Viru is a colourful male 😀😀 - Page 34

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I never felt V saw P and felt uncomfortable with the hug . It was editing issue . He saw the surroundings and felt conscious as it was her college and they were on stage but at same time they showed P witnessing the hug from the entrance . He never felt uncomfortable when he hugged her for the first time infront of P after the skit so why would he give importance to P on the college feast . Yes I agree they did add their creativity like holding P while hugging Sai which gave a different meaning than what they wanted to convey . Somehow none of the pre leap felt cringe like post leap . Now even their hand hold gives us a different meaning maybe because of the cringe that was shown from the leap . Pre leap when V carried P I felt Neil showed V’s emotion well . It was purely for helping an injured woman . Post leap they purposely kept V’s feeling ambiguous so audiences can keep guessing whether it’s Sairat or VP . V’s expression while carrying Sai to treat injured officers had same feel it was just business for him no emotions . I still believe makers played mind games with audiences.

I am always confused about Neil Ayesha’s comfort level . I have cribbed enough during confession for faking a mere peck on cheek but in next scene in their room he was comfortable with forehead kiss and cheek kiss on consummation night . I thought both were uncomfortable with intimacy post leap but in recent FB scenes shown on SBS it doesn’t look like it . Though they have some Cold War they perform their scenes well . In cafe hug and half hug in the forest before church confession I felt Neil was conscious but in the outhouse cleaning he was fine .

I'm also in two minds about the last part you wrote. It's a mix bag to me too. I've not followed post remarriage episodes fully but I've heard he had kissed her once in car also on her hand in their first night and during kesariya sequence...

For me the recent TMD dance surprised me considering the offscreen cracks Is now in open.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

whatever was said in the last fight is forgivable as he said in anger and never meant it but him bailing out P after knowing about her crimes is unpardonable. I want him to regret bailing P and falling into her fake suicide traps .I would love if he regrets marrying P . I don’t think we will ever see anyone address these issues for known reasons .

I have list of scenes that has triggered me and triggers me until now. Somehow I made peace with 8th December but not the HM , accident and recent ones where he fails to draw boundaries.

I don't agree him calling her anaath was the most cruel thing he could've done. It can't be justified anger hurt. He hit her the lowest point. What's the difference between him & BK, Pakhi, Sonali, Omi or even Ashwini then...

Her dad sacrificed his life she became anaath due to KJ taking the bullet for him.

That was the biggest blunder he should've been unaware of surrogacy kaand...

Oh yeah the bus conversation too while Sai was also present and most importantly how they were inducing SaiRat vibes type nokjhok into their conversation as if Virat was having nokjhok with her like he used to with Sai. With their BG scores. Pathetic.

Originally posted by: mysticriver

I don't agree him calling her anaath was the most cruel thing he could've done. It can't be justified anger hurt. He hit her the lowest point. What's the difference between him & BK, Pakhi, Sonali, Omi or even Ashwini then...

Her dad sacrificed his wife she became anaath due to KJ taking the bullet for him.

That was the biggest blunder he should've been unaware of surrogacy kaand...

Oh yeah the bus conversation too while Sai was also present and most importantly how they were inducing SaiRat vibes type nokjhok into their conversation as if Virat was having nokjhok with her like he used to with Sai. With their BG scores. Pathetic.

You know what!! If you see Virat after Vinu's birth, he became way too confident. That yellow shirt he wore during separation fight(I hated it. he looked rowdy), he was overconfident the entire time. Even body language was arrogant. If I go back and look at the episodes, I feel it was THERE in his demeanor. The confidence that he tied Sai to him forever. 🤣. The way he sits and spoke to her from the day after Vinu's birth. If at all he showed any power over Sai, intentionally, it is this time. He was so sure that Sai will not leave him. Usual Virat would discuss and convince Sai before giving Vinu to Pakhi for few days. But he took unilateral decision there. Contrast this with surrogacy decision. See how afraid he was while taking surrogacy decision!!

But after Vinu was born, he for the first time went into that "I am the husband" mode. He was high too emotionally. From the state of not becoming a father to Sai's child, to becoming one and having a family with Sai kind of gave him HIGH. He was flying and no wonder Sai's issues looked puny to him. He didnt think Sai was the same, even more wilder now as a mother 🤣. Thats why such statements like "anaath" and all. A man who never spoke to her like that, never made her feel like one till then, suddenly calls her names because she is going against him, being ziddi and adamant. What can you even say?😆

His time was bad, he was so full of himself for the first time, having conquered Sai...in mind, body and spirit. 🤣 If at all Virat ever behaved like an egoistic MALE, it was here. The previous instance was ousting. Both the times he lost Sai. 😵

Originally posted by: mysticriver

I don't agree him calling her anaath was the most cruel thing he could've done. It can't be justified anger hurt. He hit her the lowest point. What's the difference between him & BK, Pakhi, Sonali, Omi or even Ashwini then...

