Good news for Abhinav: Epi Air Date Mar 7 2023 - Page 22

Originally posted by: sunshining

ok peeps time for my controversial question with a slight variation.

Is Akshu being unfair to Abhir by deciding to take the next step with Nav?

Reason for my question. Till now even if the marriage is indeed real, their relationship had not been. With Akshu's decision to progress, she has pretty much buried any chance of Abhir finding out about his real dad. Agree Abhi marrying had pretty much killed that but this decision by Akshu to me is the nail in the coffin.

I know some of you have views that Akshu is angry because Abhi couldnt recognise his own blood. To me that was an unrealistic expectation. If anyone knows Abhi, that is Akshu. She knows Abhi is extremely possessive when it comes to her. Him knowing she is married has blinded him completely. He is unable to think beyond. She also knows the man doesnt always see grey.

I accept she has every right to hide the truth from Abhi because he refused to listen to her. What about Abhir though. What is his fault in all this?. She has seen how drawn Abhir is towards Abhi. Lets accept she doesnt Abhir's to be heart broken because Abhi is getting married and she doesnt want Ruhi to be hurt. But we havent seen her contemplate this at all. I just feel she has only been thinking about her perspective not Abhir. She is happy to live in fear for life.

Share your thoughts please. Most of you know this is something I have not been able to digest at all. As you can see I am still having issues.

In most cases decisions in children’s life are made by parents till they get old enough to have their own POV and make their own decisions .. in this case the father abandoned the mother at the worst possible time and she took a decision based on her realities at that point .. he may have stood by her many times , but he broke her completely on that day .. Now she has built a peaceful life which is away from all the toxicity of people who are/were her family .. her child is having a wholesome upbringing .. not in the lap of luxury where every wish and zidd and passing fancy is or can be fulfilled , but all his needs are taken care of and he is getting behisab pyaar and security and a grounded and well rounded upbringing .. the child is too young to grasp the complexities of Akshata’s life at the moment and based on her experience so far , Birlas can move heaven and earth to get that child back if he again tries to let them know .. like during Kairav time they might use their power and influence to ensure they get the child - by labelling her murderer, by citing financial status and what not .. she will lose her child, her duniya and the trauma that the child will be subjected to for all this will be immeasurable .. she must have decided that it is too early to bring this chaos into that young life .. there is always time to explain what happened and her decisions when the child is a little more old to understand these things .. I would guess these are her reasonings and she has to take decisions based on her reality and not based on memories of good times that she had with Abhimanyu .. I think I understand why she would think a100 times before bringing that storm into her child’s life .. we as audience May be live Abhi who would move mountain and earth for the person he fell in love with .. but for all that he has chastised Akshu for , he did end up choosing his family when she came back after first leap and now when she needed him the most .. he broke every single promise and privlsmayin he has ever made to her .. from anyone’s POV how can she decide to bring all that toxicity back into the simple life she has built for herself .. even when he came to Kasauli , he was still with no realisation of what he has done .. how can she trust him to let her family be if she tells him at that point ? That is the way I am reasoning this and she might have told him at an age where he ca process slightly more complex relations and take decisions .. that’s what I think ..

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I think from Manish's point of view from the beginning he knew Birlas would never appreciate Akshu (we will leave out how Goenkas have treated her). He told Abhi if he would move out of the house he would say yes to their wedding. But Akshu didn't want that to happen. So Manish eventually agreed. From that moment on I think he watched how Abhi and how his family behaved with Akshu. He called out his behavior the first separation. I think he thought Abhi would have learned the first time around and despite circumstances would at the very least be more active in making sure Akshu was safe. Agreed tensions where high and yes they did sign divorce papers. But even that I think Manish felt disappointed that again Abhi chose to break relationships instead of mending it. Abhi continued to think as a brother and as a son but never as a husband to his wife.

Manish gave several chances for Abhi to go look for Akshu but he declined. So he figured fine than I will do what I can to protect Akshu and keep them apart. It just so happens Akshu announces her marriage 7 months later. So Manish didn't have to worry about anything. But he felt guilty by the way Abhi was clearly disturbed and distraught by the news.

But even now he is still guiding Akshu and reminding her to let the past go and move forward to the future. She is married and her husband respects and loves her a lot so forget about the Birlas. He has no idea what she has done to create this fake family. I don't think he knows Abhir is Abhi's kid.

Agree. his point of view. but he might have helped her financially also. at least Abhir should be happier. When Abhir talks about how his mom and dad work hard really felt bad.

Afte coming to Udaipur we understood him better. but remaining family including mahan KV might not have any idea.

