Nazar hati durghatna ghati - Page 24

Originally posted by: LoveSaiAyesha

Aree Kya hua . R u said because of sairat.

What is this new complaint that "Sai didn't fight for her marriage" . What should she have done? first she was stuck in a loveless marriage where he gave mixed signals to her but never could let go of his inclination for P. But she gave him umpteen chances. Would always listen to him and forgive every transgression. Then eventually after she acknowledged her love, she was kind to him even when she felt cheated during Shruti track- she cared for his safety, his reputation, Shrutis health. She stayed after Shruti kaand to placate him even though he erred more than her, tolerated his behavior during her miscarriage, illegal surrogacy, baby snatching, she took onus of doing everything herself to prove P a criminal. And after all her efforts to save the marriage, give benefit of doubt, to give a chance to V, trusting him to just be naive or too bhola for P etc, she was rewarded with fake promises from him but ultimately he ALWAYS chose p, he called her an orphan, a home breaker, a bojh, a samjhauta and even blamed her for Sams death. He crossed all limits of decency. Even in her presumed death, he couldn't stay loyal to her or regret his behavior. He married the very criminal who wronged her and till date despite every action of hers showing her classless behavior he still holds P in high regard. What is Sai expected to do?! How does she fight for a man who is completely untrustworthy?

And the new track hasnt started. We have seen how much Sai loves both her children. She can do anything for them. But its assumed that Sai will give up her children. Arey why? Why would a woman who only lives for her kids now give them up. Its either not possible or theres a strong reason for her deeds or she's got another plan. Even Satya has seen how much she's enduring - living with ex and tolerating vindictive people just for her son to accept her. So he knows she's a mother first.

Sai's only got kids now in the name of family. She's only been tolerating VP in her life because of the kids. Why would she abandon them?

And after all the fights she has waged all alone in life, is it such a big deal if she loses her will to keep on fighting, feels exhausted at constantly proving herself to everyone including her own kids and seeks a supportive persons help, friendship, companionship. If she's doing a "deal marriage" rather than marrying for love then she must have discussed things with Satya. She married V in return for his support towards her education so if she's marrying Satya it must be in return for support towards securing her kids future nah...why would Sai - the person who knows the perils of deal marriages enter into one without a reason. Maybe Satya as a friend, companion is the person she needs to gain her will power to get up, and fight back.

Originally posted by: LoveSaiAyesha

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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Whether satya family is good or not. That is secondary.

But virat and chavan family can never be good for kids.

What's the guarantee that they don't do what they did to savi if she loves someone like they did to devi.

What's the guarantee that vinu will not become toxic human being like virat due to chavans upbringing

Atleast we have proper past records to think about these possibilities.

Unlike the baseless possibilities that satya may mol*** savi, satya family may torture savi and so on.

Virat stopped savi from telling sai that pakhi did verbal abuse on her.

How one can even say kids are safe in such environment? Where they r being taught to bear the abuse.

Who predicted that shit Satya molesting Savi? Wtf. These SaiRat shippers 😡 since they're not getting anything major against him to hate on him yeh sab bolne lag gaye. What we should call Rat then? That he groomed an 18 year old teen?

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

I don't really have anything to comment upon your dislike or like for Sai's character, but there are few things that aren't consistent with the show. And that is that she never fought for those around her.

Wasn't she fighting for Vinu this whole time though? The only reason why she even took the custody case back because she felt it would be too traumatizing for him, and given how he is reacting after just one story from Pakhi, I would say that she was even right in her decision. Moreover, Sai always fought for her rights. She only gave up when she felt that the people she is fighting for isn't actually hers at all.

1. She never fought for Virat because she thought that he actually was in love with Pakhi.

2. The moment Sai and Virat got together, and then Pakhi started to come between them aka the surrogacy track, Sai was so big of an obstacle that Pakhi had to send goons to stop her.

3. After the surrogacy nothing could be done, but when it came to Pakhi getting her son, she fought again to such an extent that Virat (that absolute pile of sh-) had to literally snatch Vinu away from her.

4. After Pakhi became successful in getting Vinu, Sai went ahead and sent her to jail. That was the peak of what she could have done. It isn't her fault that Virat misused his powers.

5. After Pakhi got home, Sai again put her foot down and fought for herself and her child and left the home.

6. And now that Pakhi has Vinu, Sai is again and again fighting for her child.

I am not saying Sai isn't at fault here. Her biggest fault is that she is way too good to the people around her and way too trusting, to an extent that it is now borderline stupid. But it just doesn't make sense to say that she is paying the chavans too much attention, or that she isn't paying Savi enough.

Because The chavans literally have her child with them. Her own son. The one whom she thought was dead. How could she possibly leave him or that family alone? If I were in Sai's place, I would too go ahead and live in the Chavan House, because agree or not, that is the best way for Sai to get close to Vinu (excluding legal actions, of course).

And why should she not pay them attention? Karishma herself said in the show, "Just because unke paas ek baccha hai to dusre ko chhod de. Aisa thodi hota hai" Even if she had 10 more Savis with her, she still would have been right to pursue Vinu.

And lastly, No. Sai has shown excellent motherhood in this whole track. Never once had she ever neglected Savi. From acknowledging her schoolwork to playing with her, Sai has always been there for her. Let me explain my point with an example: The telescope night.

Your point of Sai neglecting Savi and not fighting for her would have been right if she had immediately put the telescope away after Vinu had refused to join them. That would have shown her biasedness towards Vinu. But that didn't happen. Sai was sad when Vinu said no. She was heartbroken, but the moment she saw Savi getting sad, she immediately shifted all her attention towards her.

I was skeptical before, thinking that now they might show Sai's neglect towards Savi, but that actually didn't happen. And one or two moments of not being there for a child doesn't mean the parent is not fighting for them.

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Originally posted by: mysticriver

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