TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT #17 "Mai Murtasim Ke Saath Rahungi" - Page 83

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

https://twitter.com/_murtasimkhan/status/1635338657887567873?t=l9ng363ooI-8rYCqbZNoPQ&s=19

THIS IS COMEDIC GOLD 🤣

I AM WHEEZING

tum haath nahi lagaogi lekin main toh lagaunga na 😆

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Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Hmmmm good questions. We really have to see how this story finishes to get a full scope of what it is they are capable of doing in the name of love. From what we have seen I think Meerab cannot lose herself in love, but that does not mean she won't love him deeply, truly and honestly. But has Murtasim completely lost himself in love, no i don't think so. What does losing yourself even mean, does it mean you are putting your self respect aside, becoming self sacrificial in the name of love, losing your own individualistic identity and Murtasim has not done that, he only has put his ego aside, his ego is not his identity.

In the hands romance episode was it 20, Murtasim does say something like we should surrender to each other in the name of love, very heavy dialogues, but what does it look like in practice. Both Murtasim and Meerag are strong individuals, with imposing personalities. They will retain their sense of self as they fall in love, because it is who they are as people that is attractive to the other person. Their expression of love with be different, Murtasim will be the more romantic one will be the one making the first move, but Meerab will reach a stage when she won't step back anymore. Yes you give yourself to the other person in love, you give your heart soul body away but that does not mean the other person owns you.

My conclusion is I don't believe in this whole lose yourself completely in the name of love, because it has certain negative connotations that involves deterioration of ones character.

The story has not reached a stage yet where they are truly tested as a couple. It is coming stay tuned, I will pass my judgement once I see it.

I said the same too in my reply.

She is not in love yet, so it's hard to judge how she will love the man in her life. I assume, she has never fallen in love before, so Murtasim would be her first love. Also, in her case, the way her side of progress is kept the slowest, I guess, it will only be the last episode where we can know the extreme of her love. I reserve my judgement until we see the end.

As of now, if we keep their character traits in mind, even Murtasim isn't irrevocably in love yet. Yes, he desires her immensely, longs for her, tries to get whatever little he can get from her, but despite all of this, he hasn't given his all yet in this love. And bingo, he has only kept his ego aside in their marriage. All of his basic traits stay just as valid yet. And frankly, it should remain so. Their core traits are what make them more appealing to each other and will keep the sparks flying all throughout their life to sustain their love. Meerab's initial resistance, then final surrender and him making bolder and more romantic advances. That would keep their romance kicking. That's how they are as individuals and when together.

They will never lose their own in love, will hold on to their egos, especially when one bruises the other's, which will again be a driving force in their separation. They will love each other, but not unconditionally enough to forgive each other for blunders (which is fine).

Their separation would be a real test of how strong their love would be and whether it will stand the test of time and life.

Finally, Murtasim will fall hard and true, once Meerab does. She's the dictator in this matter.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Did you pause like me to read all the captions

Of course, I did

Koi shakkkk

Ain't no way I was missing a single commentary over these two dufooses 😆

You guys are talking about separation seriously now..we have been speculating about it but it was never sure….Has something be said about it by the makers which I may have missed ? I have missed many pages so if there was anything like that ( seperation ‘) pl do let me know.

Originally posted by: spnfan

She is Richie rich from every possible way but ends up being this miserable .

Her foster parents are rich, her father is rich, her husband is rich and she herself is educated enough to get a decent job. In humsafar the FL never came from a rich household and still she managed to fetch for herself and her child till she needed a huge amount for treatment. If the child didn't had any disease she would have led a decent life without depending on anyone. But as time passes pak dramas like to make fls as miserable as possible, like they cannot have a decent life without a man in their life.

In that matter i appreciate hindi serials. No matter how long they have to stretch a serial they never show the ml slapping the FL or the fl not having any sort of self surving skills. They always show female characters can survive on their own even at the worst case scenario, even for vamps because everytime a vamp reenters she will still be rich🤣.

no we have our share of shit shows like yeh rishta that shows the woman is more incompetent than a blind bat. it will always be my pet peeve that khairad was forced to return to that ass ashar.

what is going on with meerab they better have a good explanation for this.

Originally posted by: spnfan

Yes. It's the exact story with some changes made to cater to Pakistani culture. I think thai full house was my first Thai drama and the leads had great chemistry and i have heard the Thai adaptation is better than the Korean version. Every thai adaptation i have seen of kdramas ended up being way better than the kdrama version so i guess it's true for this as well.

Since I already watched the Thai one, i wasn't that impressed by the pak version. Thai version obviously had more romance and more fight scenes between the leads and was more visually pleasing. The house in Thai version was freaking beautiful and the outdoor shootings were done in Japan or Korea.

The same leads also did the thai adaptation of playful kiss. It was also better than the Korean one. The second lead had more scenes and the fl genuinely cares for him and never disrespected his feelings. In the Korean version the second lead who loved the fl was literally invisible 😆

I thought goong princess hours was best in the Korean version, the actors bought a rawness to the characters, other versions focused more on the fairy tale aspects.

Playful kiss was best in the original Japanese version, mischievous kiss is the best not the other jap version Itazura na kiss. The actress that played kotoko was just too good, yes most annoying but there was an innocence that other versions failed to capture for me. The thai version had a different spin on the story, the characters are different, they had the best soundtrack love the title song, also less toxic romance.

I just couldn't get into either versions of Full House. Gosh how bad was Rain as an actor in the Korean version, so in that way Thai is better it had superior actors.

Originally posted by: spnfan

Don't beat the Bangladeshi woman who swim all the way from Bangladesh to India to be with her bf😆

And I can't swim to the edge of the swimming pool to grab a towel. What humans are capable of?

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

Exactly my problem.

Their praise for the romance falls under the precondition that Meerab has to surrender to her husband's romantic advances because to them, he's physically desirable. They keep crying about the show having no plot (okay, do that) but at times, a journey of two people growing closer is a plot too.

I have read my fair share of romance to put this into a slow burn. A very recent example is Bridgerton Season 2. That show hardly had a plot except the undeniable friction and physical tension between the leads.

You can't expect much intelligence in such a story.

I agree with everything you said, but love stories are never about intelligence they are about emotions. Love itself is the most illogical emotion in the world. If it was about intelligence there wouldn't be divorces, you won't see Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez marry each other for the tenth time and call it TRUE LOVE and people go awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww how romantic SERIOUSLY.

Originally posted by: Heeba

Do you guys think this still is part of the show? Murtasim asking her to cancel contract 😂😅

This is not our style. Why use a pen when you have a sword.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

My hands hands couple. If we get an onscreen kiss of the hand, I will break 100 coconuts, I will pray Naag Devta, I will watch 365 days even if I throw up I SWEAR I WILL WATCH IT.

Hand kiss toh nahi milegi per apko torture jarror milenge...after watching 363 days.😆