Tere bin wahaj ali yumna zaidi DT 93 " I M sorry " - Page 48

I’m excited for the track because a confession is on the way but the double standards are infuriating. I’m glad Meerub meets Rohail despite Murtasim’s past objections/vaada.

Imagine if Rohail hugged Meerub from the back and Murtasim walked in?

Imagine if Rohail was clearing Meerub’s eye out?

Imagine if Rohail, Meerub and Saba went shopping and Meerub asked Rohail his opinion on a dress?

Meerub needs to ask Murtasim to jump now or promise. Eat fish now or promise.

The audience is responsible for accepting these double standards. Unless we and the reviewers create furor like we did for the slap which forced the director to say he will not include slaps in his shows again, this will continue. One could say this is reflective of double standards in real life but guess what- I’m watching TV to bask in some idealism far away from misogyny. Also, the Meerub we saw in the initial episodes would have confronted Murtasim on his double standards. Sadly, Meerub’s reach is limited by her writer’s own world’s limitations. She’s writing what she knows. Hope I’m proven wrong.

Originally posted by: Neha_J

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I watch on website kissasian

Originally posted by: CherryOnTheTop

She might have said sorry for something else. I don’t understand why would she sorry if M expected H?

I think promo is misleading, why would M expect H?

I think her sorry was more like sarcasm.

She said that because he thought it's Haya and ahe thought he was waiting for her or wanted her or whatever 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: CherryOnTheTop

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Meerab came and wanted to talk to him but Murtasim was like Haya when he was turning her side. So she was heart broken seeing him call her Haya. But it is understandable from the promo why he called her Haya because Haya was trying to talk to him before Meerab came so he might have thought that Haya was there.

Originally posted by: pickachu

If it does not lead to separation tu kya hoga which will lead to separation .

Waise separation hone bhi hai ya nahi?😆

Hona hai.

The way things are NM will ruin it more.

She's literally going the ITV way 😔

Kyun hoga? Because both of them are stupid and dumb AF. They have a lot of intelligence quotient and brain which they hardly use 🤓

Now I think kuch stupid conflict type hoga 😑

It better not be about Meerab's dreaming of become a lawyer and MB creating issues 🔫

Originally posted by: Winterberry

Looks like H has been bugging him throughout the day ! He doesn’t know Meerub will attend the function, he was surprised to see her ,that’s why the eye blinking!
Murtasim doesn’t expect H in room, he assumes it’s Meerub.
Here we all made castles that he will tadofy Meerub in that dress but nada the poison had to spread her venom everywhere!

Mujhe haya pe bahut gussa aa rha hai 🤬🤬🤬

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Trust nooran

She will make sure to butcher all characters before show end 😥

Didn't she already?

Originally posted by: Neha_J

I think her sorry was more like sarcasm.

She said that because he thought it's Haya and ahe thought he was waiting for her or wanted her or whatever 🤣🤣

I feel so bad for Meerab. 🥺🥺

Originally posted by: alwayssparkle

Sure😊

Happy ending ones u can c business proposal, what's wrong with secretary Kim, true beauty r some of my favourites all on Netflix..

For sad ones is Big mouse, 20thcentury girl, Glory (revenge drama)😉

Originally posted by: Neha_J

Exactly. And they normalize these things which is disgusting. Imagine if this was Rohail and Meerab. Would they show it? Rohail would be killed. But I'm pretty sure Haya won't be punished.

As per NM, Haya is not evil...for her this isn't evil, Haya's scheme of letting Mariyam be fooled by MZ wasn't evil..

What kind of a person is NM 😡

This is pathetic.

I am back guys

I was just in bed dozing off. A thought popped into my head. And I must share otherwise I will explode.

Haya hugging Murtasim without his consent isn't that sexual assault?

Physical advances are termed sexual assault and include many types of actions including; intentionally grabbing or touching you in a way that you do not like, forcing you to touch them in any fashion, forcibly hugging or kissing you, and other unwanted physical contact.

I know what people are thinking Murtasim deserves this because he himself blurred the boundaries with Behaya by saying cousin touches are OK, BUT HE NEVER consented to this hug. And blaming him is like victim shaming him, isn't that what society does to a woman. She shouldn't have been out late that is why she got assaulted, she shouldn't have worn that dress that is why men were ogling her, she shouldn't have gotten drunk at that party that is why she got raped excuses excuses excuses we here all the times in the media and anyone that asks first what did she do to deserve it. Murtasim should have known Meerab's touch and scent yes he made a mistake, just like woman must take necessary precautions it is a dangerous world but what if we make a mistake does that mean we should get assaulted in return as punishment.

Reverse the genders imagine if Sasta Salman hugged Meerab without her consent, would we blame her, shame her or defend her. SN coercion to get Meerab in his car, deceiving her by saying she is taking her to a cafe but instead taking her to his place that is kidnapping, snatching away her phone and when she was in SN flat touching her multiple times without her consent it was all predatory behaviour. I stood by Meerab woman solidarity and all, but predatory behaviour sees no gender.

The eye check up scene between Murtasim and Witch was another assault scene. Anytime you fake sincerity to trick the other person into touching you that is sexual harassment. Yes Murtasim allows it because he is acting like an older brother, but the other party is not acting like his sister and any touch where intentions differ between two parties is basis for assault. Just like how a male boss can give a harmless congratulatory pat on a female employee's back as a gesture of good job I am proud of you, but if he had other intentions when he touched her then he just assaulted her even if she wasn't fully aware of it.

What is wrong for a woman is also wrong for a man. I know this will not be addressed in TB, this show is not about societal topics, but more importantly Murtasim is an alpha dog to even remotely suggest that a woman jumped him is like making fun of his alphaness and well we can't have that. Which is such toxic mentality, a man can cry he can get vulnerable too, he can also get tricked by an evil woman and if she violates his personal space THEN THAT IS A BIG DEAL, and this takes nothing away from him being a macho man. Men get raped and assaulted as well but they don't admit to such things and we don't prosecute such cases because society mocks such men for not being man enough.