Pain of a mother - Page 2

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

You talk as if Neil has no agency whatsoever. You speak as if he is a child that Akshara dragged and pushed into a mess. He is a grown ass adult who went with her with clear informed consent.

And it is not even like he took her to the goons and asked them to murder him or that she took him to a place and murdered him.

What do you mean she has no guilt. She loved Neil so much. Probably more than Aarohi loved her husband, Akshara loved Neil as her younger brother. She had a kid, a complicated pregnancy, she was trying to build a family. Why didn't she try to come back to Udaipur? It is partly because of guilt and partly of self respect and not wanting to be next to Birla toxic family.

And come on please, Yes, Manjari raised Neil but she always preferred and prioritised Abhimanyu. She has always shown the difference between khoon and paraaya. I do think her reaction on the day of Neil's death was OTT, considering he wasn't even that important to her. She gaslighted him and let him be treated like shit through out his life that he even questioned his existence so many times. If you look at it, Neil had so much trauma than Abhimanyu, but the show was obssessd with ego ka murti doc man.

So, yeah. I think Manjari was just punishing Akshu because she thought because of Akshu, she lost her son's babies, her grand children. Because if she hadn't Manjari wouldn't have thrown her out. And if Abhimanyu had done it, Manjari would have made him get her back.

So, no, I don't think Manjari's pain is about Neil's death. It is clearly about the loss of her son's children and his pain.

And so, Akshara's pain indeed is bigger than Manjari's for sure.

@Bold

This is an interesting point, if they incorporate this into writing, it'll clear many things

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I won't repeat myself so replying to @bold

Don't think you know me, I am a very complex individual.

I do know you, Nora. Not entirely. But I have interacted with you in the MB forum, BWF, and now here

I can make an educated guess

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

I do know you, Nora. Not entirely. But I have interacted with you in the MB forum, BWF, and now here

I can make an educated guess

Quick to judgement, I see. I don't interact with people here enough for them to know me.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Why do I find it hard to relate to Akshara's pain? I watched the episode but it doesn't make me feel like clapping for her because of the irony in her statements

Didn't Manjri lose her son whom she had raised for 30+ years? The pain of a mother doesn't apply to her because she is not a main character?

How was she going to look for Akshara?

The other day when Abhir got electrocuted Akshara physically assaulted Abhimanyu, the pain and fear of a mother taking over, but all that is reserved for 1 or 2 characters

Abhimanyu has to forget that he lost his brother, Manjari has to forget that she lost her son

It doesn't make any sense to me there's absolutely no acknowledgement of the other side, it is not as black and white as they are presenting it to us

https://twitter.com/stella_9719/status/1654667948559302660?s=20

I don’t understand your question. She didn’t go to birla house and started accusing manjiri and manyu about why they treated her this way and belittling their loss and pain.

It is manjiri who is doing the same. Highlighting only her sons pain while ignoring what akshar went through cos of the son, also having not known the whole story that manyu could have shared with his mom that Akshara did try to contact.

So how is it on akshar to think of this duo instead of keeping her POV and her trauma and the truth which manjiri is blind to ?

@bold - when bade papa told abhiM that Akshara is in Pathankot, if they cared enough they could have gone to Akshara. They know bade papa has kept in touch with Akshara clearly esp after the grandkids clothes exchange ( this confirms that BP always knew where akshar was). Since they were in good terms if manjiri wanted she could have met Akshara

Akshara clearly acknowledged Manjiri’s pain when she got insulted giving the Kalash for the Pooja. When badepapa spoke to her, she said she doesn’t feel bad cos Manjiri’s pain is more etc.

it’s manjiri who is failing to show even the basic courtesy of acknowledgement that even Akshara was suffering. Just blinded by her man child’s trauma cos of his own impulsive actions.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Quick to judgement, I see. I don't interact with people here enough for them to know me.

No. I am not judging you. Neither is this the first forum we have interacted

I know you since the Mb forum. The good old lockdown days

Originally posted by: focus7

I don’t understand your question. She didn’t go to birla house and started accusing manjiri and manyu about why they treated her this way and belittling their loss and pain.

It is manjiri who is doing the same. Highlighting only her sons pain while ignoring what akshar went through cos of the son, also having not known the whole story that manyu could have shared with his mom that Akshara did try to contact.

So how is it on akshar to think of this duo instead of keeping her POV and her trauma and the truth which manjiri is blind to ?

@bold - when bade papa told abhiM that Akshara is in Pathankot, if they cared enough they could have gone to Akshara. They know bade papa has kept in touch with Akshara clearly esp after the grandkids clothes exchange ( this confirms that BP always knew where akshar was). Since they were in good terms if manjiri wanted she could have met Akshara

Akshara clearly acknowledged Manjiri’s pain when she got insulted giving the Kalash for the Pooja. When badepapa spoke to her, she said she doesn’t feel bad cos Manjiri’s pain is more etc.

it’s manjiri who is failing to show even the basic courtesy of acknowledgement that even Akshara was suffering. Just blinded by her man child’s trauma cos of his own impulsive actions.

Akshara's dialogue - If you had cared to come and look for your daughter, you would have found your daughter with your grandchild

I am sensing a disconnect between my post and replies to it, everyone is talking about Akshara on white day but I am talking about her dialogues in tonight's episode

Why would Manjari go and look for her when both were going through pain of losing their loved ones?

The pain of a mother applies to both therefore this particular scene didn't make any sense to me

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

No. I am not judging you. Neither is this the first forum we have interacted

I know you since the Mb forum. The good old lockdown days

Did you change your username by any chance?

On one hand we downplay the emotions of foster father ...just bec he is standing between abhira , he is not so acha admi, lactating mother , blah blah so on...

Wasn't manjari ALSO a foster parent to neil ? Howcome her pain is more than aksharas ?

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Did you change your username by any chance?

Yes. I have five times 😆

You probably would remember me as Poorabhforever or Krishnapanchali or M. Wheeler.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Yes. I have five times 😆

You probably would remember me as Poorabhforever or Krishnapanchali or M. Wheeler.

Oh 🤣

I guessed it but I didn't want to offend you in case I was wrong

How are you? Long time