AbhiM discovers a new Ak: Epi Air Date Jan 24 2023 - Page 29

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

Nice post Grace🤗i have only one dilemma what does a woman do if her spouse has divorced her and said he wants nothing to do with her or her child anymore ( not sure if Abhimanyu said that about her child, when she tried to reach out to him or when the new chr spoke to him) Choco’s post yesterday really affected me Grace, he was celebrating mom’s birthday and treating Arohi so well but when it comes to Ak emotionally affected so can’t deal with it

fabulous posts Grace and Nitya.

Lets be honest, What he did or said on that fateful day was inhumane and can not be justified. As much as I love Abhi, to me he can never be fully redeemed. Even part redemption will be difficult the way he is still carrying on with the accusation. Grace as you said HC is a fab actor, unfortunately because HC the actor excelled in that scene, he made us detest Abhi. Can he make us love Abhi again yes he can but never to the same extent as before.

Nitya, you are right, I have said the same earlier too, to make the leap convincing, they destroyed the character. I wish they had shown Ak walking away from the room rather than listening to his accusations.

Grace, loved your statement "Abhi's mistake does not make Akshu’s mistake right. Nor Akshu’s mistake makes Abhi's mistake right". Yes we can continue to debate who is more wrong but reality is we are at the mercy of the makers. Can we trust them to fully address both their mistakes and not show them making more blunders, dont think so.

Truth is like many here I love Abhira and HC and PR's acting. So will stick around for some more time to see if the makers actually redeem themselves🤣

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

insightful post Grace, points to ponder This topic about mother and son triggers something inside me, Abhimanyu has to build the courage to get out of his mom’s manipulation, I may sound harsh but I don’t feel sorry for him when he fears for his mom’s health I have been through emo blackmail of the worst kind, which turned my whole life upside down, I am not saying one should not love their mother, they should but I am not moved by this devotion he has for his mom, and it’s purely based on my life experiences rest I agree life moves on, it just saddens me that he doesn’t have/show the same consideration/ kindness for his spouse

I hope my post doesn’t come across as bitter or angry, if it does I am sorry, 🤗❤️

As we grow older and becomea certain age, our own relationship with our parents change! Love remains but understanding changes, conversations changes!

I had it pretty rough last year where I found myself making my parents especially my mum understand right from wrong! How do you respectfully tell off your own mum that they are in the wrong without upsetting them! It was a very difficult time! I found myself out of my comfort zone, I was no more the younger daughter of my parents! The people i go to with my problem needed me instead! The conversations I had with them, never in my wildest dream I ever thought i will have with them! Rough times like this it's best to keep calm use thoughtful words and not get wound up in emotions! I believe abhi needs to do the same!

I'm a firm believer I'm my faith so I do let my religion guid me to the right direction.

We knew this was bound to happen. They were so hush hush about it ( compared to the Cucumber leap when they had dancing, press and media ) we knew they wanted to slide in content that they were expecting backlash for from the online audience. They slyly led with Akshara moving on so as to justify Abhi’s move on with Aarohi.

Still, I hope they won’t go all the way with the 🤮stuff 🤞. We won’t know until 4 weeks have passed, I suppose.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

so back to square one Ash

both in legal mg of convenience, how will they get out of it , both Ak and Ab are the same they will never break each other’s marriages

Originally posted by: IAMHope

Certainly feels like Abhi’s Shimla trip was just so he could personally confirm that Akshara has moved on. And then come home and be manipulated by Khandeshwari to agree to marry Aarohi on paper.

Now Abhi will do ( for Roohi) exactly what Ak did for Abhir - get into a legal marriage of convenience.

The story will shift to Udaipur and the Birla Shark tank.

Shefali should call Parth and Mahima out for DV. The actress playing Shef is very good. They can use her to accuse Manjari and Abhi of doing the same thing to Akshara. If this happens I am satisfied.

thats what it is looking like Ash. Please remind me why are we still watching this show. I keep saying it is for Abhira, but can we put up with all the crap that is going to be shown in the process😡🤢

Originally posted by: sunshining

thats what it is looking like Ash. Please remind me why are we still watching this show. I keep saying it is for Abhira, but can we put up with all the crap that is going to be shown in the process😡🤢

We are playing move on - move on too and still stuck here 😂

Originally posted by: Choco_mint

As we grow older and becomea certain age, our own relationship with our parents change! Love remains but understanding changes, conversations changes!

