How do you deal with it? - Page 2

Marriage is NOTHING but enslavement of woman and destroying her identity, cutting her off from her parents, family, friends, hometown, making her leave her job, home, hobbies, work and making her punching mag, doormat, sex object, cook, maid, hostess, babysitter for man and scapegoat and caretaker for man's family and guests.

I have never seen a happy married woman. Rather women are not accepted all life and usually blamed for all issues by in laws and often never allowed any say in raising own kids.

Marriage is also biggest reason for bias against girl child and main reason why girl's birth is unwelcome or she is called paraya dhan or guest at own parental home and is admonished more, judged all life, not allowed to have a career or mind of her own because others also keep telling her parents to bully or control her or else no one will marry her.

Bloody society crushes self esteem of girls and they hate you more if you are outspoken or have dreams to make own identity or do work in life and do not just want to marry or pop out babies. I hate how you are called marriage material or potential sex object or future mother all life or your grades and achievements are ignored just to focus on whether you cook or not. And you are asked to shut up ,lower your tone, gaze or learn to adjust.

Or you are also trolled online and given lame threats that no one will marry you. Or mocked if you choose to stay single on your own and slandered or character assassinated or seen as flawed or egoistic or mad or available in case you are not married and do not have marriage as a priority. I have seen even educated and earning women being called burden if they do not marry or told no one will keep them once their parents are no more or their siblings will find it hard to get married due to them being single. WTF?

I feel women should focus on only own aims in life be it studies or work or spirituality or adopt kids later or use IVF surrogacy to have kids if they want later. No need to focus on marriage shit or bully and judge other females as marriage material.

Women tolerating shit of husbands, brothers and pampering sons rotten and bullying other women or reducing women to just glamour objects or breeding machines are part of the problem and add to male entitlement and making world hell for women.

Women should totally shun marriage. Man loses nothing in marriage but only gains additionally and sees wife and kids as acquisitions like car or house. Whereas woman loses everything in marriage. Why no one asks man to cut off from family or adjust or change name or do housework or take care of in laws after marriage? Why only woman should lose it all?

Misogyny is so deep rooted everywhere. And I have face it to in real life. I was criticised and made fun because of my feminist approach.

Men think it's a man's world and women should live according to them.

That is their hypocrisy. They mock women if women marry a man who earns more or is more educated or has higher social status while they themselves feel their fragile egos hurt and feel emasculated if they see a woman who earns more or has higher status or is more educated, independent, fearless and vocal.

Doglapan hai bas.

They see women as inferior or something to control or dominate or dictate. This is why they mock and infantilise women or insult their parents and instigate their parents also to bully girls and crush their self esteem and give threats or else no one will marry them.

Ha! As if women are dying to marry you.

Marriage is hyped by only men and glorified through movies and media. It has nothing for women.

Ironically women are held responsible for raising kids but men do not allow them to take decisions for kids either. Even kids suffer due to dominating, violent men. Later mom is blamed for all problems though it is man and in laws who do not let mother raise kids the way she wants.

Originally posted by: atominis

Marriage is NOTHING but enslavement of woman and destroying her identity, cutting her off from her parents, family, friends, hometown, making her leave her job, home, hobbies, work and making her punching mag, doormat, sex object, cook, maid, hostess, babysitter for man and scapegoat and caretaker for man's family and guests.

I have never seen a happy married woman. Rather women are not accepted all life and usually blamed for all issues by in laws and often never allowed any say in raising own kids.

Marriage is also biggest reason for bias against girl child and main reason why girl's birth is unwelcome or she is called paraya dhan or guest at own parental home and is admonished more, judged all life, not allowed to have a career or mind of her own because others also keep telling her parents to bully or control her or else no one will marry her.

Bloody society crushes self esteem of girls and they hate you more if you are outspoken or have dreams to make own identity or do work in life and do not just want to marry or pop out babies. I hate how you are called marriage material or potential sex object or future mother all life or your grades and achievements are ignored just to focus on whether you cook or not. And you are asked to shut up ,lower your tone, gaze or learn to adjust.

Or you are also trolled online and given lame threats that no one will marry you. Or mocked if you choose to stay single on your own and slandered or character assassinated or seen as flawed or egoistic or mad or available in case you are not married and do not have marriage as a priority. I have seen even educated and earning women being called burden if they do not marry or told no one will keep them once their parents are no more or their siblings will find it hard to get married due to them being single. WTF?

I feel women should focus on only own aims in life be it studies or work or spirituality or adopt kids later or use IVF surrogacy to have kids if they want later. No need to focus on marriage shit or bully and judge other females as marriage material.

