Chillane se sach nahi badalta .. Vinayak mera beta hai - Page 18

Originally posted by: LuvTomJerry99

I respect your view.

I however am optimistic. I personally know a person who has not only married a single mother. but legally adopted both her kids (her ex is alive and well, and they share joint custody of the kids). Her girl and boy were 9 and 6 year old respectively. He loves them like his own, and even when they had their twins, he has never differentiated between the kids. He loves them dearly. Their are stepparents out their that take on parents responsibility well. I understand it may be a rare case, however Satya and Sai can be shown to be that couple. Sai can have a life partner that accepts all of her with open arms and vice versa. Sai accepting Satya's part and both healing together ❤. Why not?

Exactly 💯. There are people like this in real life. People like Anuj aren't fiction. Hothe hai aise log. It's not an unrealistic dream.

Even if P murders someone, V will keep on doing farz jaap and CN won't kick out P. She's become an established family member.

And till date, V hasn't realised how much he has hurt Sai by marrying the woman who destroyed her life and marriage . He has zero guilt .

From whatever we've seen, Sathya definitely has more integrity than nalla chavan. He can be a wonderful father figure to Vinu and Savi.

Why should Sai sacrifice her youth and wait till the kids are grown up to marry someone she likes? That's such a wrong thinking.

V can marry patra, go on HM with her, and allow her meddling into kid's lives but Sai should be single. It's sad that women have this patriarchal thinking. People who genuinely love Sai and want best for her wouldn't think like this

The girl never had a proper college life, always had patra spitting venom throughout her marriage, her husband always had a soft corner for his ex and the marriage wasn't a happy one. Sai also deserves a partner who'll love and cherish her, keep her first in his life and a stable, happy marriage . She's not just a mother, she's a human being too.

Originally posted by: Haalim

Dangein karwayein gi kya aap? 🤣

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

Exactly Phir she can have new babies with new husband..

.. why should Savi grow up in a strange house when her dad n brother live in another house.. they are there to protect her Zz Kaku , Ashwini n ninad will take care of her.. Sai can meet her kids during her off days .. Wayse bhi Usha maushi .. used to take care .. now she will her own real grandparents n badi ajji keeping a watch ..
😂😂

I dont want sai to leave her kids for someone for new man..in anyone's life mother place cant be replaced by anyone..at the same time father rights also cant be denied...i just want V to free from his toxic marriage and just to be part of his kids lives. And sai should alsk think in all aspects before steppinginto new relation.

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

I totally agree .. people think that others are so benevolent to accept kisi aur ka baccha it rarely happens.. maximum friendship type is relationship rehta hai

What they showed in yeh rishta is different the other guy has been with FL since her pregnancy, brought the boy up as an infant .. so he is the father ..

the case with patralekha is also unfortunately same regarding vinu she gave birth to him .. ( horrible motive ) but adopted him to get close in virat ki life .. however her love for vinu was pure on adoption phase

Expecting a strange guy with strange family to accept another man’s children as their own .. is a pipe dream .. neither Virat will agree nor Savi., Sai stands to lose both her kids in CN .

Staying alone as a single mom .. having a discrete relationship with a man is one thing quite normal but getting married suddenly . Doing vidai from your previous sasural and expect that the kids will also walk out with her .. is a pipe dream and Sai is not foolish at all .. her Stan’s may think otherwise

Actually Sai is in a much better position right now in CN than ever.

V is madly in love with her again.

BK is desperate to keep her in CN.

Others like Omi Sonali who used to harass her are in her favour.

Ash Ninu are non entity but their vested interest in V's wellbeing will make their turn easy.

Sai has never had this kind of approval in CN ever... not even after remarriage and when she was the chahiti bahu for sometime.

She should rather stay back in CN and use this for exacting revenge from everyone.

Make them dance to her tunes... and be the actual bahu and malkin of CN.

Make them repay for everything they have done to her.

I keep saying Sai has the tetua under control.... she doesn't want use it, neither knows how to use it... 🤪

With 2 heirs and husband in love, she can just sit back and relax for once 😏😏

Wohi toh hum bhi keh rahe hai ..

Give it time .. don’t start any formal new relationship till you have both your kids with you .. they have understood the situation that you and Virat are the parents .. Chavans are the real family .. however parents are not together .. don’t add new complications

Originally posted by: Moor278

Actually Sai is in a much better position right now in CN than ever.

