ambika has asked for what she is gettting - Page 2

I was watching the episode last night and was getting mad at Ambika. Why is she creating so much fuss over his past affair. Narpat has been faithful to Ambika and family after he married Ambika. It is Shyama who has the right to complain not Ambika.

And I am amazed at Samar. Can he not understand his own father?

Originally posted by: sangeeta

I was watching the episode last night and was getting mad at Ambika. Why is she creating so much fuss over his past affair. Narpat has been faithful to Ambika and family after he married Ambika. It is Shyama who has the right to complain not Ambika.

And I am amazed at Samar. Can he not understand his own father?

I totally agree here. Any one suffer injustice was shyama and kalika. Narpat gave them everything and good 30 years of his life. Still Narpat was always put donw by ambika kaveri and samar. Samar has no right telling Narpat don't touch my mother. Ambika is Narpat's wife first.

PPl do have past in real life too .sometimes you find out accidently and you get angry. but you don't throw person out or break relation. Yes it does hurt to find out. But then you have to consider how much lov eyou have gotten from the person and that your mate is always faithful to you.

yahan toh sab ne uska gunah sune bina hi saza de di.

Originally posted by: sangeeta

And I am amazed at Samar. Can he not understand his own father?

Nope, both mother and son believe what Maa Kaveri says.

Originally posted by: tvchick2006

Nope, both mother and son believe what Maa Kaveri says.

i agree totally😆 In dono ka brain kaveri ne chhin jo liya hai. yahan to kaveri saas bani huyi hai aur ambika samar ko puppet bana diya hai aur khub nachvati hai.

Originally posted by: ramas

i agree totally😆 In dono ka brain kaveri ne chhin jo liya hai. yahan to kaveri saas bani huyi hai aur ambika samar ko puppet bana diya hai aur khub nachvati hai.

I have more sympathy for puppets Raksha as they dont have life. Its pathetic to see how a son can be blinded by his wife (happens). Ambika and Samar are healthy people with functioning brains and yet they act like puppets. Shame on them!

BTW, I thought Doc told Kaveri she can't be preg then how come she is pregnant?

Originally posted by: tvchick2006

I have more sympathy for puppets Raksha as they dont have life. Its pathetic to see how a son can be blinded by his wife (happens). Ambika and Samar are healthy people with functioning brains and yet they act like puppets. Shame on them!

BTW, I thought Doc told Kaveri she can't be preg then how come she is pregnant?

you are so right about that. But then they do this to dramatize. What if kaveri is not preg again and borrow someone's child 2nd time. With kaveri anything is possible.

In real life too some ppl are so blinded by others they can only see what is shown to them. Trust me I am telling you this from experience. Some ppl are so cunning they exactly know how to act and when and fool others. Too bad they are part of your family and cause a catostrophy in your life. all you can do is suffer and watch them suffer(like narapt samat ambika and sal shubi) till every one gets a sense and recognize a manilulating person.

Originally posted by: ramas

you are so right about that. But then they do this to dramatize. What if kaveri is not preg again and borrow someone's child 2nd time. With kaveri anything is possible.

In real life too some ppl are so blinded by others they can only see what is shown to them. Trust me I am telling you this from experience. Some ppl are so cunning they exactly know how to act and when and fool others. Too bad they are part of your family and cause a catostrophy in your life. all you can do is suffer and watch them suffer(like narapt samat ambika and sal shubi) till every one gets a sense and recognize a manilulating person.

I wont be surprised if we get to know Kaveri is faking her pregnancy.

I do realize there are people like Kaveri who are complete chameleons. They change colors whenever they want to. But I do believe, Kaveri's behavior towards her MIL is not chameleon like. She downright rude to her. She might act all seedha-sadha in front of Samar. I really do believe only person who can kick Kaveri out is Samar. I think everyone (even Sal's in-laws) know about Kaveri's maligness. She needs to be thrown out.

I think almost everyone deserved what they got....

