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Hi! Hoping to gain your insight into this.

Is it possible for a manifestation to come back at an odd timing when you least expect it, especially when you completely forgot about it and let go years ago? Also, what do you think of twin flames? And how do you differentiate them from karmic connections?I feel like sometimes they mimic one another and it is really hard to tell them apart.

Originally posted by: Supari_khala

Hi! Hoping to gain your insight into this.

Is it possible for a manifestation to come back at an odd timing when you least expect it, especially when you completely forgot about it and let go years ago? Also, what do you think of twin flames? And how do you differentiate them from karmic connections?I feel like sometimes they mimic one another and it is really hard to tell them apart.

Woohoo

I manifested something today.

I took your suggestion and started with something very small and it actually came true at the end of the day. Didn’t even realise it until an hr later when I was in bed and it struck me “ I wrote that down today. Did that just happen ? “. I wasn’t expecting it ,Didn’t see it coming at all.

Thank you

Originally posted by: adventurousman

1) it’s not loa but you can certainly find those things out. Loa is simply like attracts like so you’ll attract what you’re. So to attract something else you have to be someone else who’s a vibrational match to that reality.

You can only know yourself through awareness. The more aware you’re of your thoughts, emotions and allow them without judgment the more you can accept yourself and see yourself as you’re. That seeing can actually bring in change. For eg I enter a dark room and I see a snake so what happens when I see the snake? I panic, I go into fight and flight mode, my stress hormones are released but then I switch on the light and find out it’s a rope.

The moment I see its a rope all fear disappears. I didn’t need to runaway, fight the snake, kill it. I just had to see it for what it is in this case it was a rope.

Seeing things clearly free us.

What we or others do is mostly unconscious patterns. They’re not aware of it and neither are we. It’s the conditioning nothing else. It’s also a personality type. There’re like 4 major archetypes and we all have our own personalities so if someone is more inclined to be mean then they would be rude unless they become aware that will happen automatically so it has nothing to do with you but yes you can be the kind of person they can take it out on so if someone tends to get angry a lot they’ll try to find someone or something to lash out on. Now if you’re a vibrational match to that then they’ll lash out on you otherwise they won’t or you won’t encounter them in that state. The energy will be different and if they still lash out you won’t participate therefore deriving them of all it’s power.

They also don’t want to be angry so if you dissipate that energy by not taking part in it they’ll calm down. So as I said you change and their reaction towards you will change.

2) it can’t be done through loa alone although you can do a lot by changing your focus but for all of this awareness is the key along with your intention.

So if you want something let’s say you want that girl/boy, by just imagining you’re with them won’t be enough because if there’re underline beliefs of self worth, acceptance, self love then those will come in the way. For that you need another healing modality. I posted a link to my previous thread on SSR and in that thread I talked about a lot of healing modalities.

You can then pick one and stick with it. You can for eg do quantum light breath by jeru kabbal. It’ll bring out a lot of stuff to the surface and you can release them. I also like it because it just works unconsciously. You don’t have to consciously sit and figure it out. You can also read his book finding clarity. He gives a lot of techniques there which you can use and heal yourself.

Internal family system is another one.

3) if you focus on something long enough you might make it happen but who’s making you focus on it? Where are they coming from? I actually came close to this and at the time I didn’t know what i was doing. I made myself so sick that I almost died but then I didn’t so there was something in me which still wanted to live or you can say the journey wasn’t over so don’t think about that stuff if you keep thinking you’re sick then you’ll be sick, you’ll feel sick, you’ll act like a sick person but knowing this why would you? Also don’t fear your thoughts or think this loa is some kind of force and that if you think negatively or of killing yourself then you’ll manifest it, it’s not that easy and there’re other forces at work so nothing to worry about 😁

4) loa is used for manifestation that’s it but if you’re not healed you’ll have a tough time manifesting as those blockages will interfere and as I said it’s all interconnected. You can use other healing modalities I mentioned above which can heal you.

5) yes but it’ll require a lot of work. Mostly it’ll be through meditation. Through being aware, through creating distance between you and what you see that includes your mind, body.

The influence of past won’t be done till you totally exhaust your karma which is not that easy as we first have to stop creating new karma so if I talk about this it’ll be too spiritual, you want me to talk about it?

Let’s imagine you’re not doing anything and it’s all just happening. Thoughts are happening, feelings are happening, images are popping up. Can you see all this happening within you and not do anything about it?

It can be done through meditation, being aware. You stop creating new karma when you see you’re not actually doing anything then you actually surrender because you just realized you were never in the driver seat to begin with. You were in the passenger seat thinking you are driving now that you know you’re not doing anything then you just relax and things happen.

