does V know the first thing about what Sai has faced. just because she doesnt brow beat and claim shes a zindaa lassh doesnt mean she had it easy.
V had the full family. he married P. he had his job. he had security. a home.
Sai started from scratch- and what for- because her husband didnt care 2 hoots.
And now she is damn clear she does NOT wanna be with him.
Why should we assume she is jumping into a marriage or a relationship with Satya without thinking? She will definitely give more thought than V ever did. And even if she is making an impulsive decision- she has the guts to follow through. she is not V or P.
Satya knows her status as a mother of two. He cannot expect her to give up on them and Sai is not gonna marry anyone who asks her to cut off ties with her children. She is not stupid.
If she is doing something , she will have a plan. It may be revealed in due course and not all at once. but Sai should get more credit than V for actually thinking before deciding something.
she made a conscious decision to leave and to not return and both were EXCELLENT decisions. And now if she is rejecting V and getting involved with Satya- its got a reason.
She is not a psycho like V or P. She knows Satya's situation, his family pressure and Satya knows her situation and even her equation with V- theres residual love but no trust and definitely NO inclination to reconcile with him.
P was never forced into anything. She took a conscious decision to marry the brother of the person she had eyes on. Her parents told her she can call off shaadi. She didnt. She had the option to divorce Sam but she didnt. She had the option to leave after sam death but she didnt. She had the option to leave after Sai death but she didnt.
So comparing Sai to P imo is pretty nonsensical.
Her decisions are not based on P but on her own feelings of mistrust and also the ideals of not sinking to the level of someone like P who interfered between a married couple and for the kids- she will give them as much as normalcy as possible. Vinu gets to have both P and Sai in whatever capacity he prefers. Savi gets Vinu and V but just that she will have 2 homes. V gets both kids too. Its win win for all. the only person sacrificing is Sai but even she gets a decent deal. Atleast she will remain in both kids lives even if one of them wont acknowledge her as aai.
If V is serious about convincing Sai to give him a chance, the way to do that is with maturity, and patience. Who the F is he to put pressure on her and give her an ultimatum when he has been dragging his feet for months and years on divorcing P. How can he force Sai to accept his proposal. Why doesnt he try to prove his so-called love and commitment to this new start he wants by talking to P and Vinu and actually getting the divorce instead of flashing papers which he has not even shown P yet!
Sai's first reaction looking at the papers was- does P know about this and V says -NO!
Kya divorce hai- unilaterally sign karke kapdon ke neeche chupa diya and he thinks its done. And therefore Sai should see that and believe that he really wants nothing to do with P.
IF he wanted to divorce P he'd done so irrespective of Sai's presence or absence because he didnt want to be in a farce of a relationship and thats what Sai is getting at when she keeps asking- but you are only flipping because I am back. you dont really want a divorce.
And she hasnt said this out loud but I am sure she worries if he will only flip back if she trusts him. Plus when has he ever fulfilled his promises. He said he will convince P and Vinu. but his track record is so good that Sai can be certain he wont do anything!
If he wanted to make Vinu accept Sai he'd done so by now!
he has needlessly involved Sai into a mess without first addressing the obstacles in the way of reuniting with Sai. if he was serious about Sai, he'd got divorce filed with Ps signatures and figured out what will happen with Vinu and spoken to Vinu about his separation from P and what it means for him AND THEN spoken to Sai. Then Sai would have had something upon which to actually even think about another chance and all. But now no matter what Sai does she gets blamed. If she accepts V proposal then P will accuse her, Vinu will hate her, everyone calls her a home breaker and based on the way things are- it'll be kinda true. IF Sai hadnt come V wasnt leaving P so Sai will be blamed. if she rejects his proposal people accuse her of being rash, emotionless. why?! will anyone of the V defenders and Sairat shippers themselves accept a spouse who has manhandled, abused, cheated and lied time and again. Kids will be fine without such a toxic parental relationship.
LOVE isnt EVERYTHING .Respect, compatibility, trust matters more.
as far as Satya goes, Satya is not clueless. he is entering into a relationship with Sai knowing her past, knowing she is a mother and knowing she harbors residual feelings which surface in a crisis. But he has also seen her steadfastness to her duty, her ability to maintain boundaries and her dignified conduct even with those that wrong her and hurt her. and she will never treat anyone the way she was treated even in a deal.
We dont even know if the marriage will be real or just a way to get people off their case for sometime and have a support in each other to vent and then figure out what will happen
Edited by Nja91 - 2 years ago
