Akshara ka dukh with 0 guilt

Akshara baar baar bol rahi hai ki uss din usne bhi bahot kuch khoya tha. Jaise baki sab dukhi the waise woh bhi dukhi thi. But kya uss din baat sirf akshara ko dukhi feel karne tak ki he thi ???!

Aj mujse kisi ne bahot sahi question pucha ki if she had admitted in clear words that she was wrong that day while saving the girls , will abhimanyu not divorce her ? What exactly will change ?

My answer is if she had admitted in clear words that she was wrong that day when she asked Neil to stop goons for good 15-20 minutes to save the girls , it would have shown 2 most important sides.

1. It had showed that she is acknowledging that she made huge mistake by expecting from neil to stop goons for 15-20 minutes without waiting for police or any help. She has guilt for her impulsive choice. Akshara ke sorry se neil wapas nahi aata lekin yeh toh dikhta ki woh janti hai ki usne sab messy kiya hai babies ke sath goon ke paas ja kar.

Jaisa aj abhimanyu ke realisation se akshara ne jo suffer kiya woh undo nahi hoga lekin at least aj yeh to feel hua ki Abhimanyu ko itne saal ke baad bahot sahi realisation hua. Akshara ke case mai woh din kabhi aata he nahi.

2. Akshara apni galti ko acknowledge karti toh Abhimanyu divorce deta ki nahi : Muje lagta hai ki uss din jab Abhimanyu ne confront kiya tab agar Akshara ne bola hota ki usko pata hai ki sab kitna messy ho gaya hai and she feels genuinely guilty for risking both babies and Neil and for a time being woh birla house mai rehne ki apni zid chod kar bade papa ke paas rehne chali jayegi so matter thoda thanda ho jaye aisa kuch acche se express karti toh definitely yeh sab nahi hua hota . Uss din aisa nahi tha ki Abhimanyu ne direct faisla sunaya tha. He had asked Akshara questions but she kept mum in place of expressing the guilt of risking both babies in front of goons.

She is a mother. Thoda toh guilt hona chahiye ki kash apne babies ke risk par goon ke paas nahi gayi hoti toh shayad dusra baby bhi zinda ho sakta tha. Lekin strange isko kabhi babies ko goons ke risk mai dalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai abhi tak!

I have suffered miscarriage. Maine toh Akshara ke jaise kisi goons ke paas ja kar apne baby ko risk mai bhi nahi dala tha fir bhi guilt feel hota hai lekin isne toh khud apne babies ko risk mai daala tha goons ke paas ja kar fir bhi sirf dukh hota hai but no guilt. Akshara ko jo bhi hua uska dukh bahot hai but guilt bilkul nahi hai! Surprising! Neil ka chodo , apne khud ke baby ko risk mai daalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai!

Dukh hone mai aur guilt hone mai bahot fark hai. Uss din baki sab ke jaise akshara ne bhi bahot kuch khoya tha aur woh bhi dukhi thi agree lekin dukh ke allawa apne babies ko risk mai daalne ka koi guilt usse aj tak nahi hai.

Kyon akshara ko apne babies ko goon ke paas ja kar risk mai daalne ka koi guilt aj tak nahi hai ?! Kyon sirf dukh he hua usse?!

She never regrets ...Never accept that She was wrong ..

Originally posted by: Vanavil25

She never regrets ...Never accept that She was wrong ..

Uske sath galat hua isiliye uske 0 guilt 100% dukh ko free pass mil gaya .

Sorry couldn't read the complete post..

Only with a big IF , if akshu was "allowed" to speak, ye sab shayad se ho bhi jaata . But she was not allowed to speak rather handed over the divorce papers..seriously yaar..I am tired of typing this one sentence. 🥺After she was divorced what will she wait for ? For him to change his mind ? NO she was not allowed to speak. She started replying to abhimanyu n she was cut off.

