Why is he always making the wrong decisions? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Sakshi-deewan

Kartik lost his mother in a young age . She commited suicide due to schizophrenia. And later his dad married his secretary ( now swarna)

But kartik n his sis believed that there mum commited suicide becoz of his dad 's ema and cheating . And when there dad married swarna he started hating his dad . He used to call his dad Mr goenka . After kaira marriage secret came out n there relationship got normal.

Both kartik naira had misunderstood there parents n abandoned there homes for years . Eventually truth came out and things got normal .

I never watched season 2 so thanks for explaining this. I wonder if Abhir will also refer to Abhimanyu as Mr. Something instead of dad just like Kartik or Abhimanyu himself. Abhimanyu might be somewhat related to the cause of losing Abhinav and/or Abhir also learns how Akshara was treated by Abhi/Birlas while she was pregnant with him. Poor child will be going through a lot.

His biggest punishment will be history repeating with him that is Abhir hating Abhimanyu for destroying his mothers life. Abhimanyu hated his father for the same reason, I hope Abhir also hates his father and repeats the history then perhaps this idiot will grow some brains in the right place.

Karthik had his moments of being an ass of a husband too, but when I compare his words and actions towards naira to abhimanyu's words and actions in his marriage with akshara, I realised karthik was never quick to throw his marriage with naira away at every sign of family problems, whereas abhimanyu has at every sign of issues in his family been quick to blame akshara and pushed her away from him and treated his marriage to her like a mistake and then himself act like a victim.

In contrast to karthik, abhimanyu seems to have actually taken love and marriage far too lightly and is far too quick to treat akshara and his marriage to her as dispensable the moment things are no longer hunky-dory the way he wants. Abhimanyu was so quick to fall in love with akshara and aspired for a perfect marital life with her, but in actual did not show the patience and understanding that hardships, disagreements and unrests are common in all marriages and serve as a test to allow couples to overcome them together so they grow and strengthen their relationship. Instead he treated each one of those disagreements and moments of unrests as like a nail in a coffin, as if in his mind it means the marriage isn't working because things are not as perfect as he imagined.

Originally posted by: Sakshi-deewan

Kartik lost his mother in a young age . She commited suicide due to schizophrenia. And later his dad married his secretary ( now swarna)

But kartik n his sis believed that there mum commited suicide becoz of his dad 's ema and cheating . And when there dad married swarna he started hating his dad . He used to call his dad Mr goenka . After kaira marriage secret came out n there relationship got normal.

Both kartik naira had misunderstood there parents n abandoned there homes for years . Eventually truth came out and things got normal .

Keerti didn't believe their mum committed suicide because of manish-swarna having an EMA. She from start had a good relationship with both swarna and manish and was always trying to rein in karthik's hatred for their dad and swarna. I actually found it weird why karthik believed M and S had affair and caused his mother to commit suicide when keerthi didn't. They never showed why keerthi never held manish and swarna responsible the way karthik did, like whether she knew something that karthik didn't. Some things just were left unexplained.

Originally posted by: Choco_mint

Agree its his childhood trauma and excessive attachment to molly cuddle/please his mother! He is trying to make up for his father's failures hence why he is always dancing to his mothers every whim and cry!

I'm trying to understand him! But him crossing that thin line of decency and marrying someone that should be like a sister to him is just 🤢

I don't know them pills have blocked his brain!! I just can't!

Agree with childhood trauma and all.

But what he used to accuse his father of, he is doing the same thing with his wife and his mom is encouraging him.

Now with his actions, he made his father a better partner than him. At least he never threw his wife to the road in the worst situation. Even after she divorced him he never asked her to go out of the house.

His mom after suffering a bad relationship, how can she encourage his son to marry like that is the only solution to the problems?

Originally posted by: Siri918

Agree with childhood trauma and all.

But what he used to accuse his father of, he is doing the same thing with his wife and his mom is encouraging him.

Now with his actions, he made his father a better partner than him. At least he never threw his wife to the road in the worst situation. Even after she divorced him he never asked her to go out of the house.

His mom after suffering a bad relationship, how can she encourage his son to marry like that is the only solution to the problems?

Manjari n harsh are divorced!??

Ye kab hua??? And she is still living there like anupama used to stay 🙂. For family n kids ha??

So now technically she is loving in her sister ' s sasural.

Originally posted by: Sakshi-deewan

Manjari n harsh are divorced!??

Ye kab hua??? And she is still living there like anupama used to stay 🙂. For family n kids ha??

So now technically she is loving in her sister's Sasural.

Manjari signs the divorce papers with a lot of drama. she signs the papers by keeping them on Abhi's back.

Abhi defends her mom and he said she stays with family and him, if he doesn't like HB can go out of the house.

So HB says he will go out of the house and not her. that's how he left and he used to stay at the farmhouse

In between, when they need him for the hospital he called him But these days not showing up. might left the show or what?

Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

Keerti didn't believe their mum committed suicide because of manish-swarna having an EMA. She from start had a good relationship with both swarna and manish and was always trying to rein in karthik's hatred for their dad and swarna. I actually found it weird why karthik believed M and S had affair and caused his mother to commit suicide when keerthi didn't. They never showed why keerthi never held manish and swarna responsible the way karthik did, like whether she knew something that karthik didn't. Some things just were left unexplained.

True that !!

She didn't hold any grudges against Manish swarna .

But the day sowmya's secret came out .. some letter written by her which stated that her kids should never know abt her mental conditions . Keerti was equally shocked n broken as kartik .

Maybe she was elder and more mature that's why didn't blame her dad but she didn't knew abt the actual reason for sure . Maybe she thought that becoz of fights and clashes her mom gave up . Becoz some scenes were known in flashback where Manish n somya used to fight alot.

Pov : the actress who played keerti' s mom and mohina ( keerti) looked very similar . Like orginal mom daughter resembles . Good casting 👍

Originally posted by: Sakshi-deewan

True that !!

She didn't hold any grudges against Manish swarna .

But the day sowmya's secret came out .. some letter written by her which stated that her kids should never know abt her mental conditions . Keerti was equally shocked n broken as kartik .

Maybe she was elder and more mature that's why didn't blame her dad but she didn't knew abt the actual reason for sure . Maybe she thought that becoz of fights and clashes her mom gave up . Becoz some scenes were known in flashback where Manish n somya used to fight alot.

Pov : the actress who played keerti' s mom and mohina ( keerti) looked very similar . Like orginal mom daughter resembles . Good casting 👍

Wish they would have given more clarity regarding why keerti didn't blame manish and swarna. There were no dialogues either from her to indicate why. Ah yeah I remember seeing a picture of karthik's mother soumya in his room and thinking she looks exactly like mohena. ❤️