Originally posted by: Jyothi001
One thing i felt this communication, pointing out mistakes should have happened long before after their marriage, spouses need to point out both their mistakes it builds the relationship, in gen 2 naira used to point out even kartik also, I think this sep they r bringing their mess on track but abhira had to learn a hard way, now i have some hopes that track is going on rigth path today is abhis day , after some days it will be akshus, if they had done this before then no family or outsider would have weakened their realationship , manjari, jhadu or anybody. In this track they both have to realise that they kept their own family at stake to protect others.
This whole season 3 has been on warp speed.
Abhi and Akshu never took the time to talk out their problems or discuss things. Abhi may have found out about Sirat Ma’s death but Akshu never told her side of the story. The only comments that Abhi made was everyone has a history. You should not feel guilty about Sirat Ma’s death. That is it. Abhi never told Akshu about his childhood trauma. She had to find out the hard way by witnessing everything.
I always felt like Abhi and Akshu acted like young teenagers in love during the first period. They were simply attracted to each other and wanted nothing more than to get married and be together. They never had meaningful conversations. They make a mistake say sorry and say lets promise not to do this again. They let their love just bring them back together again. Then came 1 year separation. Finally some direct dialogues and they agreed to work more this second time around. It worked for a bit until Akshu started alto act recklessly during her pregnancy and then we know what happened next.
Abhi and Akshu basically learned about each other through their marriage but they were pitted up against some tough circumstances and an extemely negative family. If the family life wasn't so volatile then Abhi and Akshu probably would have faired much better.
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