The things that seem like you’re doing is also just happening. Next time you stand up see your body standing up instead of you, see legs walking instead of ‘you’ walking. See ears are hearing instead of I’m hearing then you become the observer. Someone abuses you but all you hear is words and there’s no who’s being effected by it.

The observer is separate from the observed. So if you can see your thoughts then you’re separate from the process of thinking because you’re the one who’s seeing it.

When you see another person you know it’s not you because there’s distance. You’re here and they’re there. There’s gap. If you can create the same gap which actually already exists. You can see your thoughts as something apart from you, something that is just happening and you’re aware of it but you’re the one who’s aware of it. Same goes for feelings.

But it’s a spiritual practice. Rupert spira teaches this kind of meditation really well so if you’re open to it I recommend him.

There’s also Osho’s dynamic meditation which will help you release a lot of unconscious stuff.

Then there’s un-doing by hyatt which will dismantle your whole personality, your way of being. https://www.amazon.com/Undoing-Yourself-Energized-Meditation-Devices/dp/1561840572

So start somewhere, take baby steps don’t wait around for more knowledge or whatever 😁👍

Hi adventurousman,

Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge.

Do you write blog or publish your thoughts somewhere ?

Please send us link so we can read and understand more on the topic.

Thanks.

Originally posted by: nema123

Hi adventurousman,

Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge.

Do you write blog or publish your thoughts somewhere ?

Please send us link so we can read and understand more on the topic.

Thanks.

thanks for your kind words, appreciate it 🙏

unfortunately I don’t, this is IF exclusive 😂

right now I’ve manifested a train ride that was supposed to be 2hrs but now it has taken four hours and it’s 1am here but I’m enjoying this 😂

Neuroplasticity is a thing. The neural networks in our brains are constantly changing. There are a lot of psychological techniques that work by harnessing neuroplasticity. However, there is a lot of bullshit and quackery that does not work. So you have to be able to differentiate between the two.

Gratitude journals and daily affirmations work. By regularly writing, sharing, and stating specific positive thoughts, you are exposing your brain to those positive thoughts. As your neurons regenerate, your neural networks rewire to make you a more positive, optimistic, or confident person based on what you say.

Gaslighting and negging also work for this very reason. By constantly exposing a person to negative and critical thoughts about themselves, you can make them less confident, codependent, self-doubting, and even self-loathing. It is why people have a hard time leaving abusive relationships. Their brains have become wired to self-doubt and depend on the abuser.

Habit hacking also works. It uses psychology to change your habits. Want to eat healthier, exercise more, become more organized, or become a morning person? A planned step-by-step approach that slowly changes your brain to form new habits helps. For example, the weight loss app Noom uses habit hacking to change how people eat and exercise. Psychologists often use habit hacking to help people change certain behaviors they wish to change.

But there are some things you simply cannot do. You cannot become rich or wealthy with just affirming and manifesting; you can develop an entrepreneurial attitude - but there are so many factors to making money - that an attitude adjustment will not work. You won't get a raise, get a promotion, get a new job by manifesting alone. Again there are multiple factors. You may increase your probability but there is no guarantee.

You cannot change certain genetic and medical factors. Sometimes depression and anxiety need drugs to treat chemical imbalances; positive thinking doesn't always make a depressed person happy. You cannot cure cancer or other diseases.

You cannot always influence other people. You're not going to get someone to fall in love or become your friend. Each person has free will and is influenced by people who interact with them. That is why gaslighting and negging don't work on all people and why abusers have to first isolate people from their support systems.

Finally, sometimes we simply don't have the discipline or diligence to fully follow through with all the steps needed to break a habit or change our attitudes. Some people will always need expert guidance to be able to accomplish things.

Originally posted by: -PoisonIvy-

Woohoo

I manifested something today.

I took your suggestion and started with something very small and it actually came true at the end of the day. Didn’t even realise it until an hr later when I was in bed and it struck me “ I wrote that down today. Did that just happen ? “. I wasn’t expecting it ,Didn’t see it coming at all.

Thank you

So happy for you 🤗 Yesterday, Calcifer told me her manifestation came true and today you did. Makes my heart happy. Once you start on this path, there’s no going back. May you continue to remain successful in your journey!

Originally posted by: Supari_khala

Hi! Hoping to gain your insight into this.

Is it possible for a manifestation to come back at an odd timing when you least expect it, especially when you completely forgot about it and let go years ago? Also, what do you think of twin flames? And how do you differentiate them from karmic connections?I feel like sometimes they mimic one another and it is really hard to tell them apart.

most of them come when you least expect it. When you really let go and not looking for it to happen that’s when it happens and this can’t be used as a technique to manifest it because it won’t be actually letting go of it.