Her dad sacrificed his wife she became anaath due to KJ taking the bullet for him.

That was the biggest blunder he should've been unaware of surrogacy kaand...

Oh yeah the bus conversation too while Sai was also present and most importantly how they were inducing SaiRat vibes type nokjhok into their conversation as if Virat was having nokjhok with her like he used to with Sai. With their BG scores. Pathetic.

You read my mind . The scene you described in the last para is exactly how I felt about it . It irked me a lot . Even in the couple game while playing with P he was extra cheerful . Suddenly in a day they changed him . He was always reserved with P but in accident track he was getting mesmerized by her beauty , his nok jhok with P like he did with Sai and forgetting about Sairat anniversary was horrible . Sometimes I feel the track was changed and accident was brought in to show something but later they back tracked .

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

i feel the same . Sai accepting surrogacy decision and his decision to take care of P during the pregnancy made him over confident. Honestly, there is no valid reason as to why V would bail P . It was done for drama at the cost of V’s characterization . V was not someone who blindly followed his family . He opposed them time and again . He wasn’t in love with P nor under her karz to support her . They could have saved V by making it a MU where V bailed P under the condition that she would stay with her parents but Sai MU him or was not even ready for that . Vankar’s love to save Sai’s characterization costed V .

I agree it was still a forced separation. But Sai's PoV is very strong. She has been compromising and tolerating all the sh*t during pregnancy. And Virat saving Pakhi was just the push she needed. I think her heart was broken when Vinu was giving to Pakhi.

Virat's side didnt come out well but he was on high through out that period. He was depressed that he couldnt have family with Sai, and then miraculously things happened and it blurred his vision, so much so that he didnt think WHO SAI IS. A girl who cant stand injustice to others, to her or her son.

In sruthi track, he was expecting a friend out of a wife and in seperation track he was expecting lover/wife out of a mother 🤣

Marriage depends on both parties, but the woman more.Because of the difference in the mental combination of men and women.

Virat as a character should look at his upbringing and his surroundings.(Despite his father's bad treatment of his mother, he differs in this aspect. I praise him at the beginning.)He was hiding his true identity because his family was built on pretense.

Then he met a different person from his environment in which he was brought up, he met Sai,which brought out his best (and also his worst).Here we must not forget that his family did not accept her especially Bhavani, this matter was always playing in the back of his head.

And here sai ,a strong personality that does not show any physical, psychological or emotional need.Even the financial side, if we remember at the beginning of their marriage, she did not ask him for money, and if she asked, she would tell him, “I will return your money to you.” her way in dealing with things is different .The opposite of pakhi.

His attachment to Sai, his love for her, and his fear of leaving him became his weakness.Even when she confessed her love to him, the fear remained with him, so he wanted in any way to tie her to him forever.That's why he thinks if she gives birth to a child from him, she will not leave him.But he did not differentiate between a woman and a mother.He wants her to depend on him as he depends on her.When he saw her collapse, he felt relieved that she also needed him and she wants him just as much as he does.

Sai also has it in the back of her head that he didn't choose her from the beginning of marriage and after paying pakhi bail.

The best thing for Virat and Sai is to be separated from the family home.

I don’t think Virat wanting to have a child with Sai was only to tie down Sai to him .He might have thought after the baby Saiwont leave him but that was not the sole reason for him to have a baby . In MIMO track , when they were just friends he expressed his desire to have a baby girl and to raise her . He always craved for a child at some point in his life and he was shown to be good with kids .

Once he fell in love with Sai he couldn’t think of having a child with anyone else but her . Even during surrogacy he gets weak when Kaku and Pakhi remind him that it’s the only chance to father Sai’s child . In pre leap I could see his love for Sai was greater than love for his child . He even settled with adopted child for a long time .

Post leap Virat is different than pre leap one and lot of questions can be raised on his love and his priorities in life. It feels like post leap his priority was Pakhi . He was ready to do anything to keep her happy and he even neglected his kids for her . The way he failed to stop P’s advances at HM and later he kept saying P couldn’t be a mom gives a feeling that he would have fathered P’s child in the name of farz . He was made to go back on all his promises and tall claims he made pre leap .

The need for the child with Sai was important to him so that she will be tied to him, as per him. It was very apparent when they introduce baby Vinu to Aaba's pic. V to Sai: abb batao kab mujhe chod kar ja rahi ho (something to that effect). When the bail issue came up, Sai did her best to explain her reasons and then issued her ultimatum. His confidence, his bhram was shattered and all that venom was spewed.