I don't think he is blaming himself completely. He did say he doesn't regret speaking up, but maybe he spoke too much because like his friend said, Anupama can't just abandon her kids no matter how crappy they are. And he is staying away from her because he feels she is still not understanding the issue and loving or prioritising him and only doing all this out of guilt about upsetting him, which is exactly what Anupama is doing.
The reason I don't like Anupama currently is because she isn't the one Anuj was in love with. We haven't seen her in college, but she did have dreams enough to try to go to USA after marriage, so maybe in college also she had dreams, same with the Anupama Anuj met after 26 years, she wasn't her broken shell but rather a strong independent woman out to find her calling and giving back to people when needed.. this doing special things in guilt, saying such stuff in front of strangers, all that is not the woman he fell for, so if he feels empty when she is doing it, I can understand..
comment:
p_commentcount