Women tolerating shit of husbands, brothers and pampering sons rotten and bullying other women or reducing women to just glamour objects or breeding machines are part of the problem and add to male entitlement and making world hell for women.

Women should totally shun marriage. Man loses nothing in marriage but only gains additionally and sees wife and kids as acquisitions like car or house. Whereas woman loses everything in marriage. Why no one asks man to cut off from family or adjust or change name or do housework or take care of in laws after marriage? Why only woman should lose it all?

Originally posted by: atominis

That is their hypocrisy. They mock women if women marry a man who earns more or is more educated or has higher social status while they themselves feel their fragile egos hurt and feel emasculated if they see a woman who earns more or has higher status or is more educated, independent, fearless and vocal.

Doglapan hai bas.

They see women as inferior or something to control or dominate or dictate. This is why they mock and infantilise women or insult their parents and instigate their parents also to bully girls and crush their self esteem and give threats or else no one will marry them.

Ha! As if women are dying to marry you.

Marriage is hyped by only men and glorified through movies and media. It has nothing for women.

Ironically women are held responsible for raising kids but men do not allow them to take decisions for kids either. Even kids suffer due to dominating, violent men. Later mom is blamed for all problems though it is man and in laws who do not let mother raise kids the way she wants.

Insecure men always hate women out earning them or have a higher social status and want a woman with lesser financial and social status to easily abuse the woman. Also I don’t understand with this Alpha BS and incel spreading beliefs about woman being hypergamy and wanting rich men. My partner wasn’t clearly rich and I had higher finances. I liked him because I was attracted to him and he was a good person for me. They also say women over 25 have slept with dozens and why they are bad and expired, but I know over 25 year old women who haven’t had any sexual experience. Not that there’s a problem with having sex, but what they think are just so out of reality. How women can’t be leaders as they are emotional and so on. They take out their frustration of not having a girlfriend on to women and make the craziest assumptions to hate women. Bash men too who are in good relationships with women and call them cuck and everything.

Ignore incels. They are frustrated and blame all women and even hate own moms.

It is their entitlement talking here.

They hate women above 25 or vocal and educated women or earning women because a mature woman is hard to manipulate and does not get easily fooled by fake politeness or a mere flower or chocolate sent to her and she can easily see through bullshit.

They also mock achievements of women and project own jealousy or frustration on women claiming she must have slept around to get job or promotion.

I hope such cheapos are totally shunned by all women in life and even their moms, aunts, sisters desert them.

Originally posted by: atominis

Ignore incels. They are frustrated and blame all women and even hate own moms.

It is their entitlement talking here.

They hate women above 25 or vocal and educated women or earning women because a mature woman is hard to manipulate and does not get easily fooled by fake politeness or a mere flower or chocolate sent to her and she can easily see through bullshit.

They also mock achievements of women and project own jealousy or frustration on women claiming she must have slept around to get job or promotion.

I hope such cheapos are totally shunned by all women in life and even their moms, aunts, sisters desert them.

These sites and accounts need to be banned IMO. They are only taking us further in stoneage and radicalising young boys against women. I also see lot of such language being used by Indian men also against women and anti women pages run by men.

A lot of them are also right wingers or hyper religious and obsessed with birth rates and TFR.

They see women as nothing more than breeding machines.

I feel we should mass report such accounts and also need to build greater pressure on apps like Youtube, Twitter, FB etc to stop misogyny or boycott such apps that fail to control abuse.

Facebook is notorious for worst regressive propaganda.

I am 35 and I don't suffer fools or men. Shunning marriage and kids to live life on my own terms. I date and see men but nothing that has led to anything good. This is my way of coping with misogyny around me.

It's really sad because my 2 elder sisters still are in marriages that suffocate them and hinder their growth as people.

Parents don't raise their boys right in this country so they perpetrate the same patriarchy and misogyny of their parents generation. Now there are good men but very few. they are the exception and not the norm.

Originally posted by: The_Best

Also many people just don’t understand because they are privileged who had a childhood and family where they were supported for being a girl/woman so they don’t care and instead blame you to defend their culture or religion.

this is how the world deceives you.. Everything the world teaches you to achieve happiness and peace of mind is a lie. Human being they dive headfirst into every worldly conquest and end up with extreme confusion on why the emotional outcome have left them empty, lost, deceived and so much agony.. I and my sisters had freedom to do anything we want, like you said privileged childhood and family, but trust me when you make your soul purpose anything rather than worshipping God, you will lose yourself in a very soul crushing way..