V is madly in love with her again.

BK is desperate to keep her in CN.

Others like Omi Sonali who used to harass her are in her favour.

Ash Ninu are non entity but their vested interest in V's wellbeing will make their turn easy.

Sai has never had this kind of approval in CN ever... not even after remarriage and when she was the chahiti bahu for sometime.

She should rather stay back in CN and use this for exacting revenge from everyone.

Make them dance to her tunes... and be the actual bahu and malkin of CN.

Make them repay for everything they have done to her.

I keep saying Sai has the tetua under control.... she doesn't want use it, neither knows how to use it... 🤪

With 2 heirs and husband in love, she can just sit back and relax for once 😏😏

Wahi naa....replace the LAAL MALKIN now itself.

Kia jarurat hai kuch bhi aur kasht karne kii...gin-gin ke badla lo....mauka....maukaa

Originally posted by: Moor278

Actually Sai is in a much better position right now in CN than ever.

V is madly in love with her again.

BK is desperate to keep her in CN.

Others like Omi Sonali who used to harass her are in her favour.

Ash Ninu are non entity but their vested interest in V's wellbeing will make their turn easy.

Sai has never had this kind of approval in CN ever... not even after remarriage and when she was the chahiti bahu for sometime.

She should rather stay back in CN and use this for exacting revenge from everyone.

Make them dance to her tunes... and be the actual bahu and malkin of CN.

Make them repay for everything they have done to her.

I keep saying Sai has the tetua under control.... she doesn't want use it, neither knows how to use it... 🤪

With 2 heirs and husband in love, she can just sit back and relax for once 😏😏

Originally posted by: Nirip

Wahi naa....replace the LAAL MALKIN now itself.

Kia jarurat hai kuch bhi aur kasht karne kii...gin-gin ke badla lo....mauka....maukaa

I want someone to wipeoff her smirk permanently. I want someone to crush her arrogance. Am waiting for that day...am missing sam dada..

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

I totally agree .. people think that others are so benevolent to accept kisi aur ka baccha it rarely happens.. maximum friendship type is relationship rehta hai

What they showed in yeh rishta is different the other guy has been with FL since her pregnancy, brought the boy up as an infant .. so he is the father ..

the case with patralekha is also unfortunately same regarding vinu she gave birth to him .. ( horrible motive ) but adopted him to get close in virat ki life .. however her love for vinu was pure on adoption phase

Expecting a strange guy with strange family to accept another man’s children as their own .. is a pipe dream .. neither Virat will agree nor Savi., Sai stands to lose both her kids in CN .

Staying alone as a single mom .. having a discrete relationship with a man is one thing quite normal but getting married suddenly . Doing vidai from your previous sasural and expect that the kids will also walk out with her .. is a pipe dream and Sai is not foolish at all .. her Stan’s may think otherwise

It's not as easy as people think for kids to accept someone else as their mother/father.

Let's take Vinu's case and Savi’s case itself. Vinu loved and respected Sai, wanted to call her choti mumma as a mark of respect but the moment he came to know Sai is indeed his biological mother he didn't accept her. Yes I agree it was due to Pakhi's brainwashing too but now that he is out of Pakhi's manipulations he is still not accepting Sai as his aai. He is taking his own time and Sai too is being patient with him. In the current situation he thinks it's better to call Sai doctor aunty to avoid further complications. He is not even calling her choti mumma. He will need more time to start calling his own biological mother Aai.

Now it's Savi’s turn. Savi accepted Virat as her godh liya hua Baba till her real Baba turns up. When Bhavani told her Virat is indeed her real Baba she laughed at her. She immediately didn't believe her nor did she accept it easily that Virat is indeed her biological dad. When Bhavani showed her proofs, their second marriage pics that's when Savi accepted Virat as her biological father.

These kids will surely like Satya as their mother's friend but I don't think they'll give Virat's place to him in their lives. Even if Sai later marries Satya they'll only treat her as Sai's husband not their father.

That won’t happen.. she is not the vengeful sort

Whatever be her individual position .. she is entitled to it .. but she should not push her kids in new complications

Virat has already made a mess by getting in a marriage with patralekha.. the children are already paying a price to this ..

Keep your private life away from your kids