Age does NOT dictate Respect

I am of the opinion that age should NOT dictate respect. Respect is earned and is a two way street. People who say that we should Respect someone just because they are older than us are, in my opinion, utterly stupid.

For example, our very own Deviji. The lecture that she gave Dimpy was utter nonsense. Chullu bhar paani mein doob mare woh!

And I want a strong female character for Samar who can put Deviji as well as the rest of the toxic family in their place. I want someone who DOES NOT agree with Deviji and usko bhi mirror dikhati rahe.

To show anupamaa mirror, Anuj could've been enough. But wo bhi "Meri Anu" pe aake atak gaya 😆

No matter who is brought for Samar, the end result will either be that person turning vamp to give anupamaa another chance to give bhashan and one more matka or to turn her into another Anupamaa bhakt😆

It is sad that whoever agrees with Devi ji....is put on a pedestal...irrespective of whatever they have done in the past......for example how is Kavya any better than Toshu or Vanraj....her behaviour has been despicable in the past.....having an affair with VanRaj while she was pretending to be Anupama's friend....as bad as the other two...right? but the minute she started talking in favor of Anupama....saare paap dhul gaye...

What about Kinjal...well she is not as bad as the others of course....but the way she uses and abuses her own mother and goes running to Anupama , what about that?? Jab matlab pada toh Maa yaad aayi...otherwise abusing her own mother in public? How is she better than Toshu and Pakhi..

And Bapu ji ka toh poochho he mat....he is the reason for everything bad that has happened.....what happened to his heart? sab theek ho gaya magically??

Every single character in this show needs to consult a psychiatrist asap.Especially Anu Maa who just gives 10 pages ka bhashan with a moral of Baa ko haq ka har aik ko abuse karne ka kyunke woh Baa hai.Yeh aurat Baa ko legally adopt kyun nahi karleti ? Phir karti rahe Baa Baa black sheep ka jaap.

I've said that I'm taking a break from the show.. but since I can't seem to keep away from the forums, I keep seeing the show in FF mode after reading the threads 🤦‍♀️

Honestly, after what AnupaMaa said today to Dimple, all I can say is thath after Baa AnupaMaa is the most regressive character of the show, women empowerment kehte hai and auraton ko peche keechne maein jee Jaan lagakar padi hai.... Kinjal kini independent, smart ladki dhi.. isko bhi 'main ma hoo nei'ji nai brainwash, Gaslight kar diya and made her into a doormat.....

Badi badi lectures deti hai.. but khud ko harkaton dekne layak hi nahi.... What she said to Dimple just made me so mad.. Muje hamesha sei gusse aayi dhi when people say ' wo bade hai, uss kuch mat kehna hai, wo bade hai, sahi hai' older logon ko hamesha respect karna hai.....

Just because you are older does not mean Jo aapse chote hai wo galat hai... It doesn't mean that respect is served to you on a golden platter no matter what bakwas you say... Younger people are not obliged to let you sling mud at them just because itefaaq se you were born before them....

Bade ko utni respect Dene chahiya jitni ki wo haqdhaar hai.... They are supposed to be fonts of wisdom and a guiding light for the younger generation and that is why they are to be respected... bade jaise kaam nahi karti... Insaniyat nahi hai... Machli ki market me hai jaise shor machaati hai, bade jaise na tameez hai, na behave karne ki saleeka ati hai.. sirf zeher ugati hai.. why respect them ?.. why not reply to them....

Ye AnupaMaa sabko uski tarah doormat banane mein tuli hai....

So disappointed with the makers...Makers se umeed kab se chod diya.. but hadd hai yaar.....

And Bapuji ...a.k.a Gaslighterji.... Uss admi ko kya hi kahoo... MaAn ki life mein sab se badi villian woh hai....

Dho navve ki sawar hai and those who keep a foot in each boat ⛵ ko pakka samndar mein girna chachiye...🌊

Ek to kuch karti nahi aur SH ke sath bohot mauj masti karti hain.. aur AnupaMaa /Anuj ko dekte hi shuru ho jaati hai crocodile 🐊 tears ke saath...Uske baare mein jitna Kam kaho utna acha hai...

I really don't want to see a Vanika 2.0 track , but with 🗑️Raj and Maaya instead.. but legta hai aise hi direction mai Jaa rahi hai...

