Ak's Strange love- Page 5

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

With the recent turn of events, I think no one likes Ak anymore. Some don’t like her for how she was with Abhi and some don’t like her for how she is with Nav now!!

Yeah, I am kind of sad about that. Hence wrote the post https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai/5329841/two-great-loves

It just doesn't make sense to only view her through the lens of which ship she will sail.

Exactly. Thank you for getting my point so aptly.

So far i am glad that Abhinav doesn't have this narrative that he is good so Akshara should and must love him.

But i felt we as a audience or a large part of us is subconsciously driving this agenda.

In real life i have named this agenda Nice Guy syndrome.

This is my unpopular opinion but sometimes you just don't click he could be the nicest guy in the whole world but and you feel nothing and this should be acceptable.

Same is the case with Navra so far.

Akshara likes him as a companion, she enjoys the stability but the heart wants what it wants. So let's wait and watch what she wants.

NAV'S GROWTH MINDSET AND MAKING BEING MIDDLE CLASS HIS PERSONALITY IS the reason I KINDA STOP ENJOYING HIS SCENES. I like layers in real life and in drama.

Abhimanyu redeeming himself can be a character growth which I am sure we all love specially in American shows so why not here.

Originally posted by: DevilHere

AbhiM mostly told her the first day that my family is really complicated aur don't get involved in their matters nd yet she always did nd that was what his rant was about....she might've done everything out of good intentions but most of the time she was really stupid nd caused problems.... especially AK nd uski baat chupane ki aadat.... she seems to be doing the same with Nav too.

Rest assured 6th page of every topic I will find this 😆Like every single discussion comes to this white day topic , Neil akshara goons phone call fake marriage..

There was never a debate over whether akshara is stupid or not . The point always was , does a stupid person deserves this kind of harsh punishment?

If if his reaction was to her stupidity alone then he is the biggest dumb head ever...is this the way to deal with stupidity I wonder ?

Anyways ..reg don't interfere in family matters, its a moot point bec it is impossible to do so while living under the same roof...this wasn't the point he raised on white day. It was "kyun nahi sunti meri baat kyun kyun kyun" . She isnt a robot to follow his instructions. Sometimes she will get swayed bec she has a mind (mushy hi sahi) of her own.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Exactly. Thank you for getting my point so aptly.

So far i am glad that Abhinav doesn't have this narrative that he is good so Akshara should and must love him.

But i felt we as a audience or a large part of us is subconsciously driving this agenda.

In real life i have named this agenda Nice Guy syndrome.

This is my unpopular opinion but sometimes you just don't click he could be the nicest guy in the whole world but and you feel nothing and this should be acceptable.

Same is the case with Navra so far.

Akshara likes him as a companion, she enjoys the stability but the heart wants what it wants. So let's wait and watch what she wants.

NAV'S GROWTH MINDSET AND MAKING BEING MIDDLE CLASS HIS PERSONALITY IS the reason I KINDA STOP ENJOYING HIS SCENES. I like layers in real life and in drama.

Abhimanyu redeeming himself can be a character growth which I am sure we all love specially in American shows so why not here.

We suffered "achi ladki/bahu/beti/bhabhi" syndrome since ekta k days . Sorry..ksbkbt days ...acha admi narrative is new to us..its kinda sad...they had to Introduce a contrasting character bec their main lead lacked basic manners.

Now that they did , at least give him an arc but no. Redeem the ml? No..grow some brains cells of fl , never..we're stuck in a loop. Contrary to the fans opinions , I feel trp will tank if abhira happens now ...audience rejected sai emotionally cheating her husband for her toxic ex...but for abhinakshara to happen thy need to turn around abhin really badly.

Okay to preface i don't think she deserved any punishment.

