Tere bin wahaj ali yumna zaidi DT 93 " I M sorry " - Page 57

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Are you sure you are watching the right show

i actually meant that he was comfortable with that hug because he thought it's Meerab, that's why i initially was not sure whether it will come under assault or not.

Now i am sure after reading your comment.

Tmsb to ikdm piche hi pad jate ho bhai🤣

Originally posted by: pickachu

Meerab will not slap haya.Even she is being lenient on haya because she is a girl + she is orphan.

Resorting to violence should be beneath ones dignity

Originally posted by: Neha_J

He was at fault for not setting the boundaries. Not for Haya's planning and plotting

That's what i said👍🏼

Originally posted by: Neha_J

Yes. He was at fault because he didn't set those boundaries before but can we really blame him for the hug? Did that have his consent??

Originally posted by: Neha_J

Because he is in love and she isn't

Because she was forced in the marriage and he wasn't

Because he did nothing for her till now and she did everything

Because he has everything and she has nothing

Because he didn't have to give up on anything but she had to

Because he wasn't left outside the house (her abandonment issues matter but his insecurity is futile) but she was

Because his father/parents didnt cheat him but hers did

And the list is never ending

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I am back guys

I was just in bed dozing off. A thought popped into my head. And I must share otherwise I will explode.

Haya hugging Murtasim without his consent isn't that sexual assault?

Physical advances are termed sexual assault and include many types of actions including; intentionally grabbing or touching you in a way that you do not like, forcing you to touch them in any fashion, forcibly hugging or kissing you, and other unwanted physical contact.

I know what people are thinking Murtasim deserves this because he himself blurred the boundaries with Behaya by saying cousin touches are OK, BUT HE NEVER consented to this hug. And blaming him is like victim shaming him, isn't that what society does to a woman. She shouldn't have been out late that is why she got assaulted, she shouldn't have worn that dress that is why men were ogling her, she shouldn't have gotten drunk at that party that is why she got raped excuses excuses excuses we here all the times in the media and anyone that asks first what did she do to deserve it. Murtasim should have known Meerab's touch and scent yes he made a mistake, just like woman must take necessary precautions it is a dangerous world but what if we make a mistake does that mean we should get assaulted in return as punishment.

Reverse the genders imagine if Sasta Salman hugged Meerab without her consent, would we blame her, shame her or defend her. SN coercion to get Meerab in his car, deceiving her by saying she is taking her to a cafe but instead taking her to his place that is kidnapping, snatching away her phone and when she was in SN flat touching her multiple times without her consent it was all predatory behaviour. I stood by Meerab woman solidarity and all, but predatory behaviour sees no gender.

The eye check up scene between Murtasim and Witch was another assault scene. Anytime you fake sincerity to trick the other person into touching you that is sexual harassment. Yes Murtasim allows it because he is acting like an older brother, but the other party is not acting like his sister and any touch where intentions differ between two parties is basis for assault. Just like how a male boss can give a harmless congratulatory pat on a female employee's back as a gesture of good job I am proud of you, but if he had other intentions when he touched her then he just assaulted her even if she wasn't fully aware of it.

What is wrong for a woman is also wrong for a man. I know this will not be addressed in TB, this show is not about societal topics, but more importantly Murtasim is an alpha dog to even remotely suggest that a woman jumped him is like making fun of his alphaness and well we can't have that. Which is such toxic mentality, a man can cry he can get vulnerable too, he can also get tricked by an evil woman and if she violates his personal space THEN THAT IS A BIG DEAL, and this takes nothing away from him being a macho man. Men get raped and assaulted as well but they don't admit to such things and we don't prosecute such cases because society mocks such men for not being man enough.

I agree to each and every word.

Both M-M are victims here.

Haya needs medical help. She is not normal.

Originally posted by: Mari_a

yeah i am not attacking him for being happy he was because of different reason..

i actually meant that he was comfortable with that hug because he thought it's Meerab, that's why i initially was not sure whether it will come under assault or not.

Now i am sure after reading your comment.

Tmsb to ikdm piche hi pad jate ho bhai🤣

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I am back guys

I was just in bed dozing off. A thought popped into my head. And I must share otherwise I will explode.

Haya hugging Murtasim without his consent isn't that sexual assault?

Physical advances are termed sexual assault and include many types of actions including; intentionally grabbing or touching you in a way that you do not like, forcing you to touch them in any fashion, forcibly hugging or kissing you, and other unwanted physical contact.

I know what people are thinking Murtasim deserves this because he himself blurred the boundaries with Behaya by saying cousin touches are OK, BUT HE NEVER consented to this hug. And blaming him is like victim shaming him, isn't that what society does to a woman. She shouldn't have been out late that is why she got assaulted, she shouldn't have worn that dress that is why men were ogling her, she shouldn't have gotten drunk at that party that is why she got raped excuses excuses excuses we here all the times in the media and anyone that asks first what did she do to deserve it. Murtasim should have known Meerab's touch and scent yes he made a mistake, just like woman must take necessary precautions it is a dangerous world but what if we make a mistake does that mean we should get assaulted in return as punishment.

Reverse the genders imagine if Sasta Salman hugged Meerab without her consent, would we blame her, shame her or defend her. SN coercion to get Meerab in his car, deceiving her by saying she is taking her to a cafe but instead taking her to his place that is kidnapping, snatching away her phone and when she was in SN flat touching her multiple times without her consent it was all predatory behaviour. I stood by Meerab woman solidarity and all, but predatory behaviour sees no gender.

The eye check up scene between Murtasim and Witch was another assault scene. Anytime you fake sincerity to trick the other person into touching you that is sexual harassment. Yes Murtasim allows it because he is acting like an older brother, but the other party is not acting like his sister and any touch where intentions differ between two parties is basis for assault. Just like how a male boss can give a harmless congratulatory pat on a female employee's back as a gesture of good job I am proud of you, but if he had other intentions when he touched her then he just assaulted her even if she wasn't fully aware of it.

What is wrong for a woman is also wrong for a man. I know this will not be addressed in TB, this show is not about societal topics, but more importantly Murtasim is an alpha dog to even remotely suggest that a woman jumped him is like making fun of his alphaness and well we can't have that. Which is such toxic mentality, a man can cry he can get vulnerable too, he can also get tricked by an evil woman and if she violates his personal space THEN THAT IS A BIG DEAL, and this takes nothing away from him being a macho man. Men get raped and assaulted as well but they don't admit to such things and we don't prosecute such cases because society mocks such men for not being man enough.

Originally posted by: Mari_a

I felt the same but i was not sure whether to name it assault or not since when she hugged he was happy so his consent was not clear to me.

But yes it's super creepy touching someone without their consent.

He thought it was Meerub who hugged him as he was expecting her ! His consent and happiness was for Meerub not H !

Originally posted by: CherryOnTheTop

I agree to each and every word.

Both M-M are victims here.

Haya needs medical help. She is not normal.