I think Vanraj knows how wrong he is. He has mentioned a few times in past how Anuj/Anupama are good people getting taken advantage of.. even though Vanraj himself is one of those people taking advantage of them.
Vanraj also can't be so naive as not to realize that his own family is the root of the problem. He knows this.
Instead, Vanraj can't let go of his ego and need to always have the last word, especially when it comes to Anuj/Anupama. He constantly lashes out at the slightest inconvenience without pausing to think about the issue at hand. He has a BIG issue with controlling his anger.
And that is why it is so futile to argue with such a person; no amount of logic/sane arguments by Anuj, Barkha, Kinjal or anyone else is going to change Vanraj's or any of the vile Shahs' minds. They refuse to even acknowledge other people's thoughts and feelings. Even when they know they are wrong, they will never admit to it. Plus they still have a sense of entitlement.
So, what is the point in dealing with such people? It's like banging one's head against a wall.
that is why this show is so infuriating. No consequences and no acknowledgment of any mistakes whatsoever. All the issues are just brushed over in the end and the toxicity continues.
Anuj is right to give Anupama an ultimatum if he wants their family to live in peace.
Edited by HappySmiles - 2 years ago
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