Akshara, my girl! - Page 8

Originally posted by: bhshre95

He indeed went back to Abhinav to feed the cake❤️ I liked that part. Probably a foreshadowing for future where Abhir initially might go to AbhiM but eventually chooses to Akshara and Abhinav.

I would have hated it if Abhir just goes to AbhiM and feeds him his papa's cake and AbhiM telling Abhir to go and feed Abhinav first It would have been too much to digest as Abhir has been shown very attached to his father.

But I still don't understand why did they have to show Abhir run and hug Doc man like that😆

Originally posted by: lagjagale

It's not that simple. The entire monologue was just to prove that he is indeed an AA. He never had to tell Abhi that it was Ak who didn't want him to be told or how he tried to convince her. That is between the husband and wife. And more importantly, if he really never wanted to go against Ak, then why did he blurt out the truth while drunk? Just because he was drunk, it doesn't matter? Anyways forgetting all of that, the issue with AA has always been self-glorification. From his introduction, he kept saying I am AA, then even when he met Abhi, it was I am AA, every time, it is I am AA. Today, his reaction seemed to be more about Abhi being mad at him than about Abhi taking Abhir.

See, the problem is his character craves approval from everyone. He wants to be liked by everyone. It's not a bad thing, just a weird thing for some people. Personally, I would prefer a character like Abhi to Abhinav. Ak was also like that in the beginning, and that's why people didn't like her, but it's more or less accepted that female leads are oversweet. I do like Ak a lot more now that she has grown beyond all of that.

Lol bruh. The man called him "aap itne bhi acche nahi ho" AFTER he had already heard from Akshara how Abhinav had saved her life as well as Abhir's life. Purely to mindfùck him and guilt-trip him like he has been doing with everyone since Day 1

But Abhinav cannot even own up to the things he actually did without being called self-glorifying. Lol

Originally posted by: Indira1211

abhir is impressed by abhimanyu..he’s a smart doctor…he helps him..he spoils him..he’s good and friendly to him..children often get attached to favourite teachers or family friends like this ..I’ve seen this happen.. but those Favourite teachers and adult friends never replace their parents in the kids hearts.. because the bond to a mom,and dad are special and lifelong. So abhir is just showing this kind of attachment..it’s also a build up for when he’ll probably have to choose between abhimanyu and abhinav ..but actually there’s no need for this..he can have both fathers in his life and he’ll be a lucky child to get this double father love…maybe it will go this route..an amicable relationship..because abhinav and abhimanyu did like each other before this abhir situation came up. Same with Ruhi ..abhimanyu can be father to both kids.. he doesn’t need to choose or discriminate between them..he can marry Arohi and live with her and Ruhi,and abhir can visit weekends.. don’t know why it has to be so complicated in yrkkh..when this is a common situation in real life.. I.e.,kids from,divorced parents..and shared custody or visitation rights 🤷🏻‍♀️

Yup co parenting is the best option for them. But they will take the longest time to get there😆 People need to talk like mature individuals to do that which is not possible in itv. Akshara and Abhimanyu need to keep their bitterness and ego aside and think about Abhir. Akshara needs to understand whatever may have happened between them, Abhi is Abhir's father and its not easy for him to just give up on his son and Abhi needs to understand that his kid has grown up with AkshNav as his parents. So they all should tread carefully and think about how to manage things from here on. I don't want to see an ugly legal battle or if there is the kids should be kept away from it.

Everything in the show is made unnecessarily complicated I am not understanding what the makers are trying to do with the pairings. Abhira don't make sense to me anymore. Akshara seems to have moved on and seems happy and at peace with Nav. Abhira ending up together would seem very weird to me. But Abhi Arohi are a strict no no as well. I mean a guy marrying one sister, having a kid with her and then marrying the other sister who also happens to be is lte brother's wifedoesnt sound good I don't understand why Manjari wants to pair them up so bad. Akshara has moved on so Abhi can also open his heart and find someone he likes being with and marry, why to Arohi? He seems miserable with her. And even Arohi should have a normal loving marriage, why should she be stuck in a loveless marriage for her daughter's sake that too with a guy who is in love with her sister?

Anyway I just don't want the both Ruhi and Abhir to get affected in this royal mess

Originally posted by: lagjagale

It's not that simple. The entire monologue was just to prove that he is indeed an AA. He never had to tell Abhi that it was Ak who didn't want him to be told or how he tried to convince her. That is between the husband and wife. And more importantly, if he really never wanted to go against Ak, then why did he blurt out the truth while drunk? Just because he was drunk, it doesn't matter? Anyways forgetting all of that, the issue with AA has always been self-glorification. From his introduction, he kept saying I am AA, then even when he met Abhi, it was I am AA, every time, it is I am AA. Today, his reaction seemed to be more about Abhi being mad at him than about Abhi taking Abhir.

See, the problem is his character craves approval from everyone. He wants to be liked by everyone. It's not a bad thing, just a weird thing for some people. Personally, I would prefer a character like Abhi to Abhinav. Ak was also like that in the beginning, and that's why people didn't like her, but it's more or less accepted that female leads are oversweet. I do like Ak a lot more now that she has grown beyond all of that.

