I am pisssd at Anuj - Page 2

Didn’t Anuj tell AnupaMAA all the reasons and more ? He was interrupted by D couple. And Anu took everything on face value and kept telling herself that he didn’t mean it, that those were words of anger.

When a distorted person is pushed to the limits, this is the outcome. Had AnupaMAA given him space to grieve properly instead of expecting him to participate and play Shah House Holi, may be Anuj would have gotten chance to come back to normalcy. Clearly he didn’t, hence he is still in trauma.

In real life, businessmen, that too such self-made rich ones don’t behave like this. Earlier he was a fool to become a puppy, still a fool to not seek for professional help and become a refugee in Mumbai.

Originally posted by: ninastx

What makes you think I escaped Twitter.. Here on this forum everyone has been making fun of Anupama and have called her names. I said what I felt about Maya.
Hurt anyone’s feelings…didn’t mean to.

Once again, going to repeat a very simple thing. You can call out Maaya for her delusion, cheap antics and desperation for Anuj without linking it to her past and thus furthering a negative stereotype.

Because the same PH which has shown bechaari Anupamaa's dukh, dard, peeda has given a sympathetic background and shown characters like Anupamaa taking a stand against others for making negative remarks based on this past which is something millions of women are trapped in across the world. No indications as such have been given that her past is a lie so until that is said we can only go by what is shown.

People here or anywhere will continue to make fun of Anupamaa because her problems are self inflicted however much she cries and blames others. You may not agree with that and that's completely fine because it's your view and you are entitled to that. But if we go by your logic, then we would start making generalised comments on all women who have divorced with children for example. That is never done here. Comments are only about the character Anupamaa and her actions. Hope you understand the difference.

I agree with some things. Anuj has had plenty of time to evaluate his situation and give closure to Anupama by divorcing her. He still isn't willing to talk to her. It's either Anupama or Devika or Dheeraj or Kanta. He is taking his relations for granted now that his grief has reduced somewhat being with Choti. It shouldn't have been Maya who informed Barkha but Anuj. To Anupama and Barkha both. Yes, Anupama deserved closure. Anuj is wrong here.

Most of the people will put their children above all, including themselves. You don't tell a father to choose between his wife and his daughter like Kanta did. Kanta is fighting for her daughter above all, Anuj was fighting for his daughter above all , my problem from the beginning of this track is why isn't Anupama fighting for her daughter? After the 15 day challenge proposal, Anupama has been shown with Shahs much, much more than Choti. Maya was right - in the most important 15 days of Choti's life , Anupama gives priority to a joint family backed, married , ill Toshu , then what must be happening on normal days? We as audience knows that on any day whether it's Choti's school admission, picnic, school function, panic attack or first new year away from orphanage- it is always the Shahs who will be prioritised over Choti. Assuming she already knew Maya would anyway take away Choti, she shouldn't have thrown the 15 day challenge and made promises to Anuj regarding Choti and the subsequent locking and pushing. No amount of white washing in this show will convince that Anupama did everything she could for Choti after the scene where Choti tells Anupama that she is sacrificing for their sake and Anupama keeps quiet and doesn't allow Anuj to coax out the truth from Choti either.

Professional help ki to baat hi mat karo , is serial mein kon hai jisse professional support ki need nhi hai, anupama ko sabse se jyada zarurat lekin phir mahanta pe dhaba lag jayega , anuj ko in logo ke saath rehte rehte medical help ki need ho gayi hai. Khali aaj tak pakhi ko medical problem batayi gayi thi lekin usse ke baad bhi kuch khas farak pada nhi.

Shah family ka treatment impossible hai

Originally posted by: Potato_couch

That's a really awful thing to say. She wasn't having one night stands. She was raped. Multiple times.

And even if someone has one night stands, doesn't mean they should be considered as less than their peers. And for that matter, having a sugar daddy is not a character flaw either.

So true their hate for maaya seems unnecessary now because she is not evil

She just loves anuj and ye yahi log bolte hai ki anuj se kisi ko bhi pyaar hoga toh maaya ko bhi ho gaya atleast she didn't any planning plotting for separate maan

Originally posted by: ninastx

Yes. Maaya is a cheap nut case. Not surprised…looking at her past. What can we expect from her. She is looking for a sugar daddy now…she is done with the one night stands.🤬

For your kind information maaya was not did any ons her husband soled her so she was forced to sleep with mens

And ons ki baat agar kar rahi rahe toh anuj ne bhi countless ons kiye so should we declare him as characterless man?

