Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 18 Mar 2023 - Page 3

Originally posted by: ga1986

Sometimes the show is so tone deaf it amazes me ... ok , maybe the writers were senseless enough to write a scene like that , don’t the other ppl on set realise how wrong it may look ? Have the director , Ketaki , actors all lost their senses that they keep blindly shooting such scenes ?im guessing the scene wasn’t even imp to the story , just to shoot something to fill the episodes they are doing this 😡

Anyway looks like next track to be butchered is going to be depression ...

That violation of privacy part was so horrible. Infact, everything about the show appears so tone-deaf, what are they even doing to their titular character?

Are their intentions to portray Anupama as a self-obsessed woman with zero self awareness, who, in the quest of looking great, is causing great pain and suffering to Anuj and Choti - two amongst the very, very few people who made the mistake of genuinely loving her - a woman, instead of thinking "I need to understand Anuj's pain" is thinking "Why is Anuj not understanding my pain?"

If that's their intention, they are doing a very good job.

Originally posted by: Harish111

I know, at first glance this advice doesn't sound very romantic.

How it sounds is meaningful and realistic.

Faltu ka drama

Anupama ki journey to dikhani nahi bus yahi faltu ka drama kheechte rahenge

Is serial mein bus choti bus choti aur khuch nahi 4 month se bus choti choti. Choti chal raha choti Christmas pe nahi jaa Payi choti school function nahi Jeet paayi choti ka yeh nahi hua choti choti ka woh nahi hua arey kya yeh anupama serial adoption or foster ki.story hai jo itna detail mein dikha rahe ho ?

These cvs not at all bother about anupama journey bus yahi choti choti chalta rahega

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Faltu ka drama

Anupama ki journey to dikhani nahi bus yahi faltu ka drama kheechte rahenge

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

When I suffered from a miscarriage, I used to lie the whole day in bed. I stopped doing household chores. I had no idea about the passage of time. I ignored everyone around me. My husband not for once asked me why I was ignoring him or not looking at him. He let me grieve as much as I wanted. Losing a child is not like losing your hair clip that after crying for 5 minutes, you can go back to happily romancing your spouse. MAA should for once stop making everything about herself. That, "Aap Meri Taraf Dekhte Bhi Nahin" was beyond cheap. First, look at his condition before asking him to look at you. You can lie on a footpath with your daughter, but you can't sit with him for a while. All you are worrying about is Mera Anuj Mujhse Door Hojayega. Lady, that man is gone far from himself.

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss, good thing you had support from your husband during that time. Totally agree with your points here about grieving. There can't be time limit on these things. Each person takes things differently and has different ways of handling grief. I also don't get what she is trying to do here.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

These character have the hear word compromise sacrifice and adjustment ? .now in choti matter in character ko over obess8ve ego chodna hoga yss it is painful but compromise sacrifice adjustment ke elawa koi raasta hai

Hoe long will they will keep crying yes it is painful but how long will this keep character crying

Compromised adjust ment sacrifice ke elawa koi raaste hai cheej se Bahar nikalna ka ?

So agar baat cheej se Hal se nahi nikala raha hai to better hai dono parties apni petition court mein daale aur Jo court order Kare usko Maane

Anupama is not allowing Anuj to approach the court or even do a DNA test, she is not even telling him the truth why CA chose Maya over them, just letting him believe he failed as a father

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

When will this Poor Pallu be free from the clutches of MAA 😭 #PalluLivesMatter

Arrey pallu use karna iss role ka takiya kalaam hai .. Jaano bujho yaaron. ….Agar pallu har episode mein use nahin kiya Anupama Anupama nahin rahegi ne !!

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

When I suffered from a miscarriage, I used to lie the whole day in bed. I stopped doing household chores. I had no idea about the passage of time. I ignored everyone around me. My husband not for once asked me why I was ignoring him or not looking at him. He let me grieve as much as I wanted. Losing a child is not like losing your hair clip that after crying for 5 minutes, you can go back to happily romancing your spouse. MAA should for once stop making everything about herself. That, "Aap Meri Taraf Dekhte Bhi Nahin" was beyond cheap. First, look at his condition before asking him to look at you. You can lie on a footpath with your daughter, but you can't sit with him for a while. All you are worrying about is Mera Anuj Mujhse Door Hojayega. Lady, that man is gone far from himself.

Hugs my dear … may the lord keep you n your family happy n healthy always 🤗

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I don't know what this woman is made of. How can someone be so cruel? Anuj was crying mercilessly saying that he has failed as a father, he blamed himself for not being able to win CA's heart, but the woman for once did not clear his misconception by revealing the truth. She could have said that CA left because she felt she caused fights between her parents not because Anuj failed as a father.

A few days have passed. Anuj has succumbed to severe depression. MAA tries to get closer to him but he continuously pushes her away. Anuj stops going to the office. A worried Dukhmukh visits the bank to check whether his account has been deactivated. He encourages his puppet to keep trying to activate the bank account. Since Dukhmukh foresees bankruptcy, he starts to pamper Kavya and Anirudh.

Tired of being ignored, neglected, and not prioritized Deviji confronts Anuj. She demands his attention. She asks him why he ignores her and does not look at her. That woman does not have a shred of sadness for her daughter. The only thing she keeps repeating is, " Mere Aur Anuj Ki Riste Toot Jayega..."

I had a sadistic pleasure seeing Deviji getting royally ignored by her puppy. She is so used to being admired that now she is finding it hard to breathe without his constant praises. Finally, she got a taste of her own medicine. She knows how it feels to be always neglected.

CA is genuinely happy with MAAya now.

If she reveals

the blame will go on shahs and anupama

asfight was because of non stop anupama going to shahs

so anuj fought with anupama no

samjha karo

she does not want anyone to blame her or shahs for this mess of CA feeling why mom dad fight

Thhere are four phases of grief always

Denial

Anger

Bargaining

Depression

Acceptance

Anuj is in 4th pahse right now depression as per psychology when you lose someone close be it family or a pet or relative

Some emotional people get struck in depression and can go mentally weak means in lay term mad after someones death or loss

Anuj needs counselling and psychiatrist help now and even from first stage actually

Because anuj is most likely candidate to go from depression to mentally weak means mad

When anupama married only hes gone on 26 years depression actually or denial mode

If they went to court all this would have happened too CA, anuj, maya, anupama all would get counselled