There’re karmic energy cords that bind us with some individuals and that might also be for a limited amount of time. When the karmic exchange is done, the karmic debt is paid off you go your own separate ways that’s why some use karmic/energy cord cutting to speed up the process.

you can just manifest someone who’s just like you or is a match. I had a friend who was my twin flame but then we both moved to different parts of the world so the karmic exchange was done and that was it.

another time when I joined a new school, I didn’t fit in that class as the teacher really liked me because of how well I was doing. She gave my example to the boys as they weren’t doing as well as the girls. The topper hated me because she was no longer the topper and I as a kid didn’t see a way out but thanks to the teacher who suggested that I skip a class as I could do it and voila in the new class everyone became my friend.

if i didn’t skip that grade I’d have been stuck with the same class for many many years so sometimes things work out like that where the energy is not matching and then it finds a way

another time I was stuck with a bunch of people in a house and there was no chemistry. One guy was a bully which reminded me of my own bullies so I saw that but at that time I didn’t know about loa or anything but I saw what was happening and I just refused to give it any energy otherwise I would repeat the same pattern and one by one they all left and the new housemates were all very kind and caring. The energy matched but it was only after I refused to play my part as the victim. There’s zulm karne wala and then there’s also zulm sehne wala and it’s not filmy where you stand up for yourself and beat them up, no none of that but you just stop being that. In this case the bully needs someone on which he can take it out someone he can bully but if you’re not giving it energy. You’re not even seeing him as the bully. The bully is operating as a bully only because he identifies himself as a bully and sees himself as that and works very hard for you to see him the same way but what if you don’t? His world will crumble as he can’t play that role anymore at least not with you. You’re challenging him to be someone else and that will scare the shit out of him and this goes for everyone as all of us are stuck playing some role.

if you don’t want that individual to be that way, don’t try to change them, first stop seeing him that way.

if you see the good in the bad guy, he’ll also start seeing good in himself through your eyes and the changes will happen. They’ll happen unconsciously.

anyways I’m going on a tangent 😂

Can I manifest dimples? Asking for a mate. 😬

Originally posted by: adventurousman

most of them come when you least expect it. When you really let go and not looking for it to happen that’s when it happens and this can’t be used as a technique to manifest it because it won’t be actually letting go of it.

There’re karmic energy cords that bind us with some individuals and that might also be for a limited amount of time. When the karmic exchange is done, the karmic debt is paid off you go your own separate ways that’s why some use karmic/energy cord cutting to speed up the process.

you can just manifest someone who’s just like you or is a match. I had a friend who was my twin flame but then we both moved to different parts of the world so the karmic exchange was done and that was it.

another time when I joined a new school, I didn’t fit in that class as the teacher really liked me because of how well I was doing. She gave my example to the boys as they weren’t doing as well as the girls. The topper hated me because she was no longer the topper and I as a kid didn’t see a way out but thanks to the teacher who suggested that I skip a class as I could do it and voila in the new class everyone became my friend.

if i didn’t skip that grade I’d have been stuck with the same class for many many years so sometimes things work out like that where the energy is not matching and then it finds a way

another time I was stuck with a bunch of people in a house and there was no chemistry. One guy was a bully which reminded me of my own bullies so I saw that but at that time I didn’t know about loa or anything but I saw what was happening and I just refused to give it any energy otherwise I would repeat the same pattern and one by one they all left and the new housemates were all very kind and caring. The energy matched but it was only after I refused to play my part as the victim. There’s zulm karne wala and then there’s also zulm sehne wala and it’s not filmy where you stand up for yourself and beat them up, no none of that but you just stop being that. In this case the bully needs someone on which he can take it out someone he can bully but if you’re not giving it energy. You’re not even seeing him as the bully. The bully is operating as a bully only because he identifies himself as a bully and sees himself as that and works very hard for you to see him the same way but what if you don’t? His world will crumble as he can’t play that role anymore at least not with you. You’re challenging him to be someone else and that will scare the shit out of him and this goes for everyone as all of us are stuck playing some role.

if you don’t want that individual to be that way, don’t try to change them, first stop seeing him that way.

if you see the good in the bad guy, he’ll also start seeing good in himself through your eyes and the changes will happen. They’ll happen unconsciously.

anyways I’m going on a tangent 😂

Wow you have said so many profound things in one post, I’m kind of stumped tbh, especially with the bolded part. When I forced myself to see the light in a certain person, it never happened. For 6 years, it just never did. You are telling me because I was trying too hard to find any semblance of good instead of simply detaching? But years later, when I gave that connection no energy and simply live my life, this person is becoming what I wished to see in him back then. This person was the reason for my descent into madness and eventually to this path. So am I then the same for him? Isn’t that the very definition of a twin flame? Am I making any sense at all?

You write deep stuff. But honestly I never saw bullies change.