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Posted: 2 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Weapon or not I don't know .But it will fun to see Amba holding Virat's collar and throw him out of the house for tocuhing her Bahu..

Kyuki Satya toh ab kuch din mei Virat naam ka mala pehen kar ghumega..i lost hopes on him today..

Mujhe show mei ab bas Virat ki jooton se dhukai chaiye ..or Bhavani ki shabdon se..

Exactly what I meant yesterday. This show is only for cheap thrills. We can throw justice, women empowerment, domestic abuse, feminism and all can go out of the window.

Dhulai, kutai and tamasha ho, toh kuch entertainment hoga. Baki sab activism ke liye real life hai.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Mein HA ko kos rahi hu. I know ghum is a popular show and its a good opportunity for him. I left this serial long ago as I can't watch humans are grey shaded, people become possessive and insecure in love etc to justify many things shown in this serial. My logic is simple: people are grey shaded but the ones who show sensibility should be made protoganist. I can appreciate actors for potraying different roles but I can only root for somehow who shows maturity and levelheadedness.

I came back after HA as I liked him for his earlier works. I thought he will bring some fresh air. He will bring positivity like Abhinav did in Relationship. Three weeks into watching this, I feel nauseated.

I will keep visiting forum as I enjoyed reading posts, back and forth bickering but even HA's charm or Neil Ayesha's acting skills can't make it bearable for me.

Edited by pratyay - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Iss show ka yahi prpblem hai ki they beat around the bush w.r.t abuse. I also think Satya brings up Virat's deewanapan because he has seen Sai's deewanapan. They really need to show a breakdown where Satya gets to know about the room-locking, and the forced marriage and the surrogacy and the abuse in general.

I personally think ki it's a repeat of the story from start where Sai justified Pakhi's (and Virat's EMA) as pyaar. And tried to not meddle, to brace herself. This is the new triangle; Saiya, with Pawmo. Like before the married couple, would fall in love. But unlike Virat, Saiya are not spineless. They already moved on from aap to tum within few hours. So, I don't think Satya will be as unaffected by Virat's harkatein as he lets on now

They cannot justify (in this pathetic show's writer's head) keeping Virat in the equation if they called him the criminal he is. Like they never called Pakhi or BK the criminal they are.

Could be because he has seen Sai losing her sudh budh for Virat, despite their past, despite of him being whatever he is., So he feels bad as someone who understands love, that this woman is being so hurt in love. He does seem to understand that Sai loves Virat despite Virat.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Could be because he has seen Sai losing her sudh budh for Virat, despite their past, despite of him being whatever he is., So he feels bad as someone who understands love, that this woman is being so hurt in love. He does seem to understand that Sai loves Virat despite Virat.

There is no logic in why he defended Virat today. Virat's public confession I still understand as Satya doesn't know the full story. The aggression, the accusations, the physical abuse etc that Virat showed yesterday, no sane man will justify that or try to understand it.

People in this show turn a blind eye to V's troublesome behavior as he is the protogonist period !!

I didn't like Sai today. She didn't give one day time to Satya to give his answer. She wants to back off the minute Amba says no. At least for some reason Satya is trying to make things work. I want Sai to put that effort as well. Everything can't be for Vinu and Virat. Satya will try to convince his Aai and Sai should do it with Savi.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Exactly what I meant yesterday. This show is only for cheap thrills. We can throw justice, women empowerment, domestic abuse, feminism and all can go out of the window.

Dhulai, kutai and tamasha ho, toh kuch entertainment hoga. Baki sab activism ke liye real life hai.

Cheap thrills ho na ho, but when things go extreme there is nothing wrong in calling out Sbako pata hai TV hai drama hai, but if they are going too Insensitive with it, we can call them out, jaruri nahi hai to always throw it out of window in my opinion honestly.

Sepcially when the abuse starts getting justified in the name of pure love.

For people who say it's drama, it's fiction . Dekha band kiya, maze liye or chalte Bane..it's fine

But the ones who say, oh Bechara Virat was forced to behave this way, coz he loves Sai and his love is unmatchable, the problem comes in there..When the defence comes in form sensitive statements , bringing in ideal motherhood, ideal fatherhood,blood relationship , fertility issues, marriage laws and all of that..

Edited by asmi_ekaa - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Sai Bai, Sai Bai...I hope you are not jumping into the fire from the frying pan!

- Amba Bai and the entire family even the youngest member Satya's sister, refused to entertain the idea of Sai marrying Satya, with her baggage tag of a married woman and her baggage - her two kids. Furthermore, each of them, glared at Sai angrily before walking off. yeh kya hai! "Tu haa to bol, main ek se ek ladkiyon ki line laga doongi" says his aunt!!