But it's also true that her stupidity didn't lead to minor mishaps but rather really dire outcomes...you just shouldn't be so stupid

It's upto interpretation but for me when AbhiM says that meri baat kyun nhi sunti ho tm... it's not cause he wants a robot that would listen to him but probably a build up frustration of all the times he's given her prior warning not to do somethings coz the outcome not gonna be good but she's still gonna ahead nd done exactly that nd the outcome has not been nice like he predicted....call it stupidity, call it kind heartedness but if you don't know better then sometimes u should actually listen to the other person

Time nd again whenever she's tried doing something for the birlas out of goodness the outcome hasn't been good nd she's not been appreciated... wouldn't it be better for her to try to mind her business as much as possible

As sweet_tania mentioned doosron ke phate mein taang na aadhna is a policy at lot of people adapt in joint family setups in irl too....while in joint families everyone has an opinion about every decision u should probably not take decisions for others urself....u can guide them if u feel necessary but that should be the end of it

Ikr it's us as an audience that have some kinda expectations with ckts nd we do get annoyed or frustrated when they don't behave in that manner...so far I agree Nav hasn't shown any entitlement

Probably the reason i haven't liked Nav so far is exactly that he lacks layers.... I've said it a couple of times already but he would be more relatable if he had more anecdotes as to what made with the way he was nd his experiences with life instead of randomly adding I'm middle class or orphan without context as to how it applies to the situation.

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

With the recent turn of events, I think no one likes Ak anymore. Some don’t like her for how she was with Abhi and some don’t like her for how she is with Nav now!!

It's because people only use her for their shipping part aur kuch nhi na hi uske pov se sochne ki koshish karte hei. People either want her to forget everything what has happened with her and go back to abhi or nhi toh people want her to baby sit nav for their shipping. It would be best if she leaves both of them and stay single for sometime. And also ak is not gonna go back immediately to ab even if nav is out of pic. Even on d day the things which happened people were saying that now how will he like abhi after all this but still people are liking na so wait makers will make ak also the way same likeable. Ak aise hi abhi k pas nhi jayegi just because he is father of his son or for anything she will only go back if both the sides accept their mistakes redeem themselves and accept their love for eo back then only.

So i agree with your thoughts half and half.

I actually don't blame her for Neil's death 1%. It was 100% his decision, his thinking that we are going to be parents too we should do something was on him.

Didn't Neil realise that he is not a South Indian film hero who will beat them all.

Yes maybe she led him there but where was his common sense. I guess it left him the moment married Aru after warnings and knowing her truth.

Also, she didn't put strangers over her babies. She put Neil over her babies.

Yes in past she went after the kid in the jungle so not denying the fact that she is stupid. That's why I agree with most of your points.

But the day and way Neil died was their both fault, Neil's more than hers.

AbhiM what he did was inhumane tbh Hence his redemption is needed. If Abhira happens they both should take it slow and take couple therapy. Stay away from Birla house and start over.

If the pivot point for the separation was the white day then

Akshara was 30-40% at fault on what happened overall that day and post that day

Abhimanyu 60+ for sure at fault. No-one who says i love u more than my life will leave you like this.

Will not bother at all once you go missing. He indeed was unbothered if not 6 years but at least 6-7 months.

His not finding her after the marriage call is justified but not bothering about your said love for months is also not a healthy sign of love. Therefore, his redemption arc is must. But so is Aksharas' definitely not liking her abi nahi bta sakti Nav ko coz shaadi is stupid wasn't she like this during Anisha's truth too abi nahi bta sakti surgery hai.

She too should learn from her mistakes

Indeed.

Infact I always find his anger misplaced like he showed no signs of anger when he learn that AbhiM is the one who left Akshara when she needs him the most. But he got angry when Abhi said he is not achaa aadmi.

And his constant muh bola beta and all is too much now.

Either he should accept openly that Abhir is indeed Abhira's son totally and he is just Akshu's husband or he stop saying things like i am not his real father.

Btw off topic how dense is Abhimanyu to never realising that she named their son after them. I doubt he got it even now

I pretty much agree with what u say here ....they should opt for a well written redemption track for AbhiM coz it's not the right thing to do at all what happened on the white day

Coming to that white day

Ak insisted that they go coz the girls called her for help nd she won't be able to face herself if doesn't go help...Neil pretty much tagged along nd she asked tum hi btao Neil tm kya krte....i honestly found that question to be rhetorical nd there was only one answer that I will save the girls

But at the end of the day that was a call Neil made nd then he paid for that with his life nd Ak the same way paid with one of her twins life... it's all very sad nd tragic

I think AK once mentioned to him that Abhir is not Abhimanyu+Akshara rather Abhinav+Akshara or she said it to someone else but she's lied about this too 😆....iss ladki ka samjh nhi aata with all the grudges nd grievances she's held against AbhiM why would she name their child as their couple name ....nd the stupid guy bought the it's Abhinav+Akshara lie too...both idiots