Shut this cringe up!!!

Unless otherwise someone is really horny no actor wants to perform those uncomfortable consummation scenes and shaadi sequences perennially, unfortunately our ITV serials are full of shaadi, consummation and divorce scenes mumbo jumboed with few cringe shirtless hero scenes. Not ignoring the hero heroine trip, fall and catch scenes, I wonder is there any meaningful message the telly screen can offer us. Come on there's life beyond the above mentioned cringe. I am dead against this rishton ka kabada, killing of personality, this bakwaas doesn't make sense to me, little girl(Roohi) who feels very secure according to her amma(Arohi) forces her bade papa(AB) to marry her mum for the sake of her tiny 7 year old gang of friends, then the mum(Arohi) despite of her education and economic stability is always busy dori dalling(luring, seducing)her sister's husband finally the besotted lover husband(AB) agrees to marry her despite his unwillingness to move on. If the writers call this Rishta bhagawan bachaye hamein aise rishton se.

Tbh all the itv shows ultimate goal of ml and fl is marriage. I have rarely seen any show or movies where they take risk of showing something different by ignoring "LOVE".

I have watched charlie a movie which focussed on dog. Which was definitely heart warming. It did not had love story but its about how humans tend to bond with our pets. Its very rare to find such films or shows.

Some shows acts as if women is just there for attracting men. Even the famous tarak mehta show has jethalal who is eyeing on some random neighbours wife. 🤢

Irrespective of which show it is every show just shows being married having a kid and raising children is ultimate goal for a man and women. I hardly saw any show which shows some one struggling to build their career and then marrying with the love of their life.

Every show starts with rich ml and mostly fl would be poor but some shows like yrkkh shows women can also be rich 😆 typical patriarchal show which still shows women family are not so well to do and rely on beti ka sasural or ml family is doing a charity by marrying fl.

Even historical shows are twisted in order to add romance to it. For eg chandra nandini where fl and ml had a potential to show and act and could have delivered great plots but they decided focus on some random plots and imaginary love story 😆 which doomed the show.

Even brahmastra recent movie had the same issue the cgi was great but what was the ultimate message they gave " Love can do wonders" 😆

I wish why cant they keep love aside for sometime and think beyond the box. They can add a love story but atleast have a theme what exactly you are delivering without the love story. If its the same story with different leads who really is interested in the show other than actors fan following. 😆

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Unless otherwise someone is really horny no actor wants to perform those uncomfortable consummation scenes and shaadi sequences perennially, unfortunately our ITV serials are full of shaadi, consummation and divorce scenes mumbo jumboed with few cringe shirtless hero scenes. Not ignoring the hero heroine trip, fall and catch scenes, I wonder is there any meaningful message the telly screen can offer us. Come on there's life beyond the above mentioned cringe. I am dead against this rishton ka kabada, killing of personality, this bakwaas doesn't make sense to me, little girl(Roohi) who feels very secure according to her amma(Arohi) forces her bade papa(AB) to marry her mum for the sake of her tiny 7 year old gang of friends, then the mum(Arohi) despite of her education and economic stability is always busy dori dalling(luring, seducing)her sister's husband finally the besotted lover husband(AB) agrees to marry her despite his unwillingness to move on. If the writers call this Rishta bhagawan bachaye hamein aise rishton se.

I like love stories and I think love is the most powerful emotion beyond doubt love runs the world. Whatever they are showing in telly serials isn't LOVE it's lust and sleaze. My problem is also with the toxicity that is being dished out in the name of relations, for instance in a real world a single mum like Arohi can happily raise their children I see many such independent women/men single handily raising their kids, being divorced is not any crime I have many of my cousins living a life and raising their kids despite being divorced. People do fall in love and similarly they fall apart as well, it doesn't make them any less human. But can we imagine families abandoning a pregnant or miscarried girl on the roads and finally she ends up living at the mercy of a stranger, she ends up claiming to be his wife and her child's father. What kind of kabada is this, yahan tho saara family paglaya gaya for the sake of moving the story. Even in KRPKAB the leads have separated but it wasn't like here, even KRPKAB leads had reconciliation and love track made very sensibly, I just want some sensible track, what is this meaningless pointless RISHTA.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Tbh all the itv shows ultimate goal of ml and fl is marriage. I have rarely seen any show or movies where they take risk of showing something different by ignoring "LOVE".