Yeh sab ko Kapdaia Empire hapdapne ki aawa aur kuch nahi aati hai kya ?... Itni saari business men hai.. aur sirf Kapadias ko hi Mila ? Kitne pakayengi yeh same track in different packets ?

B.T.W.. Kavyaa- you do you girl 👍

I sincerely hope that D rejects S..... No one.. I repeat. NO ON E deserves to have their life ruined to the extent that Shah's and AnupaMaa are capable of doing... especially not Dimple the brave, strong CH she was shown to be.... But obviously, D will say yes to S.. isi liye tho D ko rekhi hai na ?

But honestly ,jab bhi mein yeh sab dekte hai.. I always think kudos to all the actors for doing uch an amazing job with all their characters....

But....the makers... Kya hai yaar ? kuch bhi dikate hai.. matlab kuch bhi.... 🤦‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️😒

If elder want respect then they love n behave like elder control fazool talk n if that is not not possible please leave them when they start nonsense leave them alone for some time wahan pe khade reh kar nahi suno,

Now its time to see karma of baa

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

It is sad that whoever agrees with Devi ji....is put on a pedestal...irrespective of whatever they have done in the past......for example how is Kavya any better than Toshu or Vanraj....her behaviour has been despicable in the past.....having an affair with VanRaj while she was pretending to be Anupama's friend....as bad as the other two...right? but the minute she started talking in favor of Anupama....saare paap dhul gaye...

What about Kinjal...well she is not as bad as the others of course....but the way she uses and abuses her own mother and goes running to Anupama , what about that?? Jab matlab pada toh Maa yaad aayi...otherwise abusing her own mother in public? How is she better than Toshu and Pakhi..

And Bapu ji ka toh poochho he mat....he is the reason for everything bad that has happened.....what happened to his heart? sab theek ho gaya magically??

Such a hypocrites this show has.

1. Anupama is okay to stay in her sasural but she will feel bad if she stays in her mayka.

2. Kinjal is okay to stay with thos toxic family as if she needs free maids to serve her kid and she is okay to make anu to take care of her kid but she can not take her kid with her or ask her mom to keep a place for her kid in office.

3. Kavya even though she did a mistake but i feel she already got a share of her punisent by marrying vanraj so i am sparing her.

4. Rest all shah's just watch tamasha. Can't bapuji slap leela on her face when she insults his damaad(anuj). If he really considered anu as daughter then anuj will have equal importance like how his other damaad has. Why cant he see how much its affecting their lifes.

5. Anuj who used to boast of taking care of anu's family as son never got his real sasuma in his home. Like they are missing from the show itself. Why can't they come and show a mirror to baa. Or slap baa.

Shitnupa khud bhi badi hai par uske bacche toh uski izzat nahi karte. Tab age ka point kyun nahi aata 😂

This show is hell bent on showing Shitnupa as some devi whereas it's an insult to even think along those lines. But in that case, makers should also remember that Devi-devta ne samay aane par rakshason ka vadh kiya hai. Ye rakshasi jhuli ka paap ka ghada bhar toh kab ka gaya tha ab toh overflow ho raha hai. She should be slayed immediately. 😉

Anupama may have had countless faults up until now but what she told Dimple today just ruined her entire character for me🤢 Anupama absolutely disgusts me. Instead of confronting Baa for her blame-the-victim mentality she tells Dimple to stay quiet and tolerate any verbal abuse thrown her way in the name of respecting the “elders”.

Dimple needs to run and not look back before Anupama completely ruins her life. 🤢

Originally posted by: femmefatale09

I am of the opinion that age should NOT dictate respect. Respect is earned and is a two way street. People who say that we should Respect someone just because they are older than us are, in my opinion, utterly stupid.

For example, our very own Deviji. The lecture that she gave Dimpy was utter nonsense. Chullu bhar paani mein doob mare woh!

And I want a strong female character for Samar who can put Deviji as well as the rest of the toxic family in their place. I want someone who DOES NOT agree with Deviji and usko bhi mirror dikhati rahe.

Well said! I have thought my children to be strong individual and respect their elders.

What I didn’t teach my kids was, that if adult spawn nonsense, disrespect and bully you to stand there and take it. Defend yourself if you have to, let me know about, I will handle the rest.

This crap she was spawning to respect Baa no matter what she says to you because she is your elder, had me flabbergasted. This time Baa verbally abused her, what about next time when she decides to physically attack her, is Dimpy supposed to just stand there and take it because Baa is her elder?! Enough is enough.