There is no yardstick to measure guilt. You're saying a mother who lost one of her twins , no..at that time akshu thot she.lost both her babies ..she has no guilt and regret for this ? She loved Neil as a brother , her pain wasn't less than abhimanyu and manjari ..they can say it but it's not thr reality ..the girl who put her babies life at stake for orphaned girls , usko pain nai hoga for somebody's death ? She also lost everything , Neil, her babies ,, her sister , plus abhimanyu plus her marriage plus maika. Shegot a reason to live in form of abhir and frm that moment it was only him who she cared for , not his biological father .

We used to say akshu is selfless , mahaan nari, abhi selfish ban gayi woh..she doesn't care abt the biological father , the rights , and grandmother , she only cares abt her world her child and her happiness..she actually grew mature.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Sorry couldn't read the complete post..

Only with a big IF , if akshu was "allowed" to speak, ye sab shayad se ho bhi jaata . But she was not allowed to speak rather handed over the divorce papers..seriously yaar..I am tired of typing this one sentence. 🥺After she was divorced what will she wait for ? For him to change his mind ?

Babies ke risk par goons ke paas jane ka guilt kyun nahi hai?! Sirf dukh kyun, guilt kyun nahi?

Ek baar pura post padh lo na! So we can understand each other’s point of view.

Allowed jaisa kuch tha he nahi scene mai and directly divorce paper ka scene nahi dikhaya tha. Usse pehle ek lamba scene tha.

After divorce ka baat kaun kar raha hai! Ofcourse usse pehle ki baat ho rahi hai.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Babies ke risk par goons ke paas jane ka guilt kyun nahi hai?! Sirf dukh kyun, guilt kyun nahi?

Ek baar pura post padh lo na! So we can understand each other’s point of view.

Allowed jaisa kuch tha he nahi scene mai and directly divorce paper ka scene nahi dikhaya tha. Usse pehle ek lamba scene tha.

After divorce ka baat kaun kar raha hai! Ofcourse usse pehle ki baat ho rahi hai.

Pl don't mind..I can only read that much hindi written in English.

@bold. Guilt feel karke kya karegi ? A person HAS to move on , and forget their past mistakes otherwise they can't live in present .

Have you seen this Aamir khan movie ..talash? Aamir feels guilty for sleeping for 10 mins , which led to his son drowning in the lake...so much guilt , that he developed deep depression n started hallucinating. He held himself responsible for his sons death.. ..so where does the guilt lead ? Only in depression and personality disorders. One has to come out of it bec everything is not abt the wrong decisions ..some of it is destiny also some of it is bad luck..who can foresee the result of their decisions ?

In s1.akshara took a decision which led to daddajis death..n bhabhi ma kicked her out ..she said the same thing ..how can I know my decision will go wrong ?

Today abhimanyu has realised no? He is feeling guilty to divorce akshu...now what will he do with the guilt ? Cry everyday ? Blame his bad luck, destiny ko Koso bhagwan ko Koso...nothing will.help ..Guilt means living in past and it's never sensible to do so.

Now that they butchered abhi and making him repenting (rightfully so) people forgot how annoying Akshara was😂😂

Dude didn't have a single moment of peace in the starting days when he married her. She never listened to him and always interfered in others lives even after abhi warning her his family is not like hers and not to indulge. She always pushes his buttons.

Truth is Aksharas over mahaanta made everyone look bad around her.

While we are arguing how Abhi's character isn't likeable in real life and emphasizing sooo much on reality here, how is Akshara realistic in any way?

These 2 should really be together and leave other good ones alone.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Akshara baar baar bol rahi hai ki uss din usne bhi bahot kuch khoya tha. Jaise baki sab dukhi the waise woh bhi dukhi thi. But kya uss din baat sirf akshara ko dukhi feel karne tak ki he thi ???!

Aj mujse kisi ne bahot sahi question pucha ki if she had admitted in clear words that she was wrong that day while saving the girls , will abhimanyu not divorce her ? What exactly will change ?

My answer is if she had admitted in clear words that she was wrong that day when she asked Neil to stop goons for good 15-20 minutes to save the girls , it would have shown 2 most important sides.

