Ranbir Kapoor -My Biggest Insecurity"When My Child is 20, I Will Be 60 - Page 3

Wow Bira, I had no idea it works that way.

Thanks man.

🤡

Does he even thinks and talk. Well its reality of life but than why think abt the future when you can happily live and create moments with your daughter now and cherish every moment of her growing up now

Trust me RK when your kids are 20 yrs they will prefer to play football with their friends rather than with you🤣

He is thinking abt 60 yrs when life is so unpredictable and anything can happen anytime. Its not in our hands the control is not in our hands. Whatever it is the sentence is ' 'live the moment now'

It is easier said than done. What he is thinking is natural. Football is a mere example.

It works both ways, child having senior parent/s in age, also have insecurities of them passing away. It is basic human nature.

Losing a parent in any age is difficult more so when child is young. Same goes for parents worrying about their child cos they are older. They might not think continuously but at some point it does come in mind. Let's not be critical of him for having normal parental feelings.

What he said is not wrong at all. Those insecurities are for real in so many people but not many speak about it. There is a lot of baggage that comes for both parents and the kids with that kind of age difference. It is not just about playing with them when they are 20, it is about doing a lot of other things with them.

The max a parent can do is be an active parent and maintain a very healthy lifestyle, I have no idea about Ranbir but he already looks so jaded so may be one step in that direction might help.

Actually, becoming a first-time dad with 40 isn't something to worry about but I agree with you, Theek, that the most important thing in the relation between a parent and his/her child is to be an "active" parent (which doesn't mean being predominently active to earn money...if THAT would be the case, even an age gap of 25 wouldn't make things better).

someone tell him thats not an insecurity, its called a fact. School poora kiya hota toh pata hota difference. 🤔

He is correct in a way ----Its better to have when Men are in 30s

and women around 26

What 20-year-old wants to play football with their dad instead of hanging with their friends?