Originally posted by: iheartChai
He has finally admitted some of his doings in front of the Birlas. Now he has to do it in front of the Goenkas. I agree he still has a lot to make up for to rebuild the trust. If we had more able writers this whole track would be a treat to watch. But instead we have people giving a third angle cameo so much screen space to be the ML, the FL, the fatherji, the motherji, the brother, the sister, etc. I honestly don't expect much from the writers to properly fix anything that has happened to the characters of Abhi or Akshu. Both of them are doing some seriously out of character and drastic things without proper write up and explanation.
And with that mindset I contend the writers went too far with Abhi's anger that day and this separation. But we have been shown in the past Abhi stews in his anger and his family does not help him get out of it. Instead they continue to pour more oil to that fire. Abhi in his anger refused to go looking for Akshu because he believed in his decision that divorce was for the best. In his ego he never thought could he be wrong. Did he make the wrong choice upon impulse? That is why Akshu called him out on his impulsive actions at the mandir. He should have done something before that 7 months. He initially was concern. He came to the house to find out about Akshu and when the phone call came he was relieved. But none saw that relief because Swarna and Mimi were busy looking at Manish. And what did Manish do when he came back from Pathankot? He told Abhi she was doing fine. And made an off handed comment that Abhi and Akshu were never meant to be. And like that the families and Abhi allowed those voice note messages to be the only communication between them believing Akshu's words that she was doing well. Abhi had divorced her so what right did he have to go visit her? He was also pushed into other responsibilities by his family and we knew Manjari at this point loathed Akshu. I don't doubt not one day went by that the woman would do something to make sure Abhi didn't go looking for Akshu. And then came the 7 months message of her getting married. At this point game over. Abhi really had no more rights to go and speak to Akshu. She was now someone else's wife.
Now he's finally seen what his actions cost him and he's feeling guilty about it. So the hope is he will rise to the occasion when Abhir's truth is out. But with this new third angle cameo the writing has been shifted to highlight him being almost God like and providing people the answers where he gives the dialogues of what the ML is thinking or trying to say or the FL is thinking or trying to say.
Couple days ago people were yelling about Akshu and how it seemed she was more concern to go to a doctor that wasn't Abhi for Abhir's surgery. Before she thought Abhi didn't want to know about his child hence her anger at the rejection call. But now she is afraid that he will know? But if Abhi supposedly didn't care then why is she afraid? Abhi either cares or doesn't care. She didn't seem to flitch at the thought that what if something had happened to Abhi during his accident. Abhir would never have known his real father. Did that accident not in the slightest move her to maybe decide Abhi should know about his kid? And now I am sure this same question will come up again. Abhir has a critical medical condition. She does not want Abhi to know about Abhir. I know part of her fear is more about the families particularly Manjari yelling at her and laying blame on her for hiding her grand child and her son Abhi's kid. And then how this one decision of hiding coincidentally has a big impact on this impending Abhi and Arohi marriage. It's getting very complicated with the amount things happening. Akshu has made it clear that she never was going to let Abhi know he had a child. All due to the misunderstanding over the phone. I know she is trying to protect her "world" and her "son". She still seems to be stuck on that day 6 years ago and her ego won't allow her to see there is a bond naturally happening between Abhi and Abhir. So it's her turn to get some reality check just like Abhi got at the mandir.
The thing is when it comes to abhi and akshu both their families never truly tried to understand both of them.
Same is case with abhi and akshu they love each other, and honestly they understand each other very well but when the time comes to truly stand by each other they are broken by their childhood trauma,beliefs, and ideals.
First abhi
White day was extremely regressive on abhis part. But the part which were abusive were thrwing things, sirat death blame, and calling the blunder by akshu a murder. Divorce was never acceptable but after watching again from start . I tend to understand all these actions. It was not all impulsive except for sirat thing.
