**Dhruv Tara - Samay Sadi Se Pare Episode Discussion Thread #1 ** - Page 42

Originally posted by: NoeticLife

Mujhe toh lag raha hai tumhaara bas chale tum keh do Dhruv bhi 17th century se tha, isliye use Tara itni fascinating lagti hai, isliye use apne ghar rakh liya kyunki use bhi waapas jaana hai par jaa nahi paa raha. 🤣🤣

Arre nahi u misunderstood me. What I meant was ki wo Tara ki mom ke saath uski help karne 17th century ya phir Navrang Van tak gaya. That's why he knows about the time machine. But instead of returning home he decided to take sanyas to escape Susheela 's possessiveness.

Originally posted by: ..Bournville..

Arre nahi u misunderstood me. What I meant was ki wo Tara ki mom ke saath uski help karne 17th century ya phir Navrang Van tak gaya. That's why he knows about the time machine. But instead of returning home he decided to take sanyas to escape Susheela 's possessiveness.

Nahi, nahi, woh toh samajh aa gaya. Main tumhaara mazaak udha rahi thi. 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: NoeticLife

Nahi, nahi, woh toh samajh aa gaya. Main tumhaara mazaak udha rahi thi. 🤣🤣

Accha phir theek hai🤣

Vaise PKYEK ke time pe I had predicted that the mystery would be solved when a side character would gift a particular flower to his dying fiance. And exactly that happened in the show. Even I was shocked 🤣

Originally posted by: NoeticLife

Analysis!

Today's episode was good! 👏

I loved the way Taiji explained her emotions and point of view and will to Susheela! The words, the way she emphasized that Dhruv is her son, and the way she then left everything for her to decide.

'Agar Dhruv par adhikaar jamaana chahte, na, toh darwaaza kholte aur seedhe use ghar ke andar le aate. Par naayi! Agar Dhruv iss ghar mein aayega, toh tumhaari anumati se. Nahi toh naaye.'

It did make me think though... if all those years ago, Taiji hadn't given Dhruv away to Susheela, would it have ultimately been better for them? At the time, she may have been depressed but giving Dhruv to her to give her a reason to live... that's just setting up the unhealthy attachment that we saw.
And does the kids know about this?

That little smile when Tara said 'vachan se nahi palat sakte', that screamed- 'Yeh kuchh aur hi hai.' ❤️

Jai... bhai, kitna khudgarz hai yeh. 'Doosron ki wajah se apni neend kyun kharaab karni hai?' Seriously?

I wonder if that door opening was symbolic. Ayesha paving the way for Tara to enter in Dhruv's life for the sake of him. And even her helping Tara when she was trying to help Dhruv.

Or even the place that the family has put for Susheela is being overtaken by Tara and all that for Dhruv's well being.

Idk. I can't articulate it all that well, but I hope you get the vibe.

Bhai, yeh Jai!! Chodho. Bas... chodho. Maine kuchh thappad wagera maar aana, toh chodh hi do.

You know what would be awesome? Ayesha pretending to hate Tara because duh, but in reality, she actually likes her since she's good for him, and that makes her resent her enough that she never really shows her liking too much.

So, whenever Tara is in any problem, Ayesha is there to help her when Dhruv can't, if only for the sake of his happiness.

yes i got the vibe too.

The way ayesha paved way for tara..Door is dhruv ka bandh heart for anyone .ayesha trying to open it for tara .

Also i liked how family(except jai) stood and helped tara irrespective of dhruv mom decision.It is needed ..and it will happen soon that no one will stand with sushilee if she kept her behaviour.

I liked how tara didnt begged for opening door or make promising that once you open door and help dhruv i will leave his life(jo typical FL karti hai )(please makers haath jodke vinti hai dont turn tara into bichari bahu jo pura time royegi..and selfless service ki devi ki murat banegi .Please no..We are all tired of such sterotypes)

I liked how she shouted to open door it was not pleading it was warning a jhalak of her being a princess it was either you open door or i will smash down it)

Originally posted by: ..Bournville..

