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Posted: 2 years ago
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At least close to 40-50%
This doesn't mean Sumbul is very innocent.

- He knows very well Sumbul has crush on him, he is letting her get close to him

- She is emotionally getting effected when they fight, specially when Tina gets involved

- He has disrespected her many times yelled at her, she goes back to him😡 and starts hugging



Most important: When her dad came and warned as well Salman's warning, Shalin SHOULD have maintained distance from Sumbul and kept it very minimum. But he didn't and he played along.

40 years old man doesn't understand why 20 years old girl is getting attracted to him?

Is she just looking for friendship? and why would he want to give her that friendship when she is attached to him. He was supposed to walk away from this. Total mess

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Exactly Shalin needs her in HIS game and understands it's eventually good for footage and his game. He is also one of those male chauvinistic types who needs women around to do his work, cook for him and pamper him. Sumbul gives him that nd feeds his ego. Tina becomes brutally honest, avoids him but he still again run after her, emotionally manipulate with his apologies and she gives in. If someone like Tina can fall for Shalin multiple time then Sumbul is no Brainer


Sumbul is very young and naive at the end who has to see the world to understand self respect nd someone like Shalin.

Shalin is at equal fault if not more for he encourages her more time and again. Initially I felt ok he wants to support her and actually he emotionally validates Sumbul which no one else in the house does nd thts why she is unable to let go of him. But these creepy hugging n all that he initiates quite often, doesn't he realize what impact it would make for her on national tv and for someone like Sumbul who has her whole career ahead.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Sumbul continued her friendship with shalin despite warnings from her dad , salman . She ignored the suggestions and remarks of other contestants. Everything she says and does, are her own choices, her own decisions. The responsibility of her actions should be primarily attributed to sumbul. Contributions of shalin and Tina to thus mess is only secondary.

She is part of industry since her teens. It's hard to beleive that she does not understand fake freindships.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Sumbul has come to this show fully aware of what it is. Her actions are her own. I haven't seen Shalin going and hugging her or sitting beside her giving advice. Not defending Shalin, but he doesnt do things with Sumbul that he does with Tina. Ab agar woh hi jaakar hug karegi what he suppose to do? That girl has no self control. She finds reason to be around Shalin. Tina acts like a jealous wife who's husband is being snatched away by souten 🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: locopoco

Sumbul has come to this show fully aware of what it is. Her actions are her own. I haven't seen Shalin going and hugging her or sitting beside her giving advice. Not defending Shalin, but he doesnt do things with Sumbul that he does with Tina. Ab agar woh hi jaakar hug karegi what he suppose to do? That girl has no self control. She finds reason to be around Shalin. Tina acts like a jealous wife who's husband is being snatched away by souten 🤣


Yes i agree but Every time shalin sumbul argued specifically Shalin saying he wouldn’t talk to her but he goes back every time Tina tried to stop him being too close to Sumbul he never listened. He should have ghosted her and kept it to the point only


definitely Sumbul is more at fault because she ignored her dad as well on this

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Posted: 2 years ago
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There's only so much you can do given that you stay in same house. So ignoring someone entire time is not possible. But distancing is, but Sumbul can hardly maintain that either.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I haven't seen Shalin encouraging Sumbul's crush / whatever towards him at all. He behaves like a friend and a disrespecting 'friend' many of the times. Sumbul is one refusing to let go of him.

I saw BB promo in which SK tells Shalin that he is aware of Sumbul's possessiveness towards him. Even if I take it that he is lying when he says no, how is it his responsibility to make sure that Sumbul no longer crushes on him?

Sumbul is an adult who is responsible for her own actions fully. In this show, she has still got advice from everyone - SK, father, housemates. Shalin is not at fault for Sumbul's feelings or behaviour at all.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Shalin is just playing his game. He has gotten two women fighting for his attention and fawning over him. Works in his case.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Snowfally

I haven't seen Shalin encouraging Sumbul's crush / whatever towards him at all. He behaves like a friend and a disrespecting 'friend' many of the times. Sumbul is one refusing to let go of him.

I saw BB promo in which SK tells Shalin that he is aware of Sumbul's possessiveness towards him. Even if I take it that he is lying when he says no, how is it his responsibility to make sure that Sumbul no longer crushes on him?

Sumbul is an adult who is responsible for her own actions fully. In this show, she has still got advice from everyone - SK, father, housemates. Shalin is not at fault for Sumbul's feelings or behaviour at all.


Obviously he is not encouraging the crush she has on him because he has clearly told everyone including Sumbul that he likes Tina but he has responsibility to understand if sumbul had crush on him he should have maintained distance meaning being there for her hugging her asking her to make chicken or cooking for him! Should have been limited

He should have treated her like other housemates not a best friend. Now it’s just a mess. She will say Shalin never said no from being too close him

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Posted: 2 years ago
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S13 Paras told Mahira once that she needs to cut it off with Asim. I am surprised that Mahira maintained her distance throughout 4 months


i can understand it’s tougher in the same house to do that but you gotta be mentally tough for that

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