Katha Ankahee -- #daily episode discussion thread - Page 12

Originally posted by: Nabni_blr31

Who am I to judge anyone yaar?

I don't have guts to even accept it in public forum. But who knows if circumstances force me to do something like that, I may also choose it. I think practically my colleague was right.

In tonight's episode it was clear that katha has hid her identity in office. Background check nahi karte kya yeh log looks like she has got this job by reference or kuch toh jhol lagaya hei. So tom she will delete that video from public forums 😕 just to keep her job. That will be the main reason she won't tell anything to Viaan about her son.She is so helpless atm. 😭

I think most of us will agree with her decision when the episode telecasts. She will be left with no options 😭

people have different levels of comfort when it comes to physical intimacy.

so not wanting to hurt anyone's feels and beliefs; hope everyone here is above 18 -- once late night in office, a bunch of us ladies were randomly discussing all sorts of things and the topic went to arranged marriage and how awkward/difficult it can be to adjust. one woman said that for some, the first night is just a sanskari version of one night stand because they don't even really know the guy and so there are no feelings involved. another said that some couples in elders generation, intimacy continues to be without feelings because the couple don't necessarily like each other as people but they were stuck living with each other... another woman said that even with dating/relationship, sometimes it is like that -- women are awkwardly pushed into intimacy as they want to please their boyfriend.

anyway this drama situation looks extreme because she is going to have one night stand to get benefits. but there are women out there who will say that till feelings come, intimacy in arranged marriage is awkward for some and it can happen in relationships as well...... but for others, it may be perfectly comfortable and they don't feel awkward at all.

so depending on individual but the idea of one night stand where you go into it willingly but it is still awkward and difficult choice may be happening in other types of situations and scenarios as well.

Viaan's company has any HR policy they hire ONLY unmarried/single woman or they prefer woman with NO kids? 😛 They need to clarify viewers, as in metros like Mumbai there are unmarried working mothers, nothing wrong.

Katha in Tue episode was shown giving moral teaching's to her son about NOT cheating, so why is she cheating her current company then?😕

I know it's illegal even though they ask such stupid questions. I was 27 n unmarried when i gave interview for my current job. I still remember HR had asked me about my future plans, whether my husband n in-laws will be ok with night shifts and all... Just imagine what kind of questions they must be asking to single parents and divorcee.

For the name sake they call it comp's policy to not to interfere in employee's personal life. But they ask all personal questions in interviews.

Originally posted by: Tris03

Where was the scooter scene?? I didn't see this one😭😭😭

There was a scooter scene in one promo. It seems Viaan was asking for forgiveness, Katha was adamant. Her scooty broke down .Viaan will come and repair it. mujhe itna hi yaad hei.

Originally posted by: Nabni_blr31

There was a scooter scene in one promo. It seems Viaan was asking for forgiveness, Katha was adamant. Her scooty broke down .Viaan will come and repair it. mujhe itna hi yaad hei.

Thankyou🤗 I'll go and see this promo...wow yaar..this is interesting 🤩🤩

Originally posted by: Nabni_blr31

I know it's illegal even though they ask such stupid questions. I was 27 n unmarried when i gave interview for my current job. I still remember HR had asked me about my future plans, whether my husband n in-laws will be ok with night shifts and all... Just imagine what kind of questions they must be asking to single parents and divorcee.

For the name sake they call it comp's policy to not to interfere in employee's personal life. But they ask all personal questions in interviews.

I know yaar I have been through such interviews myself na. I was lucky that I was in position to walk out as there were lot of options for me in market, as in so many companies.. but not everyone has that option..

same me earlier had tried my best to answer such questions when I was new in industry...

It was 10+ yrs of exp, strong resume and life lessons learnt which gave me confidence to reply and walk out..

I guess according to her this lie is harmless as she is doing her job well. So this lie won't effect anyone. But that offer of other company was a crime it can effect lots of employees who depend on this projects revenue . She doesn't want to save her son at cost of others misery.

But this lie of being single is harmless to the company until it leads to loss of company in anyway

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

people have different levels of comfort when it comes to physical intimacy.

so not wanting to hurt anyone's feels and beliefs; hope everyone here is above 18 -- once late night in office, a bunch of us ladies were randomly discussing all sorts of things and the topic went to arranged marriage and how awkward/difficult it can be to adjust. one woman said that for some, the first night is just a sanskari version of one night stand because they don't even really know the guy and so there are no feelings involved. another said that some couples in elders generation, intimacy continues to be without feelings because the couple don't necessarily like each other as people but they were stuck living with each other... another woman said that even with dating/relationship, sometimes it is like that -- women are awkwardly pushed into intimacy as they want to please their boyfriend.

anyway this drama situation looks extreme because she is going to have one night stand to get benefits. but there are women out there who will say that till feelings come, intimacy in arranged marriage is awkward for some and it can happen in relationships as well...... but for others, it may be perfectly comfortable and they don't feel awkward at all.

so depending on individual but the idea of one night stand where you go into it willingly but it is still awkward and difficult choice may be happening in other types of situations and scenarios as well.

Ah, honest answer... It's just speculation from our side.

Unless one has been in such situations like ONS, intimacy without relationship...its all but guess and even then it varies from person to person and their beliefs..

Only reasoning behind my thought process is that either way hurting oneself is better than hurting others..so while I can't even comprehend how hard or easy this ONS may be, it does seem the right option based on this belief system.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

people have different levels of comfort when it comes to physical intimacy.

so not wanting to hurt anyone's feels and beliefs; hope everyone here is above 18 -- once late night in office, a bunch of us ladies were randomly discussing all sorts of things and the topic went to arranged marriage and how awkward/difficult it can be to adjust. one woman said that for some, the first night is just a sanskari version of one night stand because they don't even really know the guy and so there are no feelings involved. another said that some couples in elders generation, intimacy continues to be without feelings because the couple don't necessarily like each other as people but they were stuck living with each other... another woman said that even with dating/relationship, sometimes it is like that -- women are awkwardly pushed into intimacy as they want to please their boyfriend.

anyway this drama situation looks extreme because she is going to have one night stand to get benefits. but there are women out there who will say that till feelings come, intimacy in arranged marriage is awkward for some and it can happen in relationships as well...... but for others, it may be perfectly comfortable and they don't feel awkward at all.

so depending on individual but the idea of one night stand where you go into it willingly but it is still awkward and difficult choice may be happening in other types of situations and scenarios as well.

Another point...this discussion actually reminded me of a fan fiction I read here on IF "Second Chances" (it's taken down now). The FL asks her friend same thing and wondered how people can just have s** without feeling. Apparently the ML (before his marriage with FL) was having casual flings with other girls without any feelings and those girls knew it, still chose it for their own reasons, mostly he was rich, handsome and good in bed.

@bold : yes that's how it is....

Originally posted by: Km181

Another point...this discussion actually reminded me of a fan fiction I read here on IF "Second Chances" (it's taken down now). The FL asks her friend same thing and wondered how people can just have s** without feeling. Apparently the ML (before his marriage with FL) was having casual flings with other girls without any feelings and those girls knew it, still chose it for their own reasons, mostly he was rich, handsome and good in bed.

@bold : yes that's how it is....

if we keep aside religious or social beliefs, people have actually very different comfort levels when it comes to intimacy. however, people in fast lifestyle thinks it is strange that some people want emotional connect before intimacy while sanskari people find it difficult to understand how intimacy can occur without those feelings. ultimately it is about what feels comfortable for you and that will depend on the invidual, how they are grown up and also some stuff like biological hormones etc. so it is a combination of different things but it is difficult to have these conversations....