Member Topic: love has nothing to do with looks

Physical attraction can be an important aspect of romantic relationships, but it is not the only factor. People can fall in love with someone who may not fit the traditional beauty standards because they connect with them on a deeper level.

Ultimately, love is about forming a deep emotional connection with another person, and that connection is based on a variety of factors, including personality, shared experiences, and values. While looks can be a part of that connection, they are not the most critical aspect of a loving relationship.

You guys will be surprised if you saw the photo of the man I'm in love with. But he has an exquisite soul, and I connect with him deeply.

Thoughts??

Why do we judge people's love interests by their appearances?

I think men do it more

Originally posted by: mintyblue

Why do we judge people's love interests by their appearances?

I think men do it more

Only fools do it. No it is not just men.. granted men are more visual but usually they're less judgemental as well. The amount of times I have seen women shitting on their ex's current lovers I'd say women actually do it more 🙃

Looks are only important in the initial few weeks, or I'd say it's what grabs your attention. That initial attraction won't last a whole lifetime. Most of us in long-term relationships want unconditional love in our lives, which really goes beyond the physical aspects.

Originally posted by: DheeJattanDi

Only fools do it. No it is not just men.. granted men are more visual but usually they're less judgemental as well. The amount of times I have seen women shitting on their ex's current lovers I'd say women actually do it more 🙃

Looks are only important in the initial few weeks, or I'd say it's what grabs your attention. That initial attraction won't last a whole lifetime. Most of us in long-term relationships want unconditional love in our lives, which really goes beyond the physical aspects.

very well said!

For me, it's the soul. Granted, that is intangible but when you look into a person's eyes and glimpse a pure soul, it's game over! at least, for me!

Originally posted by: mintyblue

Why do we judge people's love interests by their appearances?

I think men do it more

Didn’t you harshly judge Saba for being less than great looking ?

I was drunk and I apologized for it...

It's better to fall in love with someone ugly so you won't have to worry about them cheating on you😆

On a serious note, I have noticed that unattractive people have better personalities and are more down to earth and humble, Of course it doesn't apply to everyone, but in most cases. Some people are just lucky to be beautiful inside and out, but it's very rare.😆

Also when you fall in love with someone due to their nature and personality, they start looking more physically attractive in your eyes too. We learnt that iin Psychology.😎

How would you know about a person's soul unless you spend time with that person? Will you spend time with a person who is visually unappealing? There has to be something that attracts attention - could be voice, smile, personality, looks....

For me, I like to spend time with women who are soft spoken and have kind eyes and smile... 😳

looks are more important in love to make your hear melt

j/k😆