Ambika- she shouldve atleast trusted her husband enough to allow him to speak from his side....she didnt even give him a chance

Samar- always insult everyone because of yr "lovely" wife...but when ur father asks you just one time..to believe him..u dont..u forget alll about him and listen to ur so called wife..what kind of son are u?

hmm..let see

Gaj- u dnt even know the whole story...as shayma was not in a good state...he didnt even know the whole truth...nothing...but still he seems like he does and then start beating someone...because u think that he has ruined someones life.....


kalika- i agree...that whatever hs been done with her is not right...i know that she wants to hurt narpat for her mothers sake..but...she doesnt even know what really happened...and...yet shes willng to kill her own father...please give me a break people...also..her mom wants narpat to come back to her..butif kalika tries to kill him...then her own mother would start to hate her...

and....
Narpat- i agree that narpat loved someone in the past...but i dont think that he knew she was pregnant..so ii cant blame narpat without knowthing the truth...but still u loved ur wife...maybe she wouldnt of acted the way she did if u told her along time ago...instead of...waiting or it to come out by itself...

Anyways, thats why i think everyone got what they deserve i just feel bad for saloni...who couldnt have a normal pregnancy...who always has to suffer...and i am glad that brijesh and dheer and nahar (basically everyone from singh family) trusts narpat...but then why dosent ambika or even samar....

is that the meaning of a husband and wife relationship...narpats own wife and son dont believe in him but yet brijesh and them do....

Originally posted by: naz_u54

I think almost everyone deserved what they got....

kalika- i agree...that whatever hs been done with her is not right...i know that she wants to hurt narpat for her mothers sake..but...she doesnt even know what really happened...and...yet shes willng to kill her own father...please give me a break people...also..her mom wants narpat to come back to her..butif kalika tries to kill him...then her own mother would start to hate her...

and....
Narpat- i agree that narpat loved someone in the past...but i dont think that he knew she was pregnant..so ii cant blame narpat without knowthing the truth...but still u loved ur wife...maybe she wouldnt of acted the way she did if u told her along time ago...instead of...waiting or it to come out by itself...

I can understand Kalika's pain. Who wouldn't want a blissful childhood and you have to remember, Gaj has brought her up. He has really instigated the girl against her father. From the time she was born to her current age, it was only Gaj who supported, fed her and educated her. Won't you trust such a person? Won't you treat him like your father?

Given Ambika's nature, I can guarantee you she would have still blamed Narpat. She is a blamer and a curser. Kaveri would have stewed a spicy gossip and Samar would have blindly believed her. I at this point of time think Gaj and Kav are the biggest evils.

I hate to say this but some women of Ambika's age are really very very foolish .
They get so attached to their son and get so involved in their son's life....the bahu , then the grandchildren etc etc , that they completely ignore the man who stood thru thick and thin by them in the full life .....their husband.
Women , when married to a man , sadly have a tendency to take his love for granted , his existence for granted . Initially when they r young , they have too much attachment for their maayka. Husband loves them , gives them everything , yet they constantly think of maayka and their bhabis and bros and moms and dads. If one goes to see ....the moms and dads r just fine and totally involved with their sons.
Then , the children arrive and women get so involved with their laadlas that till the point of his marraige they still r involved . So , in a sense , although they do their duty by their husband , they neglect him emotionally and take him for granted . This is true in 80percent of the Indian houses. Ambika is typically one such idiotic woman.
Most of the bahus dont dare to treat the woman this badly so long as her husband is alive. Once the sasur dies and the son is totally in their clutches , they start treating the saas like a housekeeper. We see this in Ambikas story too .
The husband who provided for her , who looked after her every need , who defended her self respect with just a raised eyebrow when the son even dared to talk in a raised voice to his mother ....he is the real soul of a woman's marraige and identity . Backward as this sounds , i truly believe in it and many foolish women simply understand it the hard way ...like Ambika.
She forced Narpat to come and live in Samars bungalow inspite of having their own ancestral home where they cud have lived with self respect . Narpat had even then sensibly told her that it was better to stay here .
She constantly told Narpat to adjust with Kaveris insults.,....never defended him although Kaveri even started cheaply counting Narpats coffees. Narpat defended her self respect....Ambika only told Narpat to adjust , never defended him. For her , keeping Kaveri and son khush was priority .
Kaveri made Narpat bring groceries , talked back to him , what not . Ambika saw all this with open eyes but never minded .....Mannobhabi pulled Kaveri up but never Ambika . She was thick skinnnedly blissfully happy in her sons life alone.
If u ask my opinion the woman deserves every bit wat shye is getting . I hope Kaveri makes her sleep in servants quarters one day and she cries hot tears remembering Narpat , whose past issue she cud have handled more discreetly , delicately , by saying to gaj and Kaveru u both keep out of it ye mia bivi ka maamla hai . Her dignity wud have remained intact and shhe owed that to Narpat too .