha Abhimanyu jab usne clearly samjaya ki meri joint family mai kisi ke problems ka jhanda na lena.

Real life mai bhi husband or wife apne life partner se same baat karte hai.

Log apne life partner ko apna nahi samajte isiliye aisa nahi bolte hai. Log apne life partner ko aisa isliye bolte hai ki joint family ke siyappo mai ghus kar unka husband-wife ka rishta damage na ho.

Muje akshara bilkul bhi pasand nahi hai and aap ko Abhimanyu bilkul bhi pasand nahi hai. We both have very strong dislike for particular characters so I have always avoided communication still couldn’t resist myself from writing this reply because as a married woman maine jo Abhimanyu ne kaha waisa dealing way bahot closely dekha hai and it helps a lot to lead peaceful marriage life with life partner in very problematic joint family.

With the recent turn of events, I think no one likes Ak anymore. Some don’t like her for how she was with Abhi and some don’t like her for how she is with Nav now!!

She's not liked by either of the fds coz people don't know which ship she'll finally sail.... I'm pretty sure it's going to be Abhira with recent epis nd probably why Nav fans r mad at her

I'm mostly pissed off at her for hiding anything nd everything to the point it doesn't even make sense...if it was possible for Nav to never find out the truth that Abhir knows he's not his bio dad her hiding would make sense why now

It feels like some days later she'll start saying something like

"Mein Nav ko nhi bta skti maine khaane kaafi zyada kachori khaali unhe tension hojayegi ki kahin mera pet na khrab hojaye itna heavy khakr" 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️