Sai good mother

What kind of mother sai is.....

Originally posted by: akniti

What kind of mother sai is.....

I think she is great mother

But what I also believe the idea of motherhood alot of people have is

You can only be good mother as long as you are suffering and having hard time in motherhood

If you say you enjoy being a mother but also have interest life outside of looking after your kids

Lol they will shame you

Be like how are you having a fun being a mother

This role should be end of you

You have noo life no right over your own life after being a mother

Which is toxic

Only women get penalised for these things

I have never seen a single post where people are criticizing Virat for having a life , a career , a wife outside of being a father

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

I think she is great mother

But what I also believe the idea of motherhood alot of people have is

You can only be good mother as long as you are suffering and having hard time in motherhood

If you say you enjoy being a mother but also have interest life outside of looking after your kids

Lol they will shame you

Be like how are you having a fun being a mother

This role should be end of you

You have noo life no right over your own life after being a mother

Which is toxic

Only women get penalised for these things

I have never seen a single post where people are criticizing Virat for having a life , a career , a wife outside of being a father

This itna rage nhi tha rather he is still hailed as good father and rather was being understood with deep analysis like Sai ne kyada bigada hai bhai.

So majority feels sai good mother

A part from her excessive Vinu jaap that irritates me to no end now, I think she's a good mother.

What I don't understand is why she thinks she ows PP anything and needs to respect that awful monster's so called marriage when PP never gave her the same courtesy.

If Sai wants to be with Vinu so bad and knows that V still wants Sai, then why care about PP's feelings? She can just yes to his proposal and marry him... BK will make sure Vinu doesn't leave CN and understands the situation somehow, I'm sure, as well as find a way to keep PP away from her chahita nephew's family.

Yes, Vinu considers PP his mother... so? If Savi can be expected to accept her "parents" divorcing to marry someone else, what makes Vinu so special???? All this focus on him makes me wish they'd end his SL altogether and just keep Savi.

Sai is the best mother her thankless kids could get...she did everything for them but there is a limit to everytime. Daughter always doing baba jaap, son doing mumma jaap. She even was CAed for living in her ex's house just because of kids but kids, especially savi, did not even remember to keep a piece of sandwich for her aai.

See there is a limit you can do things for anyone, beyond which you are exhausted.

Okay, kids are too young but not that much to not understand the dynamics between parents.

Sai lost everything for her kids, even herself but it won't be wrong if she keeps herself as an individual above herself as a mother...

V can behave as a teenager being a 50 year old father of two but Sai is CAed why though...typical patriarchal mindset.

Sai is good in all her relationships be it be daughter, bahu, bhabhi, sister (for mohit, samrat, pulkit), wife (yes she was) mom (there is no doubt about it) sadly very sadly other than her father all betrayed her yes her kids too... For Vinu I don't want to comment... Even Savi.. yes she is baby girl and innocent but she can get easily influenced... That kid is so obsessed with her dad that she didn't even look at her mom's pain.... Savi at Kankavli was so attached to her mom even though she missed her dad after meeting Virat and going to CN she is so overwhelmed with her real family that she can't even noticed that she is sad... She even started to hide things from her mom thanks to Virat... His instincts to save Pakhi is beyond my understanding... It's not always a mother fails sometimes we kids also fails... I am upset with the way they are making putna a great mom and Sai losing her kids to that witch..

Besides... Vinu must be around 8 yrs now, so he can be calmly told and explained things concerning the adults around him which affect him personally and asked to accept the situation if he wants his father's happiness.

All this fear that V has about upsetting Putna and his son, but doesn't give a flying flip about upsetting and hurting the so called love of his life Sai (unless there's a new man in sight who has his eyes on her) is appalling.