Originally posted by: shirin04
Exactly I don't like this Infantalizing vidhi on both dev and HP side. Vidhi is a grown adult who can take her own decision .Dev's protectiveness was a lot about her family. That was quite dissapointing. It's like vidhi can't become an adult anywhere. Even dev's concern was what her family would say which is not normal for any boss to worry about . In the future if this relationship needs to be shown, vidhi has to be shown taking strong decisions warna lagega ek bacche ke sath relationship mein hai dev jisko constantly care ki zarurat hai warna usko kuch ho jayega. It is such a constant thread in hindi serials where female leads are just passive onlookers onto their own life and letting other people take leads for them. I am hopefully since they started with a meek vidhi she will emerge out stronger and be more determined in what she wants and this progress needs to start with her telling her father she wants to work .
Aaj pehli baar dono Dev and HP ek hi Umar ke Lage due to their reaction to the dress and the way they are treating Vidhi like a child🤣🤣 I hope jis tarah Dev ko sunaya usi tarah Vidhi HP ko bhi thoda suna de😆 I found him closing the door on Dev too rude. Like seriously dude your daughter is a 21 year old grown woman. You can't expect Dev to baby sit her everywhere. Even he has a life of his own, why do you expect him to always take care of Vidhi?
And his returning laptop was too extreme. Did he even ask Vidhi what she wants? If people played some mischief with her, she has to stop working altogether? I understand his concern but his reactions are extreme.
@bold- Agree!! It's high time they show some growth in her. Now I really want Vidhi to stand up for herself. Dev has done enough for her and instilled a lot of confidence in her. Itna hone ke baad bhi if she can't stand up for herself toh Dev shouldn't bother requesting HP
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