Originally posted by: LoveHC
Arey yarš” Not THIS againš. Heās breaking down in front of Manjiriš¤¦āāļø. Now Manjiriās cycle repeat - see Abhimanyu break down - faint - manipulate him into fulfilling her own selfish demands for delusional happy familyā¦itās high time now Abhimanyu needs character growth and he should BLAST herā¦I canāt imagine there was a time when I used to get relief from the fact that, other than Akshara, Manjiri is one more person who Abhimanyu shares his feelings withā¦now that exact scenario is highly dreaded by not just me but by all I guess. Itās tiring to see leads with same character flaws - Aksharas stubbornness and not thinking of consequences before taking actions and Abhimanyuās weakness in front of Manjiri and uncontrolled angerš Itās high time they now shed these flaws and have new onesā¦Abhimanyu seems calmed down a bit now but I really hope writers maintain this calmness when he knows the truth about Abhir too. I know itās the biggest truth and shock of his life but if heās gets uncontrollably angry again what is the progression? Same with Akshara - she has to maintain this no nonsense attitude but also realize that in her stubbornness she has deprived Abhimanyu of the rights of a father. She didnāt think through how this fake family scenario would be disastrousā¦however harsh the truth is - it can never be worse than a lieā¦
Agreed šÆ
Like I get it Abhi has always leaned on Manjari at the start of the show. Then Manjari was under Harshvardhan's thumb so she couldn't fully express herself. But now that Harshvardhan is out of the picture it just seems Manjari has gotten worse with her ideas of this and that.
I get it she represents this old school mentality and thinking. Marriage is the answer to everything. Moving on in life means to get married and start another family. The generational gap there in thinking. Sometimes its okay to be single for awhile. Let the children who are now grown ups determine what they want without you interferring.
She is from the schhol of that it is better to show the world you are married and in a happy family even if you are suffering inside. Manjari always made due with the little things like oh, well at least I have Abhi. I have Neil. I have a roof over my head and I am with my sister. I have Anisha, Parth, and Nistha too. But she was disrepected by Harshvardhan and Mahima all the time. Anand was nice to her cause she ran the household because his wife didn't care to. He was also old school in thoughts. You could see in the beginning even he wished for Mahima to sometimes do some homely things.
Manjari thinks Abhi can just be in a marriage for Roohi. But why? Is Abhi not already fulfilling his responsibilities? Does he not love Roohi? Does he not make sure she does school work, studies, but also plays with her? Like why do you have to change the equation when it works now? The child already knows her father died and her uncle takes care of her. Manjari makes it sound like children are dumb and won't understand relationships. Well, as the adult and parental type figure it is your job to teach them about relationships. You be surprised how smart kids really are. It is all about how you explain things.
Edited by iheartChai - 2 years ago
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