AbhiM apologizes to Ak: Epi Air Date Jan 30 2023 - Page 33

Originally posted by: Sri4Abhira

Grace: what do u think Akshu will say to Abhi?

Don't know 😆 let's see what happens in the episode today.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

From what I have seen when Abhi gets angry and emotionally weak it takes him such a long time to get out of it. Also he may have been stubborn about his decisions and feelings. Cut the cancer at the core is always his motto. He felt his relationship was canerous to his family relationship so he cut it. It was probably the most painful thing he did to himself because he knows he cannot live without Akshu. He literally gave up as he did not know how to fix the situation. His childhood trauma manifested his OCD behavior and he needs to be able to control things.

It doesn't help he has a mother who would probably triggers his insecurities and reminds him of all that they lost because of Neil’s death. Mahima is no better. She yelled at him in the hospital about how he/they need to distance themselves from Akshu as the mere mention of her name sends Manjari into fits of panic that could be fatal.

Abhi's family is plain toxic. That is why he always pulled here and there by them. No differently for Akshu when she was trapped in her family jaap.

since he distanced himself from akshu to cut the cancer at the core(becoz that's the way he operates ,I agree with you) for his mom, for aroos baby, whatever the reason maybe.

the one thing I want from him in the future is that he, after knowing that abhir is his son ,respects/ accepts whatever decision akshara made, whether right or wrong it shdnt matter.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I think that to me shows Abhi has always maintained a clear distinction about his relationship with Roohi and Arohi. It is Manjari who wants to blur the lines and Arohi is living in a fantasy land that Abhi is part of her unit with Roohi.

Abhi is the Bade Papa/ Tauji to Roohi. Considering how Roohi always messes up words trying to make her use Bade Papa would results in more slip ups of Papa forgetting the Bade.

Abhi is taking his responsibility seriously as it was younger brother's last wish. He has no one in his life because he let Akshu go/drove Akshu away. So he poured every once of his life into helping raising Roohi. But how many days he was in Kasauli? He got some fresh air and his burdens lifted for a bit. He started to contact Roohi less and less.

Agree with both your views

Nitya, you raise a good point. We do tend to always find excuses for Abhi and give him a free pass and the default targets for blame are MM and AR. These 2 do give us reasons though.

As much as I hate it, if he does decide to go ahead with marrying Ar be it on insistence from MM or Ruhi, he should go the full distance. Running away from the mandap is wrong in so many ways. I sincerely hope he stands firm and does not agree to it in the first place.

Grace, yes he started to drift away from Ruhi without even realising. On his return to birlas now, I'd say he wont be fully back to how he was with Ruhi. He may continue to be drawn towards Abhir and Ak. Would this be the reason for him to take that awful decision?

If he can accept and support the fact that his stupid mom brought Neel home and broke him and his spirit completely living a life as an unwanted adopted child in an abusive home he can very well accept Akshara’s decision for the well-being of her child especially given the fact that he clearly rejected her child and divorced her.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

very nice post Grace

since he distanced himself from akshu to cut the cancer at the core(becoz that's the way he operates ,I agree with you) for his mom, for aroos baby, whatever the reason maybe.

the one thing I want from him in the future is that he, after knowing that abhir is his son ,respects/ accepts whatever decision akshara made, whether right or wrong it shdnt matter.

Originally posted by: IAMHope

If he can accept and support the fact that his stupid mom brought Neel home and broke him and his spirit completely living a life as an unwanted adopted child in an abusive home he can very well accept Akshara’s decision for the well-being of her child especially given the fact that he clearly rejected her child and divorced her.

I was checking something on Google search the other day, and I came across this one of the greatest fears,across the globe, is rejection, feeling unwanted,

Originally posted by: Aarthiviji

My fundamental concern is abhir accepting abhi itself a big track on top of at all a hi arohi marriage fixing and truth comes ruhi ka halath s next ...arohi ka greywashing already started

Originally posted by: IAMHope

The way they’ll present it, it will be for Roohi - because Roohi wants it. She wants Matashri and Poppy to marry so she can have a real Papa instead of Poppy. The only relationship that can trump that is Abhir.

