Tere Bin (Geotv) Yumna Zaidi, Wahaj Ali - Page 61

How to ruin a show in 30 min- hero slaps the heroine and justifies it to her biological father and has minimal regret. Did M really tell Anwer ‘if you’d been the father you ought to have been, this wouldn’t have occurred?’ Meaning your daughter would’ve been the docile sheep women need to be and I wouldn’t have had to slap her? Ewww. Then he doubles down with Meerab and asks her ‘itni akad’

So M is not just an angry young man. He is a toxic misogynist and abuser.

And M this is not the first time you’ve abused. Grabbing someone harshly at the wrist and dragging someone along which you’ve done often is all abuse/pre abuse.

I will watch the show but the excitement is gone.

So we are being told abusers change but in reality they don’t. Lots of young impressionable girls watching this show getting the wrong message.

There was no need to show Meerab ka dukhra Rona in front of M. Who sits with their abuser and laments on khismat? Lol

What kind of a never defeated lawyer is Waqas? What a spineless father.

And Aneela is another spineless human. Just open the damned door. You’re not married to an M who will hit you for opening the door

Originally posted by: FieryLioness

Completely agree with your every single word... this is just stupid that they gave up on a girl, now they want her back nd not only that they want her to accept all the bullshit that haveli ppl throw at her on name of customs

You said it so right that all 4 elders just screwed it up badly and an innocent girl is suffering coz of them. No wonder meerab will hv this hatred for haveli ppl... out of nowhere she is being forced to marry the guy she doesn't like nd now she is being forced to accept someone else as father nd live in an environment that she just doesn't approve of.

Anwar nd family had all the interference in her life's every decision. Then why they never stopped waqas to raise meerab to become this independent girl..

This is like they are giving her some punishment for life...

Even now they are going marriage marriage. I mean what's the hurry. The least they could do is give her some space and let her sink in the reality. After shocking her with the truth bomb they are all emotionally manipulating her to get married to a guy that slapped her.

Anwar saying he won't forgive Murtasim for slapping her was such a suss scene. The dude went to question Murtasim for slapping and Murtasim walked away consoling him. I was like wtf. His daughter ended up unconscious after getting slapped by murtasim and both her fathers still want her to marry him. Most dramas only have one useless father for the female lead and here she has two👎🏼. Her getting slapped by her would be is everyone's least of concerns. It even looked like she also don't care much about the slap.

Originally posted by: reshamc

Last week, I was one of the very few who said let the slap remain if it's needed for the story development.

Alas, it served no purpose in the plot. That whole interaction was not needed at all. I see no need for Meerab and Murtasim to have that convo. Why did he try to stop her? Why did she blame him? Why the F did he slap her? All of it looked pretty forced.

Murtasim could have still been informed by haya. Later, they could still go on with the bench scene. The slap served no purpose at all. It has left a bitter taste in me. Why make a character so unlikeable without it adding anything to the story? This is lazy writing done for shock value. Really disappointed today. 😥😥

Exactly. Murtasim himself said he never raised his hands on a woman before. Meerab didn't even do anything to raise his temper to the level he looses it and slaps her. It would have still made sense if that scene happened after haya misinforms him and he thinks she is adopted and isn't worth him or his family. But that wasn't the case either. If he is capable of slapping a girl who is an equal to him in family status and finance what will a guy like him do to a girl who comes from a not so khandaani background 🤬. He will think of her as his paav ki jhooti.

Also murtasim apologised only when meerab brought up the slap. He didn't go to see her to apologise .

Originally posted by: vizard

People insisting that the slap should have been removed because it serves no purpose are in denial. You may have wish for that so you may enjoy the love story, but the reality is Murtasim is not the hero you hoped for. His anger issues and lack of self-control have been well established from the very first episode when he barged into an enemy territory not caring for the consequences. The slap simply reinforces those traits and his ego.