I have watched charlie a movie which focussed on dog. Which was definitely heart warming. It did not had love story but its about how humans tend to bond with our pets. Its very rare to find such films or shows.

Some shows acts as if women is just there for attracting men. Even the famous tarak mehta show has jethalal who is eyeing on some random neighbours wife. 🤢

Irrespective of which show it is every show just shows being married having a kid and raising children is ultimate goal for a man and women. I hardly saw any show which shows some one struggling to build their career and then marrying with the love of their life.

Every show starts with rich ml and mostly fl would be poor but some shows like yrkkh shows women can also be rich 😆 typical patriarchal show which still shows women family are not so well to do and rely on beti ka sasural or ml family is doing a charity by marrying fl.

Even historical shows are twisted in order to add romance to it. For eg chandra nandini where fl and ml had a potential to show and act and could have delivered great plots but they decided focus on some random plots and imaginary love story 😆 which doomed the show.

Even brahmastra recent movie had the same issue the cgi was great but what was the ultimate message they gave " Love can do wonders" 😆

I wish why cant they keep love aside for sometime and think beyond the box. They can add a love story but atleast have a theme what exactly you are delivering without the love story. If its the same story with different leads who really is interested in the show other than actors fan following. 😆

Thank you for the tag Raji.

I have stopped watching since more than 3 weeks...

Will only resume if this marriage stops...otherwise...complete full stop, no coming back...

It's beyond disgusting to see FL getting insulted and ML keeping mum...why such people gets married at first place if he can't give his wife even place in family 🤢

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Tbh all the itv shows ultimate goal of ml and fl is marriage. I have rarely seen any show or movies where they take risk of showing something different by ignoring "LOVE".

I have watched charlie a movie which focussed on dog. Which was definitely heart warming. It did not had love story but its about how humans tend to bond with our pets. Its very rare to find such films or shows.

Some shows acts as if women is just there for attracting men. Even the famous tarak mehta show has jethalal who is eyeing on some random neighbours wife. 🤢

Irrespective of which show it is every show just shows being married having a kid and raising children is ultimate goal for a man and women. I hardly saw any show which shows some one struggling to build their career and then marrying with the love of their life.

Every show starts with rich ml and mostly fl would be poor but some shows like yrkkh shows women can also be rich 😆 typical patriarchal show which still shows women family are not so well to do and rely on beti ka sasural or ml family is doing a charity by marrying fl.

Even historical shows are twisted in order to add romance to it. For eg chandra nandini where fl and ml had a potential to show and act and could have delivered great plots but they decided focus on some random plots and imaginary love story 😆 which doomed the show.

Even brahmastra recent movie had the same issue the cgi was great but what was the ultimate message they gave " Love can do wonders" 😆

I wish why cant they keep love aside for sometime and think beyond the box. They can add a love story but atleast have a theme what exactly you are delivering without the love story. If its the same story with different leads who really is interested in the show other than actors fan following. 😆

There was a serial 'Dahleez' starring Harshad Arora & Tridha Chowdhury & Meghana Malik. Very good serial with good story line. They actually showed the career of hero a IAS officer, heroine a lawyer practicing. It's a finite series of 104: episodes. You can watch it on Hotstar.

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

Thank you for the tag Raji.

I have stopped watching since more than 3 weeks...

Will only resume if this marriage stops...otherwise...complete full stop, no coming back...

It's beyond disgusting to see FL getting insulted and ML keeping mum...why such people gets married at first place if he can't give his wife even place in family 🤢

In my teens and years after that , I used to swoon over such "love stories" but now when I think as a mum, it's disheartening to see akshu being treated like trash by everyone .