Originally posted by: IAMHope

If he can accept and support the fact that his stupid mom brought Neel home and broke him and his spirit completely living a life as an unwanted adopted child in an abusive home he can very well accept Akshara’s decision for the well-being of her child especially given the fact that he clearly rejected her child and divorced her.

sorry I some times get triggered by cancer word .I had a sister who succumbed to cancer and passed away 7 years back.She suffered for 2 years.She loved me so much always held me and put me first .was 8 years older than me.such a lively vibrant person and I am missing her terribly.Many years passed but pain of losing her has not reduced even 1 %.But I like to think God has given her back to me in the form of my 6 year old daughter. She is just like my sweet,funny lovely sister both in looks and personality .

That may be the reason I am mad at arohi bcoz I had the perfect sister in the world .sister sister relationship is very unique.From babyhood itself I loved her more than my pappa and amma and she me.Now my sister is not just a phone call away I lost her.So I can understand how ahira is unable to move on even after 6 years.Bcoz in case of true love even after many years, the pain of losing the loved one can grip us viciously , we can't even breathe ,can give sleepless nights with many what ifs.....sometimes we can never understand how can destiny be so cruel to us but can only learn to survive.So now akshara has abhir and abhi has MM and ruhi but they can never be equal to the person who they loved most.

I have a good and loving husband and 2 kids but there is a void in me that can never be filled.Its like that for abhira.Only akhu can fill abhis void and vice versa

Originally posted by: sunshining

gees, IF is on fire this morning. Havent caught up on all the posts yet.

Seeing maa-beta hug and reading some of the posts, I felt liking going back to sleep thinking it was all a nightmare

So basically after some beautiful episodes it is all doom and gloom and back to where it all started with MM and AR's manipulations, this time Ruhi is in there too.

On a serious note, we all kind of knew it would come to this didnt we?. Even then we held onto some hope that makers wont go the typical itv way and there would be some surprise element other than the drama in the mandap. BTS has pretty much dashed that hope.

Now please lets not make too much of papa birlas return. He becomes a beegi billi infront of MM now. It will be MM and her fav bahu's show for a few more days till Abhir makes an appearance. Get ready to skip/ff'd.

Most of us are too invested emotionally in this to walk away, lets ride this wave together and see where it lands.

To all of us

💕💕💕🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗

P.S: I do like the theory of BTS being MM's dream

Yep I know MM and Abhi is mother son but I am also disturbed by that bts wale hug.

I don't have the heart to even watch abrohi shaadi.i just can't stand that jaru.Ruhi is very cute bit cvs are hell bend on making us dislike her.Yep it's only through roohi that evil MM and jaru will work.why is MM so blind.why can't she leave him alone.Abhi must be in her mid to early 30 according to the time line.why can't MM back off.

We all are so emotionally invested in abhira.so yep we will ride this together with a lot of swearing at arohi ,manjari and to the makers

So sorry for your loss. F*ck Cancer.

Originally posted by: Jiss555

cut the cancer at the core,very true Abhi being the top surgon definitely cut her off to protect his family.And this put a new perspective and also a certain distase in my mind for Abhi.Now I am getting angry at Abhi.Why at the first sign of trouble he always flashes the divorce card

sorry I some times get triggered by cancer word .I had a sister who succumbed to cancer and passed away 7 years back.She suffered for 2 years.She loved me so much always held me and put me first .was 8 years older than me.such a lively vibrant person and I am missing her terribly.Many years passed but pain of losing her has not reduced even 1 %.But I like to think God has given her back to me in the form of my 6 year old daughter. She is just like my sweet,funny lovely sister both in looks and personality .

That may be the reason I am mad at arohi bcoz I had the perfect sister in the world .sister sister relationship is very unique.From babyhood itself I loved her more than my pappa and amma and she me.Now my sister is not just a phone call away I lost her.So I can understand how ahira is unable to move on even after 6 years.Bcoz in case of true love even after many years, the pain of losing the loved one can grip us viciously , we can't even breathe ,can give sleepless nights with many what ifs.....sometimes we can never understand how can destiny be so cruel to us but can only learn to survive.So now akshara has abhir and abhi has MM and ruhi but they can never be equal to the person who they loved most.

I have a good and loving husband and 2 kids but there is a void in me that can never be filled.Its like that for abhira.Only akhu can fill abhis void and vice versa