He is exactly the kind of hero we see in mainstream pak dramas nowadays. The toxic macho angry young man hero. He was shown barging into the enemies territory because they threatened to kidnap a poor guy's daughter and then they showed him slapping his future wife without any proper reason. Not that having a reason will excuse his actions.

Just because a guy has anger issues and lack of self control doesn't mean him slapping a woman can be swept under the rug. Would he slap his own mother because of his anger management issues? If he is fully capable of controlling his hands in front of his mother then he is fully capable of controlling his hands in front of any woman. His mother has been forcing an unwanted marriage on him but the dude isn't even raising his voice on her.

Originally posted by: FieryLioness

Seriously yaar ... even though I am loving their chemistry but the story plot is so weak.

I hope they show better reason for them to hate each other. Not some silly reason like this whole parentage mess..

Story is regressive. If it weren’t for the leads I wouldn’t be watching it.

After Today's episode, I left with an empty feeling, that there is something that needs to be out to connect these scenes and these weird and contradictory characters. Waqas, a strong Lawyer is insisting her daughter to accept the fact that Anwar is the father and she should marry Mutasim and everything will be ok. This sounds empty to me and I don't think that this is the case. If it is then there is no reason to watch this baseless story.

The slapping scene seems there is some connection lies in between M&M which they don't show yet they carry in em. Anwar and Muntasim's scene was way too weak. Wow, a father is supposed to tear him apart left and right for what he did to his daughter.

Idk, I couldn't get connected with anything tonight. Lets see tomorrow.

Originally posted by: spnfan

He is exactly the kind of hero we see in mainstream pak dramas nowadays. The toxic macho angry young man hero. He was shown barging into the enemies territory because they threatened to kidnap a poor guy's daughter and then they showed him slapping his future wife without any proper reason. Not that having a reason will excuse his actions.

Just because a guy has anger issues and lack of self control doesn't mean him slapping a woman can be swept under the rug. Would he slap his own mother because of his anger management issues? If he is fully capable of controlling his hands in front of his mother then he is fully capable of controlling his hands in front of any woman. His mother has been forcing an unwanted marriage on him but the dude isn't even raising his voice on her.

You are suggesting what should happen but some of these dramas with toxic heros tell stories that actually happen.

Your mother comparison may make sense to some degree but it's far from reality. In the vast majority of anger issue cases, the guy will get physical with the girl /anyone except with his parents, especially the mother. There may be exceptions here and there, but they are the exceptions - not the norm.

So far i haven't come across anyone implying that slapping a girl should be swept under the rug. The majority of the people will condemn the act but still watch the drama because redemption stories are well liked by the public. Additionally, the ability to forgive is a trait that resonates with the audience because forgiveness is a major part of Islam and most religions. This is why such dramas are so popular, and also why may people did not like the endings of Ishqiya, KTK, etc.

I will say there is a saturation of such stories. Consequently, they lose meaning and are not as impactful. And yet, they are as popular as ever. The audience has to communicate with the channels by not watching this kind of content, and it has to start with people who feel strongly about it like in this forum.

Originally posted by: vizard

People insisting that the slap should have been removed because it serves no purpose are in denial. You may have wish for that so you may enjoy the love story, but the reality is Murtasim is not the hero you hoped for. His anger issues and lack of self-control have been well established from the very first episode when he barged into an enemy territory not caring for the consequences. The slap simply reinforces those traits and his ego.

Not only anger issues, he can be easily influenced too. Haya exactly knew what she needs to do. Nd I honestly more worried for coming track as it'll not take much of hard work for haya to turn things against meerab. Just include the word khandaan nd izzat and murtasim becomes a mad bull charging on everyone that as per his ideology is harming his family name.

But after all the negative traits, he still be worshiped as hero nd girls are going gaga over him.

As much I love both leads chemistry, I'll never want girl to end up with the guy/family who are capable of physical violence nd take it as normal to raise hand on her 👎🏼