- And I refuse to entertain the idea of anyone having to persuade Ambabai to accept a child! What a big risk Sai is taking!! How casual is Satya about all this??

- Vahan pe, in Chawan Niwas, alag hi story. I don't care what Virat thinks or feels. His dialogues, actions are now repetitive ad infinitum, ad nauseum. Throwing pictures, main hi galat tha, etc. Go for a mission, boss, keep yourself busy. 😡 NB, jaa abhi, nachke dikha. Tumhara kaam ho gaya for now.

- Pakhi heard the convo, with her ears twitching which means, something's working in her head🤣. Mera kaam ho gaya, ab gym jaana hai. Where's my husband?

- The Chawan family thinks they own Sai. How can she marry anyone? Only Virat can. How can she love anyone else? Only Virat can. The worried faces, and the slightly guilty one (Ashwini). Kya drama hai! Do they expect Sai to remain as Virat's mistress?

- Savi will obviously choose CN as of now. Itna build up of sanghatna etc is for that. And Sai has to lose, right, in every situation, Sai has to lose, so Savi will want to stay in CN. My only hope being that one promo maybe fake of Savi getting angry with her Baba.

- Sai being ultra understanding, of course his family will want him to have his own family. This is the Achilles Heel of this girl, stop being so understanding. Sai, do not enter any place that is unknown, remember your first experience, many years ago?

- I want my Sai of Kankawli - strong, independent, great mother, genius doctor, do-gooder. TRPs also rose up that week. In an alternate universe, love would have happened, and she could have had a happy, fulfilled life . But alas, this is a daily soap, yeh sab jhelna hi padega🤬

- I can't see her fight to get acceptance in yet another basket case family, who after all, may end up being related to Bhavani Chawan.

I'm not connecting with this sai at all who easily could fall under the manipulation of two most despicable women... Has she considers savi whether this little girl will be accepted in this new family... It looks like sai bai herself doesn't want her happiness...she is giving up her children to those two people who ruined her life...

Satya supporting v implied that a man knows another man's instincts well ..satya is nothing different from vc.. Remember v from gc who had been overtly protective about sai then turned into possessive husband.. Some men are like that....Satya is only seeing the brighter side of the marriage because he thinks sai is the perfect candidate who would not demand anything as a wife ..he is completely oblivious that being sai's husband is not going to be easy who has lots of past baggage..

Vanker actually showed you the slice of reality of a single mother..

Edited by Shaome - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: pratyay

There is no logic in why he defended Virat today. Virat's public confession I still understand as Satya doesn't know the full story. The aggression, the accusations, the physical abuse etc that Virat showed yesterday, no sane man will justify that or try to understand it.

People in this show turn a blind eye to V's troublesome behavior as he is the protogonist period !!

I didn't like Sai today. She didn't give one day time to Satya to give his answer. She wants to back off the minute Amba says no. At least for some reason Satya is trying to make things work. I want Sai to put that effort as well. Everything can't be for Vinu and Virat. Satya will try to convince his Aai and Sai should do it with Savi.

Sai in order to save Virat can actually do injustice to Satya. Ek din na diya..no consideration at all.

That's how it is.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

The point is right now Adhikari ladies do not want to welcome a married woman with two kids.


Look at this dialogue

Satya: Aap toh zindagi bhar aurato ki bhalai karte aa rahe ho naa, aap toh samjho

Ajji: Dekh Satya, aurato ki bhalai ke liye kaam karna, unki bhalai karna aur parivar basana, yeh dono alag baate hoti hai


Basically, downtrodden aurato ki help karo, unka uddhar karo but apne ghar mat lao.


So what will make them change their mind? The knowledge that Sai is Chavans ki ex-daughter in law

Read only WU n your post with dialogue here. So this was true in case of Amba-Bk kiaa. Acceptance as weapon hoga no doubt 😌 💯 as you said. Lekin condition bhi ho sakti hai agar Satya baat karta hai. Will see it to believe it. Amba-BK ka samna dekhna hai abhi...jo shayd marriage k baad ho hogaa.

Sensitive yeh hota k pehle Sai Savi se baat karti 👍🏼

But then it's murga-kauwa 🤣🤣

Edited by Nirip - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#59

Ahh...how I wish Sai hands out some truth bombs to the Chawans when they try to persuade her against the marriage.


Par Aaj kal Sai is not Sai....she is a hollowed out, beaten, exhausted version.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

Sai in order to save Virat can actually do injustice to Satya. Ek din na diya..no consideration at all.

That's how it is.

Satya is a bachelor who doesn't have a sense of fatherhood. Woh kaafi cheezon ko lightly lega initially. For him to develop a sense of responsibility towards Sai's children, he should spend time with them.

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