Originally posted by: Siri918

Agree. his point of view. but he might have helped her financially also. at least Abhir should be happier. When Abhir talks about how his mom and dad work hard really felt bad.

Afte coming to Udaipur we understood him better. but remaining family including mahan KV might not have any idea.

I was surprised how can she believe he changed that fast? not even a normal chain. chain with heart? she is too delustional

he didn't even take her name in the puja. whole puja he is looking at AK. even on tilak he is just looking at her. as he is thinking she got married that's why he is holding himself.

once he knows it is a fake marriage then she will understand.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Well of course more functions are happening. They are going to draw it out. We haven’t had the angry dancing between them yet 🤣 We got it last time. Hopefully not bole chudiyan being used again 🤣

It will probably all come to a stand still when Abhir's illness comes out.

I was thinking if Abhi legally applies to be Roohi adopted father then this solves the problem. Roohi will get her Papa without him having to marry Arohi. Then we get Abhira with Abhir and Roohi 😆

Abhir kp bhukar hei bas aur kuch jyada heu nhi. And is under medication also.

Originally posted by: D_e_s_t_i_n_y

Abhir truth is definitely going to come out on wedding day itself ..Just to get trp back...Haldi, mehendi,sagai ,is definitely happening plus Holi and now hospital scene ..Maybe at March end or april first week we might get what we actually want to seee..

They need to get the truth out as soon as possible otherwise they are gonna lose audiences.

Everything fine ..abhinav ka akshu se positive sign ka kya zaroorat Hain..already abhi in romeo , pagal mode into akshu..upar se this abhir truth he s going to erupt on abhinav for sure 😃😃🤣😆

Originally posted by: Anu234

They need to get the truth out as soon as possible otherwise they are gonna lose audiences.

They ll not loose any auidence ...rural conflict ll take two weeks minimum to fix on trp..so it's understood and yrkkh knows to fetch trp ...

Originally posted by: Aarthiviji

Everything fine ..abhinav ka akshu se positive sign ka kya zaroorat Hain..already abhi in romeo , pagal mode into akshu..upar se this abhir truth he s going to erupt on abhinav for sure 😃😃🤣😆

this will be fun ,super intense ,before knowing anything,he has become old majnu,what will he do when he will come to know she has also not moved on and Abhir who he adores so much is his kid,he will do tandav to get both of them back

Originally posted by: Suvika.

Hello.

Apologize for barging in uninvited. Found your question very interesting so thought I'd add my own two cents.

Firstly, I have stopped following this serial post the first leap. So whatever progress I have gathered thus far is from going through various posts in this forum. Specifically the daily episode discussion threads.

Second, why the characters of this show do certain things most times don't make any sense, courtesy of the esteemed writers and creatives. So for all we know, they would brush it all under the carpet with some random explanantion in one episode or they are saving all her thoughts for the Abhira confrontation.

But if we keep the creatives creativity aside and assume Akshara is actually a woman and try to answer this question...

Is Akshu being unfair to Abhir - Not from Akshu's POV.

Why?

Let us assume she reveals Abhir's paternity. What are the sequence of events (from where she is currently standing and based on her past experiences with the Gorillas)?

1. Abhi would want to have Abhir with him.

2. His mom would pour fuel into the fire and he would either file for custody or both sides of the family would force them to reconcile for the sake of the child.

3. If he files for custody, law might be on her side but in the current situation, money is on his side. So for her, there is no guarantee that Abhir would remain with her. His family and he himself have already accused her and branded her as a killer. What's to say they would use that to declare her as an incompetent mother? Where would that leave Abhir? Away from the only known security and family and parents he's known all his life and amidst the Gorillas? Would any mother want that?

4. If she gives in to the pressure and reunite for the sake of the child, would Abhir be happy being away from Abhinav? WOuld Abhimanyu acccept Abhinav a permanent part of Abhir's life and Abhir calling that man "papa"? And above all, if in future, situation arises where there's another round of blame game and she is kicked out again, where would her son be? What impact would it have on him?

Heart of hearts, she knows hiding the truth is wrong but the fear that takes over a person when she contemplates any of the above scenarios clouds the judgement.

Bottomline - Lack of trust and fear.

Thanks for reading :)

Suvika.

Completely agree with you as from a mom pov what Akshu did is right and yes even if this custody part comes mostly child would to given to mom only knowing abhi and birlas history how pathetic that family is court will prefer to custody to mom and also all those rejections of calls and yes on money aspect even goenkas are also rich so that just does not matter much. But if it comes to healthy environment which a child needs that cannot be given by abhi. And also all those torture which birla family did on ak and all those things which had happened would come out so eventually mom would be preferred more and yes I don't think their is any custody battle this year because in which basis which they even file it.