You would prefer a character like Abhi, a Mama's boy who couldn't take a stand for his wife, who couldn't take no for an answer and doesn't whatever the hell he wants out of impulse over Abhinav? It's your choice of course but....damn lol.

Also, yes blurting out the truth while drunk means it wasn't intentional.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Lol bruh. The man called him "aap itne bhi acche nahi ho" AFTER he had already heard from Akshara how Abhinav had saved her life as well as Abhir's life. Purely to mindfùck him and guilt-trip him like he has been doing with everyone since Day 1

But Abhinav cannot even own up to the things he actually did without being called self-glorifying. Lol

Seriously, why is he so offended about being called not an AA more than anything else ? He wasn't angry with Abhi about how he treated Ak, he wasn't even that angry about Abhi taking Abhir without informing. His retaliation was entirely about himself so yes it is self glorifying. And btw there is nothing wrong with Abhi saying you are not such an AA. Nav did hide the truth, he is responsible, no matter how much he thinks it's on Ak and not him.

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

You would prefer a character like Abhi, a Mama's boy who couldn't take a stand for his wife, who couldn't take no for an answer and doesn't whatever the hell he wants out of impulse over Abhinav? It's your choice of course but....damn lol.

Also, yes blurting out the truth while drunk means it wasn't intentional.

To each their own, but yes. Nav has had no depth from the beginning, if they had developed his character further, talked about his own history and character journey it would make a lot more sense to people. His obsession with being a good person is unnerving. And yeah, I personally don't like oversweet characters. But beyond that, of course I agree that Nav is a better partner for Ak. In real life I would never inflict anyone like Abhi on anyone. In a show though, his character adds a lot, allows us to have these differing views and talk about it. It depends on what you appreciate from a character. If you want your characters to be predictable and always right, then that's the difference.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Seriously, why is he so offended about being called not an AA more than anything else ? He wasn't angry with Abhi about how he treated Ak, he wasn't even that angry about Abhi taking Abhir without informing. His retaliation was entirely about himself so yes it is self glorifying. And btw there is nothing wrong with Abhi saying you are not such an AA. Nav did hide the truth, he is responsible, no matter how much he thinks it's on Ak and not him.

Because Abhimanyu's accusations were batshit crazy and belittled Abhinav's fatherhood? Anyone taking away a child without informing their parents would deserve ire.

How is Abhimanyu's entitled behaviour done purely to pull a dick power move over Akshnav not even acknowledged let alone criticised while Abhinav is being insulted for standing up for himself? Lol

How is only Abhimanyu's self-interest accepted here but anybody else working towards their self-interest is villainised? Be it Akshnav or Arohi or Kairav?

It's not people's life purpose in this show to make Abhimanyu happy, y'know?

And no one likes to be called a bad person especially when their acts have not been bad at all.

Logon ko Abhinav ko/ke accha admi bolne se kya mirchi lagti hai? His works have been accha lol.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

To each their own, but yes. Nav has had no depth from the beginning, if they had developed his character further, talked about his own history and character journey it would make a lot more sense to people. His obsession with being a good person is unnerving. And yeah, I personally don't like oversweet characters. But beyond that, of course I agree that Nav is a better partner for Ak. In real life I would never inflict anyone like Abhi on anyone. In a show though, his character adds a lot, allows us to have these differing views and talk about it. It depends on what you appreciate from a character. If you want your characters to be predictable and always right, then that's the difference.

No depth? Really? He is an orphan. He live all his life without anyone. He had no one to show his emotions. What u want to add in his ckt? Orphan hona khud main ek struggle hai. He is either not a confusing ckt. We know very well what he want, what he love. No I never get confused.

What ur obsession if he called himself AA? He is AA. First he was assuring AK that she will safe with him & She was. Now Abhi directly said "aap itne bhi ache insan nahi hai" that man literally degrading him so he just said what he did for his beta as not being an AA.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

It's not people's life purpose in this show to make Abhimanyu happy, y'know?

Logon ko Abhinav ko/ke accha admi bolne se kya mirchi lagti hai? His works have been accha lol.

Yahi toh mirchi Hai. That akshu and abhinav are not trying to make abhimanyu happy 🤣hence by this logic they r not acha admi achi ladki. If they were ache they would try to make abhimanyu happy.

Currently only 2 people r trying to be happy ..no no currently , forever and ever . Mummy is trying to make bachu happy , bachu is trying to keep mummy happy 😊 if he tried to keep his wife happy he would have his son also to make him happy .

Originally posted by: Starship1

@bold thank you for sharing

I also always feel so suffocated when Manic Manjiri or Arohi is yelling at Akshara and Akshu goes into mute mode breathing heavily and looking scared 😳

so glad to see someone else feel that way too haha, I never liked that feeling lol

But this is a changed ak who just don't give any importance to others than her own son. Also ak don't say anything much to km or jhadu but jabhi bolti is ekdum chup Kara deti hei.