I had it pretty rough last year where I found myself making my parents especially my mum understand right from wrong! How do you respectfully tell off your own mum that they are in the wrong without upsetting them! It was a very difficult time! I found myself out of my comfort zone, I was no more the younger daughter of my parents! The people i go to with my problem needed me instead! The conversations I had with them, never in my wildest dream I ever thought i will have with them! Rough times like this it's best to keep calm use thoughtful words and not get wound up in emotions! I believe abhi needs to do the same!

I'm a firm believer I'm my faith so I do let my religion guid me to the right direction.

Choco, you just made me rewind back to a couple of years when I went through similar thing with my mum. It was so hard especially because she wasnt well and needed full care. Trying to balance between her and my husband and kids was so challenging and took a lot out of me. Unfortunately she passed away last year but I still regret some of the things I said to her. I know there is nothing I can do about it now, but it is difficult to let go of the guilt.

With Abhi, for everything he did would he ever be able to completely forgive himself?.

Originally posted by: IAMHope

We knew this was bound to happen. They were so hush hush about it ( compared to the Cucumber leap when they had dancing, press and media ) we knew they wanted to slide in content that they were expecting backlash for from the online audience. They slyly led with Akshara moving on so as to justify Abhi’s move on with Aarohi.

Still, I hope they won’t go all the way with the 🤮stuff 🤞. We won’t know until 4 weeks have passed, I suppose.

This time it’s completely different they have brought in a “ love” angle for both,(and children too )even if it’s one sided, convenience, we can give it any name but the truth is they are involving others in AkAb mg ,distasteful , but I guess that’s how sitara operates , the PH probably is keeping it quiet because the mighty GD had mocked other serials for what they show,now they’re doing the same, you had made a very wise point once , in the end it’s all to do with money/ career / job no one cares

Originally posted by: sunshining

Choco, you just made me rewind back to a couple of years when I went through similar thing with my mum. It was so hard especially because she wasnt well and needed full care. Trying to balance between her and my husband and kids was so challenging and took a lot out of me. Unfortunately she passed away last year but I still regret some of the things I said to her. I know there is nothing I can do about it now, but it is difficult to let go of the guilt.

With Abhi, for everything he did would he ever be able to completely forgive himself?.

Aww big hug to you 🤗

I don't know if anything I say will help reduce the guilt! Everyone has different stories and different journeys, all we can do is take lessons and learn from our experiences and make our relationships with the people who are still with us better. 🥰🥰🥰

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

insightful post Grace, points to ponder This topic about mother and son triggers something inside me, Abhimanyu has to build the courage to get out of his mom’s manipulation, I may sound harsh but I don’t feel sorry for him when he fears for his mom’s health I have been through emo blackmail of the worst kind, which turned my whole life upside down, I am not saying one should not love their mother, they should but I am not moved by this devotion he has for his mom, and it’s purely based on my life experiences rest I agree life moves on, it just saddens me that he doesn’t have/show the same consideration/ kindness for his spouse

I hope my post doesn’t come across as bitter or angry, if it does I am sorry, 🤗❤️

@bold. Nitya, my turn to give you hugs and kisses 🤗🤗💕💕. Such an ordeal to go through. I hope you managed to come out of it unscathed.

When I watch itv shows and the way they show mums manipulating, I often think that just happens in reel, hard to believe it can happen in real.

That brings me to this question. Not just in shows but in real too, why are women the worst enemies for their own kind. I am not excusing Abhi here he is still responsible for everything he did. But I wish as a mother Manic Manju was shown to be at least empathetic towards Ak may be not that day because she was consumed by grief but at least later. Death is her only redemption.

Here is my conspiracy theory. It was Manic Manju's plan to get Neil killed and put the blame on Ak. killing two birds in one go.

She never really loved Neil. She brought him home to hide his identity and make sure he never got his fathers love. Once the adoption truth was out, she made it all about herself to avoid being blamed and started showering extra love just so no one blamed her. Divorced Harsh so he didnt become a hindrance to her master plan.

Ak, she never liked her anyway. Her number 1 ambition in life was/still is to get Ar married to Abhi. So she just pretended to be Ak's mother but in essence was always the monster. What do you think?

Originally posted by: Choco_mint

Aww big hug to you 🤗

I don't know if anything I say will help reduce the guilt! Everyone has different stories and different journeys, all we can do is take lessons and learn from our experiences and make our relationships with the people who are still with us better. 🥰🥰🥰

hugs back to you choco🤗🤗