I always found it unacceptable how a mother with such complications can forget about her babies no matter the cause how virtous is but atleast i dont think if i or some of the girls will risk their babies life in such dangerous situation.
Now consider abhi
From the topics of preg what not have he gone through.
1) the fact that its very diff for ak to have child , searching ways to find specialists, and treatments so that he can give some hope to ak before breaking news.
2) second being blackmailed by his worst enemy vile arohi, added to fact he has to beg in front of everyone literally he kneeled in front of manish for accepting ar and neil. So that he have time to find some hope for ak.
3) news about preg of ak coupled with fact that he might loose her. He refused to loose ak infront of a chance preg and his fatherhood , he even refused manjiri his mother. but the twins gave him hope combined with aksharas pain and sadness he agreed .but he always considered her his priority so the saying that he only considered babies and divorced her i still dont understand.
4) even after going through all this ak had risker her life two times at picnic and ngo now consider the emotions of man who had taken so much care and being blackmailed he lost the hope which akshu herself had given.
His behaviour on white day
1)Throwing things and why does doesnt he realise it as abusive. Because it was never his intention .to hurt her if we see initial ep abhi when extremely angry when harsh doesnt listen , he breaks things , throws things and shouts because he always wanted his voice to be heard it was never his intention to hurt anyone .
Despite begging akshu so many times to not risk her and her babies life , he lost it all that day , it was his desperation not just anger by throwing things "why his voice is not heard by akshu" . When he never intended to hurt her or in his right mind he would do this intentionally like parth or harsh .then how can he realise its abusive. Unless someone points it to him.
2) murder blames , divorce blames and why he not realised.
Abhi as a child always witnesed his mother sacrifice for this family and him even going through a abusive relation. abhi was never sacrificing, he hated it , he always was selfish when it comes to his mother and neil rest all he knew how they were so he was always respectable to them but not care for them as much neil and his mother.
Now seeing akshu HE ALWAYS ADMIRED AKSHARA because she resembles his sacridicing nature like initial manjari was , BUT HE NEVER WANTED AKSHARA TO SACRIFICE HER HAPPINESS FOR FAMILY LIKE HIS MOTHER DID. thats where akshu and abhis IDOLIGIES clash.
I want write about it but in diff post.
here akshu because of her ideology and sacrificial nature has lost everything exactly how abhi feared.
Now consider from childhood suffering seing his mother suffer because of this same nature. seeing his wife also doing same thing and loosing everything. abhi has stopped akshu from "RISKING HER AND BABIES LIFE , " now in that day abhi came to realisation if even her babies , neil and herself life stop akshu from following her ideology .will she ever listen to him ."THIS TRAGEDY WILL REPEAT AGAIN". now
Consider if you care for someone so deeply but they dont care for your worries and care, instead follow their ideology resulting harming themselves and you , what will any normal person would do , you distance yourself from them. in order to not suffer more by seeing them in pain . i.e what abhi has done that day in divorce and in rest of 7 months. IT WAS NOT JUST ANGER , IT WAS ALSO PROTECTING HIMSELF FROM THE SAME PAIN ,) because akshu would not have listened and his mother would continue the blame game so to stalemate situation . he as father,brother, and husband distanced herself from her. to salvage whatever was left .so that he may not be destroyed more watching akshu herself destroying her happiness because of her ideologies so thats why he never realized. Because he realized there only what akshu did was not morally wrong but he was never able to accept her decision that before taking such a decision she didnt think about herself, her babies, and him nor as a family .so
Why he now realized because in these six years he realised he cannot live a sane life without her, and that ngo case was worst akshu could have gone sacrificing there could never be worst than that.so he accepted even though he considers it as akshus mistake but his love for her overpowers his childhood trauma of hating sacrifices.
This leap was needed because abhi to some extent have come in terms with aksharas sacrificing nature. Which remained one of the reasons for their clashes.
This is i think of watching abhi on white day.
Edited by SAOkr - 2 years ago
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