They actually don't have a story to tell.

Honestly,in iTV the only thing that truly sells is love and drama.

People like us might enjoy Anu's individual story, and TRP audience might also for a while,but in the long run,they would again want the love story and Shah drama.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

AnupaMaa, despite her one thousand one flaws, deserved closure. Everybody needs closure to move forward. Anuj should have ended the relationship with a face-to-face conversation with her. I don't blame him for wanting to end the relationship with her, but I will always blame him for not being upfront with her. And, I do not get why he wants to end things with her. He is pissed at her because she prioritized her kids over him. Is not he also doing the same thing now? Both threw their spouse under the bus for their kids. I felt bad seeing her condition today. She did not deserve such a harsh punishment. The Mandir conversation is flashing before my eyes.

I have resolved not to watch. I don’t think Anuj Kapadia would do something like this. Breaking up his marriage for stupid reasons, that too via someone else. For the sake of drama and TRP they have completely destroyed his essence.
Also for a thousand flaws of her, she STILL doesn’t deserve this. I can’t imagine the trauma of a broken marriage happening TWICE to the same woman. Both the men she loved betrayed her. Nobody deserves that. Everyone here crying “neglect neglect neglect”, I’m sure most have no idea what marriage is like. There are people doing long distance marriages for work, education and a thousand other reasons. They don’t break like glass. Misplaced priorities can be reason enough for going to therapy, but not for divorce that too like this.

A beautiful love story destroyed by a greedy production house. Hope your business goes to rot, thu thu thu uncle.

Anuj is leaving anupama for his daughter but anupama didn't leave anuj for her children. She tried to juggle between two roles. If anuj would be having his own kids he would be running behind them more. Both of them have first priority as their children n it's a very realistic thing.

Instead of using IVF as an option he wants to get seperated. So many use IVF in middle age.

Anuj himself used to celebrate with shah's n invite them even though baa n vanraj used to insult him.

Working ppl's spouse or children also many times get neglected but they don't run away in 6-8 months. Because of working culture ppl give less time to relationships. Ppl with govt job mostly live in different cities and many MNCs ppl even work in different countries and many times it's husband who is looking after kids as wife is more busy. Ppl hire nanny for kids because they have other priorities too.

Anuj first got mukku married to wrong man then let her live like running here n there. Never tried to help her with her depression. Then left her with vanraj who was using her n chose anupama over her..Anuj is always a wrong decision maker n a keeps running away from tough situation.

Ppl who say anuj should leave anupama don't know how tough it's to keep a marriage running. It's sacrifice from both ends and not always a rosy life.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Anuj is leaving anupama for his daughter but anupama didn't leave anuj for her children. She tried to juggle between two roles. If anuj would be having his own kids he would be running behind them more. Both of them have first priority as their children n it's a very realistic thing.

Instead of using IVF as an option he wants to get seperated. So many use IVF in middle age.

Anuj himself used to celebrate with shah's n invite them even though baa n vanraj used to insult him.

Working ppl's spouse or children also many times get neglected but they don't run away in 6-8 months. Because of working culture ppl give less time to relationships. Ppl with govt job mostly live in different cities and many MNCs ppl even work in different countries and many times it's husband who is looking after kids as wife is more busy. Ppl hire nanny for kids because they have other priorities too.

Anuj first got mukku married to wrong man then let her live like running here n there. Never tried to help her with her depression. Then left her with vanraj who was using her n chose anupama over her..Anuj is always a wrong decision maker n a keeps running away from tough situation.

Ppl who say anuj should leave anupama don't know how tough it's to keep a marriage running. It's sacrifice from both ends and not always a rosy life.

Unless a person can prioritize his/her spouse above everything, he/she should not get married. Marriage is not compulsory. MAA should not have thought about re-marrying when she had so many responsibilities, and Anuj should not have adopted a child with a woman who had three kids of her own. None of them gave any importance to their marriage. A marriage needs to be nurtured every day. You can't just throw your spouse under the bus because you prioritize your kid over him/her.

Anuj is behaving irrationally. He himself does not know what he wants.