The only logic i see in this show is people who has a childhood trauma..with abandonment issues and constant harassment are never completely normal when they grow up ..and dhara becoming overcontrolling possessive and manipulative attention seeking selfish women is no surprise judging by the fact that she was abandoned by her own mother and also taunted for it all those years..she needs therapy in true sense..
True. Dhara should never have gotten married at such a young age. She was just 19. I don't understand what her brother was thinking. Even if he was worried about not being able to find her a marriage alliance in that town why not just search elsewhere. Why marry her into a house facing such financial crisis and where the mother-in-law openly despises her.
Even Shiva's anger issues, Raavi's abandonment issues and (I'm assuming) Suman's bitterness seem to stem from their past. They along with all the other family members require proper therapy and counselling. It's just sad that this stuff isn't even properly acknowledged.