This is NO way to treat a girl who marries into a family leaving her world and her parents behind . Have some humanity at least . It pains to see that everything is passed on as "love" and trials of love. 🤢 love is standin by each other no matter what ..love is accepting each other as they are ..love is forgiving , love is kind , love is patient..love is lookin past each others mistakes. ♥

Girls pl don't ignore the red flags before marriage . Dump the mamma boys before you make them a part of your life . They never change nor do their moms change.

In order to gain trp they ruined abhi completely i really loved the abhimanyu birla who was shown to be the rock standing infront of his mother protecting abuse thrown at her.

Now he only abusing his wife directly or indirectly. How harsh used to ignore everything and treat manjari like a trash even abhi is for the sake his family treating akshu as trash.

The only difference is abhi is doing it for his family or under manipulations or due to his uncontrollable anger issues. He loves akshu but his other issues are taking over his love. But hb used to purposefully degrade manjari.

the way all characters took U turn it looks like we are watching a new show. All are new characters.

abhi is different kairav is different, arohi is turned all of sudden positive. Manjari is psycho

goenkas are stupid. Only sane persom hb is missing from birlas and neil who had brain, dead too.

Its like a whole new show.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

I like love stories and I think love is the most powerful emotion beyond doubt love runs the world. Whatever they are showing in telly serials isn't LOVE it's lust and sleaze. My problem is also with the toxicity that is being dished out in the name of relations, for instance in a real world a single mum like Arohi can happily raise their children I see many such independent women/men single handily raising their kids, being divorced is not any crime I have many of my cousins living a life and raising their kids despite being divorced. People do fall in love and similarly they fall apart as well, it doesn't make them any less human. But can we imagine families abandoning a pregnant or miscarried girl on the roads and finally she ends up living at the mercy of a stranger, she ends up claiming to be his wife and her child's father. What kind of kabada is this, yahan tho saara family paglaya gaya for the sake of moving the story. Even in KRPKAB the leads have separated but it wasn't like here, even KRPKAB leads had reconciliation and love track made very sensibly, I just want some sensible track, what is this meaningless pointless RISHTA.

Originally posted by: Veenapai

There was a serial 'Dahleez' starring Harshad Arora & Tridha Chowdhury & Meghana Malik. Very good serial with good story line. They actually showed the career of hero a IAS officer, heroine a lawyer practicing. It's a finite series of 104: episodes. You can watch it on Hotstar.

Originally posted by: Krinya

In my teens and years after that , I used to swoon over such "love stories" but now when I think as a mum, it's disheartening to see akshu being treated like trash by everyone .

This is NO way to treat a girl who marries into a family leaving her world and her parents behind . Have some humanity at least . It pains to see that everything is passed on as "love" and trials of love. 🤢 love is standin by each other no matter what ..love is accepting each other as they are ..love is forgiving , love is kind , love is patient..love is lookin past each others mistakes. ♥

Girls pl don't ignore the red flags before marriage . Dump the mamma boys before you make them a part of your life . They never change nor do their moms change.

When i was kid i used to watch these at that point of time i did not realized how regressive these concepts are. During that time it felt like a girls duty is to raise a family irrespective of how abusive their in laws are. But now when i look back. It was a shit concept 🙄

I am more scared to see newer generation spending lot of time watching these regressive shows and assuming that it's common and they are entitled to tolerate and carry on. There is a lot of difference when we were teens we did not had access to social media even if we watch we just watch and concentrate on our other works. But now a days youths are spedning lot of time on social media especially girls. I definitely wish that every girl understand that they should not ignore the fact they should concentrate on their career too along with their involvement with the show. Whatever shown in these shows will not happen in real life. Show is very far from reality and they should build a career in such a way that if they get husbands like tv show ml they should not need any abhinav take care of themselves. They should be self sufficient to take care of themselves.