Vaise PKYEK ke time pe I had predicted that the mystery would be solved when a side character would gift a particular flower to his dying fiance. And exactly that happened in the show. Even I was shocked 🤣

hiii pkyekian...Good to see you. i was not regular on that forum but watched the show

Originally posted by: NoeticLife

True, but I think Taiji's discrimination would have hurt more. Haan, Jai is very immature and everything, but apni maa jab kisi aur ko preference deti hai, toh zyaada dukh hota hai, na?

i agree with this too, but like i said, its elders fault here when jai was of mature age they should have atleast yold him entire truth

Originally posted by: Krish58

but still you know this much insecurity ?i mean she knows dhruv will never go against her..Thoda toh trust karna padta hai na..even if tara ya koi bhi ladki aajaye..She should have confidence on her up bringing ki nai nahi mera beta ,mujeh se bina puche bina kuch nabi karega ya phir mere values ke khilaaf nahi jaayega..I know she things like her husband her beta will go one day..But she should also keep in mind na ki nahi mujeh itna vishwas rakhna hoga apne bete pe..And now again in precape-that lady cannot be changed unless her own husband comes back clarifies things..Whhich i guess uska husband yaani dhruv ke papa 17th vi sadi ki jail mast susre jailor ko 21st sadi ka sabtate honge, would be be enjoying his lamba wala vacation away from sushilee.

That's what you and I understand as outsiders who are not in the situation ( maybe we would have understood even if we had been in that situation ) but not Susheela who is in the situation and clearly, still a bit too consumed by the pain of being abandoned.

Insecurities are so personal and quite a lot of times... irrational but they exist and a lot of people just can't help it even when they know how unreasonable their fears are. When letting go becomes hard, insecurities become a part of you.

Susheela still hasn't been able to get over the betrayal of her husband and because she has held onto the torment so tightly, people around her have to bear the brunt even if they don't deserve it.

It's not about how Dhruv will never leave her or go against her or anything of that sort. It's not about Dhruv. It's about Susheela. Why no matter the number of years she has spent with Dhruv, she is still afraid of losing him the way she lost her husband.

Everything that you're saying is right but this is how it is. You cannot eliminate fear and insecurities within people just like that. When you have gotten into the habit of self-victimization ( which Susheela has ), you process nothing but your own set of ( delusional ) truths that you have fed to yourself after the traumatic incident.

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

That's what you and I understand as outsiders who are not in the situation ( maybe we would have understood even if we had been in that situation ) but not Susheela who is in the situation and clearly, still a bit too consumed by the pain of being abandoned.

Insecurities are so personal and quite a lot of times... irrational but they exist and a lot of people just can't help it even when they know how unreasonable their fears are. When letting go becomes hard, insecurities become a part of you.

Susheela still hasn't been able to get over the betrayal of her husband and because she has held onto the torment so tightly, people around her have to bear the brunt even if they don't deserve it.

It's not about how Dhruv will never leave her or go against her or anything of that sort. It's not about Dhruv. It's about Susheela. Why no matter the number of years she has spent with Dhruv, she is still afraid of losing him the way she lost her husband.

Everything that you're saying is right but this is how it is. You cannot eliminate fear and insecurities within people just like that. When you have gotten into the habit of self-victimization ( which Susheela has ), you process nothing but your own set of ( delusional ) truths that you have fed to yourself after the traumatic incident.

yes , i hope sushila comes to realize or some one makes her come out of it.

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

That's what you and I understand as outsiders who are not in the situation ( maybe we would have understood even if we had been in that situation ) but not Susheela who is in the situation and clearly, still a bit too consumed by the pain of being abandoned.

Insecurities are so personal and quite a lot of times... irrational but they exist and a lot of people just can't help it even when they know how unreasonable their fears are. When letting go becomes hard, insecurities become a part of you.

Susheela still hasn't been able to get over the betrayal of her husband and because she has held onto the torment so tightly, people around her have to bear the brunt even if they don't deserve it.

It's not about how Dhruv will never leave her or go against her or anything of that sort. It's not about Dhruv. It's about Susheela. Why no matter the number of years she has spent with Dhruv, she is still afraid of losing him the way she lost her husband.

Everything that you're saying is right but this is how it is. You cannot eliminate fear and insecurities within people just like that. When you have gotten into the habit of self-victimization ( which Susheela has ), you process nothing but your own set of ( delusional ) truths that you have fed to yourself after the traumatic incident.

Beautifully put. 👏 ❤️