Financial independence of girls - Page 2

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Here background is of Ahmedabad Gujarat India. I am from ahmedabad gujarat and I am Gujrati .

Yaha Beti bhag kar shaddi kar le toh itna bawal nahi hota jitna bawal beti kawari maa bane yah kisi hotel room mai ladke ke sath pakdi jaye tab hota hai.

Chahe ladki dependent ho yah independent, aj bhi gujarati Samaj mai kawari maa ko accept nahi kiya jata and traditional families chahe cultured ho yah uncultured , waha bhi Beti jab relatives ke samne hotel room mai pakdi jaye tab scene hota he hai.

Yaha shah family kitni bhi uncultured ho , kawari maa and Beti ka hotel room mai kisi ladke ke sath Jana is not normal as per their background.

India ab dhire dhire change ho raha hai but aj bhi kuch actions acceptable nahi hai.

Live in relationship is new normal in India but aj bhi sabke ghar mai normal nahi hai.

Financial independence ka baat bhi isiliye aya because pakhi considers herself adult ! 😆

Ofcourse anupama is dogli hypocrite because aj jab uski Beti ki baat ayi toh shakal par fear hai but once upon a time jab rakhi ki Beti bhag gayi thi tab rakhi ne apni beti par hand raise kiya but tab issu dogli anupama ne rakhi ko apni beti par thappad Marne ka haqq bhi nahi jatane diya tha! At that moment rakhi apna pain apni beti ko kaise dikhaye that was none of this dogli’s business fir bhi dogli dedhshani bann kar maa-Beti ke bich ayi thi uss din.

Anupama jaise lady ka divorce Lena kaun sa acceptable hai? Phir divorce ke baad ek aur baar pyar karna and second marriage karna toh door ki baat hai. Phir bhi dikhaya na. Yeh bhi dikha sakte the. It was not what's acceptable or what's not. Unko bas planning plotting dikhani thi toh dikha di.

I don't know what kids have you seen growing up,but I have still seen many kids who are respectful to their parents and heed their advice,and parents also understanding when to give their child space and when to push them in the right direction.

You can't expect your parents to be just giving and giving you all the love,money and care and you enjoying it as a kid,and then when you are financially capable of standing on your own feet to just ignore them completely.

There is a basic human decency that should be maintained be it of any generation.