Originally posted by: Tapdance
When he's older, maybe they'd tell him when he can digest the dynamics.
Look at the way they played the circumstances. When abhi came to Kasauli, it was a shocker for both sides and him not being apologetic about anything and not remembering her calls pissed her. He didn't even ask once was there any consequence of that MC on your baby's birth and growth? It was very basic decency.
Cut to her coming to Udaipur, had this whole unnecessary marriage track not been brought up and Abhi & Abhir had bonded like in Kasauli...she would have even given it a thought. Now it's the worst circumstance, her worst nightmare is coming true. Her sister who many people kept saying was his perfect match is getting married to him, they found everything out at the party & mind you she's a bystander. Both families take her as a come and go relative who maybe around for a few days, that's all.
The elders were happy when she was leaving pre kalash Puja.
Again, it's the circumstances that don't even give her a choice to think about bringing out the truth. Say she brings it out, in her head Abhi rejecting Abhir after that and still marrying Arohi would be worser than the past. Her thinking he rejected them once already pre leap is not wrong.
Morally, If you can't be there for your wife and child during childbirth..or rather not even hear once what's being tried to be conveyed....how bad is it? Say what we may, the physical and mental troubles in those months can only sail smoothly when there's balance and support on the other side.
Should she say the truth and let the individuals decide for themselves? Yes
Is it unfair for Abhir? Yes
Is the timing right? No
Does she have anyone to backup on if the truth comes out and Arohi is left off alone again? Mostly not!
Does she owe Abhi the truth? Maybe, it's a moral obligation not legal after what they did with her post MC. Had there been minor signs of regret, maybe she would have let loose. Now she does not find the motive to say the truth.
Nisha, she's a mom of a 5 year old. When she's thinking for herself she's also thinking for her son. The boy is too young to understand any of this. Then goes the fundamental question of how much right does the mother have over a child? Since he's a minor and she was thrown out emotionally and legally after her MC, would any woman not hesitate? Are there any signs for her clearly to even try tell the truth to someone? Plus the level of hate MM has poured from the second she's laid her eyes on her!
It'll all bounce back on Akshu only sadly to a large extent when the truth comes out but she has to stand by her choices. She did what she thought was the best of what she could do. What others think is irrelevant, a mother won't harm her child's innocence knowingly; Akshu would never rather. People can judge her away, a mother's instinct is her instinct for her baby atleast till he's a teen. It's just a tale of choices and perspectives.
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