No Dear, it speaks Volumes about You. This is Hilarious ! That Obituary is a Badge of Shame for Imlie given by Aditya - how is it Not Sl**-Shaming ? And that too, in front of the Entire Society. His Assumption itself was wrong- He should've clarified it with Imlie then and there. He honestly left no stone unturned to hurt Imlie after that. Even at the end of the Aatank Track, He was spewing vitriol against Her and Aryan in the lines of "How could I let your Wedding happen without any Festivities ?", and that too in front of Meethi Amma.
And as far as I can recall, I had termed all 3 of them, Aditya-Aryan-Imlie - as Imperfect Ones, in a Post before. Aryan and Imlie have both done blunders. And the Forced Marriage was definitely a wrong move on His part. I could understand His Intentions, but it was Impacting Imlie adversely.
But Sl**-Shaming is the one thing Aryan had Never done - Not to Imlie, or to Any Woman for that matter. Even in Badi Maa's presence, BabyDoll Ji would have been shamed with several terms had it been in another Household; even in Her case, Aryan just kept a Distance from Her and Never insulted Her. Even after She had harmed Imlie during the Wedding, He lost His Cool and asked Her to Leave the City - but Never did He insult Her.
Contrary to your belief, Language is an indicator of a Person. Aryan saying : "It is Imlie's Choice and I have to Respect that." indicates that He learnt from the mistake he committed during the Forced Marriage Track.
And Dear, saying "Imlie Slept Around" means that He's accusing Her of Cheating. While saying that "She has someone else in Her Life Now." means that He is backing off in front of Her Choice. Read some Good Books, and then maybe, just maybe, you would be able to grasp the Difference.