Originally posted by: FieryLioness
Exactly... even before agreeing for marriage, meerab has decided murtasim is the only wrong in her life nd she is going through everything just because of him.
Nd honestly I am failed to understand why she holds him culprit for everything that has happened in her life.
I can take it if she dislike/hates him for the person he is. Or not liking his thinking.. every reason is acceptable but this hatred is out of my understanding.
I wish makers could come with a solid reason to create this hatred in her heart ....
Everything in her life changed the moment their marriage was announced and murtasim even though didn't wanted to marry her never stood by her and talked to the elders. We as viewers know he did it on his own but she don't. For her it looked like he was trying to get what he wants without wanting to get his hands dirty and make her look like the bad guy.
All she knows is she tried hard and it ended up revealing her real parentage and she was forced out of the life of people she grew up with and was made an orphan with nobody to lean on. Any person will loose it and she is someone who grew up as a single child to an extremely loving parents. She was very proud of who she was and where she came from. All that was taken away from her in an instant and even before she could process anything on her own the elders forced her to get separated from everything she grew up knowing as hers. Her parents, her house, the city she grew up in, her friends, her education. In a single day she lost her entire identity. it normal that most people project their anger towards the one that reacts and out of everyone she feels are her culprits murtasim is the only one that she can project her anger at. She definitely still loves her foster parents, so except for not taking to them and being angry at them there is literally nothing she can do. Anwar don't even react when his only child was slapped so hard that she lost her consciousness. Even if she screams her lungs out that guy won't budge. Targeting murtasim is also targetting maa begum as well. Maa begum can't be in peace if her sher beta is not in peace.
Also murtasim had no reason to say yes to the marriage simply because meerab told him she no more hates him. He has been claiming that he never liked her or her guts. Just because the girl was fine with getting married doesn't mean he had to say yes. It's obvious she didn't had any sort of romantic feelings for him and since they knew each other from childhood he should know enough whether she suits him and his household. Murtasim saying yes to marriage right after meerab said yes will also look like he never tried to stop the wedding himself. So her anger and hate for murtasim till the wedding can be justified. Everything happened so fast she didn't had time to progress anything and she did whatever that came to her mind.
But after marriage and how he has been giving her space and baring all her tantrums she could have calmed down and thought about who she is really angry with. The guy is clearly doing everything to make sure she is fine. At this point she is being just stubborn and seems to have made it a hobby to irritate murtasim. It's baseless at this point. Even maa begum is being nice to her. She isn't trying to understand herself and what she wants instead wakes up every morning to just throw tantrums at murtasim. I guess it's more the fault of the writers that the character. They want to stretch the push and pull and of meeran acts matured then it's bot possible. No matured girl is gonna waste her day thinking about how to irritate a guy than to put her life together . What happened to her law studies? She herself seems to have forgotten about it. She isn't creating a big scene and making everyone's life a living hell. She is only throwing temper tantrums and not giving satisfaction to murtu's hormones. She literally is roaming around that big house aimlessly. She could have done that without getting married to murtu.
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