1. It had showed that she is acknowledging that she made huge mistake by expecting from neil to stop goons for 15-20 minutes without waiting for police or any help. She has guilt for her impulsive choice. Akshara ke sorry se neil wapas nahi aata lekin yeh toh dikhta ki woh janti hai ki usne sab messy kiya hai babies ke sath goon ke paas ja kar.

Jaisa aj abhimanyu ke realisation se akshara ne jo suffer kiya woh undo nahi hoga lekin at least aj yeh to feel hua ki Abhimanyu ko itne saal ke baad bahot sahi realisation hua. Akshara ke case mai woh din kabhi aata he nahi.

2. Akshara apni galti ko acknowledge karti toh Abhimanyu divorce deta ki nahi : Muje lagta hai ki uss din jab Abhimanyu ne confront kiya tab agar Akshara ne bola hota ki usko pata hai ki sab kitna messy ho gaya hai and she feels genuinely guilty for risking both babies and Neil and for a time being woh birla house mai rehne ki apni zid chod kar bade papa ke paas rehne chali jayegi so matter thoda thanda ho jaye aisa kuch acche se express karti toh definitely yeh sab nahi hua hota . Uss din aisa nahi tha ki Abhimanyu ne direct faisla sunaya tha. He had asked Akshara questions but she kept mum in place of expressing the guilt of risking both babies in front of goons.

She is a mother. Thoda toh guilt hona chahiye ki kash apne babies ke risk par goon ke paas nahi gayi hoti toh shayad dusra baby bhi zinda ho sakta tha. Lekin strange isko kabhi babies ko goons ke risk mai dalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai abhi tak!

I have suffered miscarriage. Maine toh Akshara ke jaise kisi goons ke paas ja kar apne baby ko risk mai bhi nahi dala tha fir bhi guilt feel hota hai lekin isne toh khud apne babies ko risk mai daala tha goons ke paas ja kar fir bhi sirf dukh hota hai but no guilt. Akshara ko jo bhi hua uska dukh bahot hai but guilt bilkul nahi hai! Surprising! Neil ka chodo , apne khud ke baby ko risk mai daalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai!

Dukh hone mai aur guilt hone mai bahot fark hai. Uss din baki sab ke jaise akshara ne bhi bahot kuch khoya tha aur woh bhi dukhi thi agree lekin dukh ke allawa apne babies ko risk mai daalne ka koi guilt usse aj tak nahi hai.

Kyon akshara ko apne babies ko goon ke paas ja kar risk mai daalne ka koi guilt aj tak nahi hai ?! Kyon sirf dukh he hua usse?!

The basic concept in the yrkkh 3 is whatever mahaan murti does is noble work/good work....where as in all the other shows female lead does the noble work...so, why do akshu feel regret here? she has done one kaand..since the kaand is done by Akshara it automatically became noble.

Akshara ki "galti " ki punishment toh usne accept kar liya. Ab saza katne ke baad kaisa guilt? Guilt toh Abhimanyu ko ab shuru hui hai ki usne Akshara ke saath kya kiya. Ek miscarriage patient ko itna physical aur mental stress dekhe usne uski jaan khatre mein nahi dali? Ek taxi tak arrange nahi kiya use apne mayke chodne. Uska accident ho sakta tha, kidnap ho sakta tha, r*pe ho sakta tha. In sab ke liye Abhimanyu ko itne saal kyun guilt nahi hua? Aur kya punishment bhugta usne Akshara ka diya hua? Akshara ne toh Abhimanyu ka diya hua punishment bhugat liya hai. Aur jab Pata chalega ki usne apni pregnant biwi ko usne itna torture karke, gharne Bahar pheka toh aur guilt Hona chahiye. Aur saza milni chahiye.

Even after getting divorced she was ready to reconcile with Abhimanyu for the sake of their child but he was not ready to listen...

And because of this guilt she doesn't answer back to manjari or anyone else ...she just stays silent...

Problem is Abhimanyu never gave her the chance to speak .