I am pisssd at Anuj - Page 3

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

In real life, businessmen, that too such self-made rich ones don’t behave like this.

I believed that too and then social media happened and I saw how people like Trump and Musk behave on Twitter. However whether they are self made is highly debatable

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Unless a person can prioritize his/her spouse above everything, he/she should not get married. Marriage is not compulsory. MAA should not have thought about re-marrying when she had so many responsibilities, and Anuj should not have adopted a child with a woman who had three kids of her own. None of them gave any importance to their marriage. A marriage needs to be nurtured every day. You can't just throw your spouse under the bus because you prioritize your kid over him/her.

Anuj is behaving irrationally. He himself does not know what he wants.

Not just children many ppl have responsibilities of old parents or work too. Spouse do get neglected but they understand each other's situation n try to find a solution together for a decent amount of time.

Anuj ran away so quickly like marriage is for good times only. He should have gave ultimatum to anupama to prioritized properly or relationship will be over. But he left so fast. Such sudden break of relationship can turn ppl suicidal or ppl can have stroke especially who have suffered same trauma before n r in middle age.

The person who never had guts to admit to a girl that he loves her back then how would he gain that courage after all these years to end it? Whatever you guys believe that fine but I believe that he is a coward and a very selfish person. MAA has many flaws but no one DESERVES this is life. She was trying to come out of a trauma there his PAA man comes in and promises millions of things to someone who has suffered a cheat and he wasnt able to hold it to it at all. He is 100% selfish, PAA is worst than MAA in this situation. She or any woman who wants to love again and move forward in life doesnt not deserve such a mishap.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Not just children many ppl have responsibilities of old parents or work too. Spouse do get neglected but they understand each other's situation n try to find a solution together for a decent amount of time.

Anuj ran away so quickly like marriage is for good times only. He should have gave ultimatum to anupama to prioritized properly or relationship will be over. But he left so fast. Such sudden break of relationship can turn ppl suicidal or ppl can have stroke especially who have suffered same trauma before n r in middle age.

Anuj already told Anu the Maa to prioritize choti and their relationship otherwise she will loose everything after the annual completion when she claimed atleast she came and danced with choti, like that was so benevolent of her. So the so called ultimatum was already served.

Anuj did not run at first sign of inconvenience/ bad times.That would have been 1st bad time when Kinjal fell and Ravanraj did tamasha in Anuj’s home. 2nd bad time when Pakhi insulted and threw Anupamaa out. Next inconvenience just after his accident when she ran to SH to celebrate homecoming leaving him at the mercy of an octogenarian and a kid and 3 people he had just lost any trust in. Next bad time when Anupamaa realized that Paritosh cheated Kinjal. Next inconvenience was when he had to handle Choti’s admission which Anu the maa took responsibility for but forgot because of her need for sab sab sab. He let go of her biological children’s fraudulent behaviour - Paritosh’s false complaint to child services, his fraudulent use of AK name for business and Pakhi’s fraudulent jewellery purchase those were some of the inconveniences for Anuj Kapadia. He did not run any of those times but understood her predicament and was her major if not the only support and helped her heal along with Choti.

Anuj left when he lost his daughter and was not even allowed to express or come to terms with his grief and his emotions were being trivialized.

Originally posted by: ninastx

So true…and the promo made me cry buckets..”Ek maa ko bhi maa ki zaroorat par sakti hai”. Anuj should have really given Anupama a closure. I hated Maya’s guts….her convo with Kaanta Maa. 😢😢😢😢
The problem here was Anupama lacked self confidence due to her upbringing and than followed by in-laws domestic abuse….she was neither able to stand up for herself nor was she able to distinguish being taken granted for….she let everyone walk all over her. 😢😢

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

AnupaMaa, despite her one thousand one flaws, deserved closure. Everybody needs closure to move forward. Anuj should have ended the relationship with a face-to-face conversation with her. I don't blame him for wanting to end the relationship with her, but I will always blame him for not being upfront with her. And, I do not get why he wants to end things with her. He is pissed at her because she prioritized her kids over him. Is not he also doing the same thing now? Both threw their spouse under the bus for their kids. I felt bad seeing her condition today. She did not deserve such a harsh punishment. The Mandir conversation is flashing before my eyes.

I did not feel bad at all. Even today she was counting what she did for SH. Not a single sentence about what she did for Anuj or CA or people of KM. Bolti bhi kaise, kiya kya hai besides taking care of comatose Anuj. Woh bhi only until he regained consciousness did not even wait until he was fit n fine, as she had to dance with dadaji being the only dadi in the world. Main us ghar ki acchi bahu, maa, patni nahi ban payi, all in context to SH, Acchi hoti to ghar nahi tootta. Does she still want to get back to Vanraj. Woman your husband is Anuj not Vanraj. SH is waiting with open arms to welcome their unpaid maid. No need bahao bekaar ke aansu.

What I saw and understood, Anuj is pissed as Anu the Maa did not give enough priority to or even thought about CA, neither did she let him do anything when she gaslighted Anuj that CA is happy with Maya and he is standing in the way of CAs happiness. He is not even thinking that he is not on her priority list at all. She keeps crying and braying now that Anuj is important to her and she cannot live without him. But let one of the SH inmates find trouble, as is their penchant. Phir yeh khud hi poochegi ‘kaun Anuj kahaan ka Anuj’. ‘Mei maa hu ne’ so she will need to be the doormat maid for SH inmates. I didn’t know she is mother to Hasmukh, Leela and Vanraj besides her 3 nalayak biological toddlers in adult bodies.